Helen Ruth (DeFouw) Cornell
1933 - 2020
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Helen Ruth (DeFouw) Cornell

Scottsdale - Helen Cornell, 86, of Scottsdale, AZ passed away peacefully at home on June 20, 2020 with her family by her side. Helen was born on July 19, 1933 in West Allis, Wisconsin to Nettie and Henry DeFouw. She was the fifth of six children. Helen graduated from West Allis Central High School in 1951. After graduating high school, she was awarded the Allis-Chalmer scholarship to Lake Forest College, in Illinois where she graduated in 1955. Shortly after graduation, she married Richard F. Cornell on August 20, 1955. Their marriage was blessed with three daughters, Deborah Jeanne (Cornell) Pool - 1957, Mary Elizabeth Cornell - 1961, and Kathleen Carol (Cornell) Hanrahan - 1963. Helen was an ongoing student throughout her adult life and a woman of strong faith. In addition to her career as a journalist and public relations professional, she received an advanced degree in "Education for Ministry" from the University of the South, Sewanee. She also studied and received her national accreditation as a PR professional (APR) from the Public Relations Society of America in 1987 and became a lifetime member of the Arizona Press Women. Over the course of her thirty-year career, Helen served as a writer for the Maryvale Star, before becoming the Editor in the early 1970's. She was a reporter for the Phoenix Gazette covering the growth and development of small emerging cities west of Phoenix (AZ). She founded and partnered a public relations firm. And, before accepting her most treasured position as "Grandma Extraordinaire" in early 1991, Helen served as the Public Information Officer and Special Events Coordinator for the City of Glendale, AZ (1977 - 1990) - a position she genuinely loved. During her tenure with the City she was responsible for creating and managing Glendale's signature events which included the annual Balloon Race and the 4th of July celebration, in addition to ensuring the activities of the City were properly communicated to the public. After achieving career success, Helen filled the last chapter of her life as a caregiver/nanny for her grandchildren. From 1991 until 2014 when her youngest granddaughter graduated high school, Helen provided a nurturing environment that gave each of her six grandchildren: Rachel Limberg, Joshua Weirick, Michael Pool, Jeffrey Hanrahan, Caroline Pool and Katelyn Hanrahan a sense of family, and unconditional love. Known to each of them as "Gram" she will be remembered for all the adventures they enjoyed together, the experiences shared during their "trips to school in Gram's car" and the pranks they played on each other. Helen was preceded to Heaven by her parents, her brothers Harry, Harold and Howard DeFouw, her sister Marguerite Phinney and her ex-husband Richard Cornell. She is survived by a family who loves her dearly, her sister Alyce (Russell Weiss), daughters Debbie Pool (Kevin Pool), Mary Cornell, Kathy Hanrahan (Tom Hanrahan); her grandchildren - Rachel Limberg, Michael (& Whitney) Pool, Joshua Weirick, Jeffrey (& Michelle-Wallace) Hanrahan, Caroline (& Adán) Ordoñez, Katie (& Andrew) Stephens and her great grandchildren (the true sparkle in Gigi's eyes): Lucas, Emiliana, Quinn, Asher, Ari, Kiera, Isla, Camilo and Baby Abby who is due in August of 2020. Helen is also survived by her extended family to include her Hanrahan family, cousins, nieces, nephews, and their children, as well as friends whose lives she changed with her presence. A small Memorial Services was held on June 24th for her immediate family, but a "Celebration of Helen's Life" is being planned for later in the summer at her beloved church, Good Shepard of the Hills in Cave Creek.

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Published in The Arizona Republic from Jun. 23 to Jun. 28, 2020.
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5 entries
June 28, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
June 27, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
June 25, 2020
I spent many wonderful Arizona Press Women retreats at Picture Rocks Retreat near with Helen. She was what I would call a fine, gentlewoman and skilled journalist. She is missed.
Joan Westlake
June 25, 2020
Helen was a beautiful soul. She treated me like a daughter and I feel very blessed to have known her! You will be missed!
Gena Wade
June 24, 2020
Our last opportunity to be together was Andrew and Katies Wedding Oct 2018. My Aunt Helen has been part of all my life memories even though we lived far apart, and I am thankful that even with the burden of pain and illness that she remained such an active and positive force as part of her big family, always surrounded by love.
Andrew Weiss
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