1941
2020
Antoinette Susan (Etre) Mattero, 79 of Millbury, a devoted mother, grandmother, and friend passed away at home surrounded by her loving family on Thursday, October 15, 2020, after a courageous 37-year battle with breast cancer.
Ann was born and raised in Worcester, one of three children of Victor and Philomena (Germain) Etre. She graduated from Worcester Girls Trade School and worked many years in mental health for the Commonwealth of Massachusetts at Westborough State Hospital before retiring.
Antoinette is survived by her four loving children, Joanne C. Parenti and her husband Joseph with whom she lived, Joseph M. Mattero, Jr. and his wife Mae of Worcester, Patsy A. Mattero and his wife Marcia of Smithfield, RI, Jodi A. Fortunato and her husband Nicholas of Auburn; seven grandchildren, Sarah, Francis and his fiancée Brittany, Jacqueline and Vincent Mattero, Sofia and Giuliana Fortunato, and Michael White; a sister, Carol Rutkiewicz, brother John Etre; her Uncle Albert Etre; Aunt Ann Rucci; several nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends. Besides her parents, her daughter Patricia Ann Mattero, granddaughter Gabrielle Mattero and former husband Joseph Mattero, Sr.—whom she remained close friends with over the years—predeceased her.
Antoinette was extremely religious and a woman of faith. She was a member, regular church attendee, and eucharistic minister of both St. Peter’s Catholic Church in Worcester and Our Lady of the Assumption Church in Millbury. Ann was also a certified florist, quilter, and cake decorator. She loved to crochet and knit. She loved spending time with her children, grandchildren, family, and friends. A notable and accomplished cook, she found great pride in feeding anyone who entered her home. Ann especially looked forward to all holidays, especially Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. On Fridays, Ann could be found spending time with friends at Cut Loose Hair studio and Cordis Mills in Millbury.
The Mattero family would especially like to thank her oncologist of 37 years, Dr. Susan Donohue, her Hospice Nurse Nina Thomas, the Overlook VNA Hospice in Charlton, and Fr. Dan Mulcahy for the comfort, compassion, and care they gave to our mother.
Relatives and friends are invited to calling hours, Sunday, October 18th from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. in the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St. Her funeral will be held Monday, October 19th from the funeral home with a procession to St Brigid’s Church, 59 Main St Millbury where her celebration of Christian burial mass will be held at 12 noon. Burial will follow in St. John’s Cemetery. In lieu of flowers donations in her name can be made to Cuddlecots of the UMass Memorial Maternity Center, Memorial Campus, care of the UMass Foundation, 333 South St., Shrewsbury, MA 01545, or the Overlook VNA, 88 Masonic Home Rd #2, Charlton, MA 01507. COVID-19 restrictions apply, masks must be worn and social distancing. For live streaming, please go to www.mercadantefunral.com and click on live services at the top of the page.
Joanie (Craig) O'Rourke
October 26, 2020
Joanne and Joe, I remember your mother as a wonderful, strong, and talented woman with a heart of gold. My prayers are with you and your entire family during this difficult time.

Sympathy Gift courtesy of Elizabeth Silva. Group of 10 Memorial Trees Planted In Loving Memory of Antoinette (Etre) Mattero.
Elizabeth Silva
October 21, 2020
Al Etre
October 19, 2020
So sorry to hear of the passing of my cousin Ann. Always happy and a contagious laugh. I wish I could be with you at this tough time . Know I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace Ann.
Sharon Christian
October 19, 2020
My sympathies to the whole family. I loved Ann. She was a dear neighbor of mine at Cordis Mills. May She Rest in Heaven peacefully. May God Bless her and her family. I will miss her very much.
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Carol & Joe
October 19, 2020
Rest in peace our beloved sister/sister-in-law. We will always find comfort and peace knowing you are now in the kind and gentle hands of Jesus surrounded by family and friends.
Love you always. Carol & Joe
( Yes, we are great mothers with great children we will truly miss you, gentle hug).
Paula Christianson
October 19, 2020
I so sorry to hear about Annie.She was fun loving person always put smiles on your face. Was fantastic cook and always like to share with us .My thoughts and prayers to you all.She loved her family and friends.God Bless
Christina Di Donato
October 18, 2020
I moved to Millbury two and a half years ago, and I had no friends or family in the area. She was one of the first people I met, and she immediately went out of her way to make me feel welcome. In a sense, I felt as if I'd been adopted. I will never forget her smile, her candor, and her courage to forge through difficulty with grace. Thank you, Annie, and I'll miss you.
Scott and Stephanie Bates
October 18, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sadness. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Katie, Alex and Ben Dedinas
October 18, 2020
My heart is broken hearing of our Annie's passing. We loved her so very much. We had the huge pleasure of knowing her the last seven years we've been at cordis mills. She was like a grandmother and best friend to us. She always had an ear for any story and would do anything in the world for someone. She was a true joy to be around with all of her kindness and sweet sense of humor. What an amazing woman that we we're blessed to have here with us. You could always count on annie to be there. She was so much fun to play board games with and always made you laugh. She was selfless. We'd always give her hugs and kisses when we'd see her and she'd smile and say awwww. I would tell her what a sweetheart she was and she'd reply with don't tell anyone!!! Annie was so welcoming. Her meatballs and sausages with gravy were the bomb! She's looking down on all of us now and we will miss her dearly. All of our love to your family. Annie was a treasure.
❤
JEAN M PERRO
October 18, 2020
My condolences to the entire Mattero, Etre family during this most difficult time in your lives. She was the life of the party and will always be remembered for her infectious laugh and her wonderful cooking skills. May she rest in peace as you cling to all the wonderful memories that she left behind.
You're Angel is in heaven watching over all of you.
RIP
James St Germain
October 18, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Samantha Lavallee
October 17, 2020
Dear Joanne and family, Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. May God help you get through this difficult time and ease your pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kathleen Poirier
October 17, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person who will be greatly missed. You were a bright light in our lives with your contagious laugh and smile. God Bless You, Jim, Kat, and Daniel Poirier
Garry Tuson
October 17, 2020
To all my Mattero family, sending you thoughts and prayers from Florida, wish I could have been there to pay my respect to your mom, I loved my mom Mattero, she made me laugh with some of the stuff she would say to me
Marianne Mattero Malakie
October 17, 2020
My sincere condolences to your family
Dot Granger
October 17, 2020
Dear Joanne and family, Sending you my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. I know how painful this is for you but she is now in a better place, pain free and at peace. Peace be with you all.
Karen
October 17, 2020
Once again Our loving God almighty has taken another great one from us. She has been caring for so many for so
long it’s time for her to rest now. I will never forget her laugh, her hugs, her feisty side
and most of all her love. Rest In Peace Mama Mattero you deserve to rest now.
Love you always ❤
Karen K
P.S. Tell my mom I love her and you two stay out of trouble.
Rae-Ann Maranda
October 17, 2020
Dear Joanne, Mom and I want you to know we were thinking about you. I know the pain has been great and very deeply felt. Please remember she is one of God's angles know. Praying for you and with each passing day. Our deepest love Rae and Elaine.
Kelly Sanville
October 17, 2020
Joanne and family, Our deepest sympathies, we are very sorry for your loss, please know that our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Love, The Sanville Family
Becky Siam
October 16, 2020
Susan, Jay and family thinking of you all.
“Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday!”
Prayers and hugs.
Candice Adams
October 16, 2020
To the entire Mattero Family our deepest sympathies. Ann was a great woman. She fought hard May she Rest In Peace. Love the Adams Family
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