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Merri BRANTLEY Obituary

BRANTLEY, Merri M. Quietly on the evening of March 4, with out any pomp or fuss, just as Merri would have preferred, she peacefully left this earth and crossed over into the beautiful clouds of heaven to be with our Father. Merri M. Brantley, age 58, was the loving daughter of retired Air Force Col. Gene and Lucia Brantley and loyal sister to Beverley (Jimmy) and Sandra (Stephen). She was a loving and doting aunt to three beautiful nieces, Cara Leigh Creighton, Kimberly Creighton, Stephanie Creighton, and two handsome nephews, Clint Goethe and Logan Goethe. She was born on 11/3/59 in Okinawa, Japan, where her father was stationed, and spent her youth growing up in Belgium before coming stateside. Japan may have been her place of birth but Georgia was her home. A journalism graduate from Brenau University, she began her career as a writer for several publications in Georgia before moving to Atlanta in the early 80s to work on a political campaign. Bitten by the political bug, she went on to work for then state House Minority Leader Johnny Isakson, now Georgia's Senior U.S. Senator. Merri then crossed the ropes to start a new career by lobbying on behalf of the Georgia Association of Educators and as the director of internal communications for the association. Her introduction to public education led to her position as the director of policy for the state superintendent of schools, where she also served as the superintendent's liaison to the state House. As the republican tidal wave swept over the state capitol, she was tapped as the Senate Press Director - leading the media operations for the 56 members of the upper chamber. Still passionate about education, she most recently was employed by Georgia Gwinnett College as the Executive Director of Governmental Affairs, where she was a tireless advocate for the state's youngest unit of higher education on the local, state and national levels. During her tenure, she worked closely with friends on both sides of the aisle to secure not only bond money to help her institution grow physically, but also to bring notable speakers to commencement ceremonies and to the classroom in order to broaden the horizons of the youth that had selected GGC as their alma mater. When she wasn't working, Merri loved to care for her parents and spoil her nieces and nephews, as well as the children of her friends. She also used her incredible writing and editing skills to work on her own novel and a political short story, as well as cooking and hosting dinner parties for friends. She recently moved to Grayson, GA and was looking forward to working in her new yard growing her favorite flowers, hydrangeas. She was a voracious reader, lover of the color pink and could recite in her sleep the script for Gone with the Wind and all the episodes of Designing Women. While her given middle name was Marlene, over the years her friends substituted it with "Grace," first dubbed by her many friends within the communications staffs of the various state affiliates of the National Education Association. At the state capitol, she was known as Merri Grace, Queen of the third floor and keeper of the Gold Dome Etiquette Guide. The press corps called her "Sweet B". Others simply called her friend. Rest assured, Merri Grace was loved by more people than she allowed herself to believe. A memorial service will be held for friends and family at Georgia Gwinnett College in the student center on Thursday, March 8 at 9 a.m. Visitation for friends and family will be held at H.M. Patterson & Son-Oglethorpe Hill Chapel, 4550 Peachtree Road NE, Atlanta, GA from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. A private funeral burial ceremony will take place in Albany, GA on Friday, March 9 for her immediate family. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Georgia Gwinnett College Foundation for the Merri M. Brantley Scholarship Fund by contacting Barbara Lund, Executive Director of Advancement Services, at 678.407.5265 or [email protected]. "And that is the night the lights went out in Georgia" - Julia Sugarbaker (Designing Women).

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Mar. 7, 2018.

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Nancy Badertscher

March 19, 2018

Merri -- I love you and miss you. Be in joy and peace until we meet again.

B Moore

March 13, 2018

Dear family and friends,

I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort your heart and give you strength at this sad time. 2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17

March 11, 2018

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

March 10, 2018

I am so sorry for your loss, but God promises to soon bring death to a end 1Co15:26.

Martha

March 10, 2018

Sorry for your loss. May you find peace and hope by trusting in God. Romans 15:13.

Mamie Butts

March 9, 2018

Merri Grace was something to be reckon with. As her friend Amanda Seals recalled, Her shoes matched her purse, which were coordinated with her earrings. Never a day went by that Merri was not
truly a Designing Woman fashionista!!! I'm glad that God allowed our paths to cross at Georgia Association of Educators. Her untiring efforts in the political arena never ceased to amaze me and yes, even as editor of the Update, her grammatical skills was on point, even when someone corrected her writing, she would always say to me "I'll change it but that is not correct." RIP Merri!!!

Toni Wood

March 9, 2018

Dear Gene and Lucia, Merri was such a treasure and I will miss our chats on Facebook. I'm with the two of you every step. Love Toni Meetze Wood

Jamika Needom

March 9, 2018

As I often called you Auntie Merri, you will be in my heart and memories forever. May God give your family peace and strength during this time. Heaven gained a very sweet yet stylish angel!
Jamika

Amy Martin Bond

March 8, 2018

I am going to miss you, dear sweet, Merri. You played a significant and pivotal role in the lives of many and in my life from the time I was barely out of diapers through adulthood. Thank you for being you - the shining light in a sometimes dark world. I thank you for all that you have taught me, including how to be a proper Brenau woman, the importance of serving others, to refrain from ending a sentence with a preposition, and the list goes on and is never ending. I am not quite ready to say goodbye to you, and doubt that time will ever come. So long for now. I have and will always, always love you, near or far, but forever in my heart. Amy

CW

March 7, 2018

To the family of Merri Brantley . I'm very sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort be with you at this time of sorrow and be comfort and strengthen by God's promise at Isa25:8.

Psalm 29:11 Parker

March 7, 2018

My deeps condolence to the family and friends of Merri. May you loving memories you shared comfort your sadness and may God's written words strengthen you.

March 5, 2018

My deepest condolences to your family during this most difficult time. There are no words that can ease the pain of losing someone so beloved. May you find comfort and peace in knowing that your loved one is in God's memory, because those who pass on are precious in his eyes. - Psalms 116:15.

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4550 Peachtree Road Ne, Atlanta, GA 30319

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9:00 a.m.

Georgia Gwinnett College in the student center

GA 30319

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