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1936
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2025
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Bangor, Pennsylvania
Arlene Miller Obituary
Arlene R. Miller, 89, of Bangor, PA, passed away peacefully at her residence on December 31, 2025.
Born on September 25, 1936, in East Stroudsburg, PA, she was the beloved daughter of the late Arthur J. and Clara Mae (Bartleson) Shoemaker. Arlene was the cherished wife of Ronald E. Miller, with whom she celebrated 69 years of marriage last May.
A 1953 graduate of Bangor High School, Arlene dedicated her career as a personal assistant and housekeeper for Marion and Stephen Barlett in Mt. Bethel, PA. She was a devoted member of the Prince of Peace Lutheran Church in Bangor, PA, and actively participated in the Young Women's Club in Mt. Bethel, the Bangor Elks Ladies Bowling League, and the Green Pond Ladies Golf League. Arlene found joy in golfing, bowling, and spending cherished moments with her grandchildren.
Arlene is survived by her three sons: Randy Miller, husband of Kathy; Gary Miller, husband of Debra; and Brian Miller, husband of Kathleen DiFebo. She also leaves behind six grandchildren: Tiffany, Daniel, Morgan, Tyler, Samantha, and Gabrielle, as well as seven great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her three brothers: Donald 'Curly' Shoemaker, Wallace 'Tyke' Shoemaker, and James Shoemaker.
Funeral services will be held at 11 AM on Tuesday, January 6th, at Gaffney Parsons Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Inc., 4 Lillian Lane, "Village of Johnsonville", Bangor, PA. Family and friends are invited to a visitation from 10 AM to 11 AM on Tuesday, January 6th at the funeral home. Burial will follow at Johnsonville Cemetery in Mt. Bethel, PA.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Luke's Hospice - Development Office, 801 Ostrum Street, Bethlehem, PA 18015.
Memories and Condolences
for Arlene Miller
January 22, 2026
Karen (Good) Krencs
January 10, 2026
Ron, Gary, Randy, & Brian So sorry to hear about your Mother’s passing. She was a wonderful person. We had good times at the ball games when the kids played on my dad’s baseball team .
Bob and Mary Ann/Bob and Karen Ponnett
January 8, 2026
Ron, Brian, Gary, Randy, and family, we were so sorry to learn of Arlene’s passing. Arlene was such a sweet and kind person and she will truly be missed by all that knew her. Please accept our deepest sympathies and know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Trish Good-Valenti
January 5, 2026
I spent many Thursday nights bowling with Arlene at the Elks. She was a fierce competitor but always had a smile on her face. My thoughts and prayers are with her entire family.
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Lisa Litts
January 4, 2026
Gary, Debbie and the entire Miller family. I'm so sorry to learn of Arlene's passing. Know you're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Craig Kneebone
January 4, 2026
Ron & Sons, we are so sorry to hear about the passing of Arlene. She was a sweet lady. Our thoughts are with you and the family. R.I.P. Arlene
Craig & Jeannine Kneebone
Eric and Lynn Martocci
January 4, 2026
Miller Family, so sorry for your loss. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with the entire Family.
Cheryl Strouse Ninno
January 4, 2026
So sorry for your loss
Jean Eichlin Janosa
January 4, 2026
Ronald & family,
I am so sorry for your loss of Arlene. She always had a smile and kind word. Keep your memories of her close to your heart. Prayers for all of you.
Chris Lohman
January 3, 2026
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Arlenes family. She was such a sweet woman that I was happy to know. She will be missed. Heaven has another angel. May her family cherish all the wonderful memories of a wonderful woman. Rest in peace.
Curt and Michele Lane
January 3, 2026
Dear Randy, Gary and Brian,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. She was such a nice person to all of us. Especially back in the days of our softball games at your house. Please accept our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
David & JoAnn McDonald
January 3, 2026
It was such a pleasure knowing Arlene. One of the kindness ladies. Enjoyed chatting with her
Sherry (Lewis) Stecker
January 3, 2026
Arlene always had a ready smile and a kind word. Deepest sympathy to her loved ones.
Sincerely,
Sherry (Lewis) Stecker
Denny & Cathy DeEsch
January 3, 2026
Ron and Family,
Arlene´s quick smile and friendliness will surely be missed. I remember our many good Friday nights at the Elks. Know that you are in our prayers.
John and Beverly Schimmel
January 2, 2026
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Tom and Beverly Roberts
January 2, 2026
To Arlene’s family,
Our sincere sympathies.. thoughts and prayers. I have many fond memories, Arlene always smiling
Mary Fraunfelter
January 2, 2026
Sending my sincere sympathy to the family.
Louise Benner
January 2, 2026
She was one of the kindest people I know – always smiling, always making me feel truly welcome
I am so sorry for your loss
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