1932 - 2025
1932
2025
"It is of the LORD`s mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassion fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness." Lamentations 3:22-23
Deacon Earnestine Elizabeth Epps Chatman, Sunrise March 17,1932 and Sunset December 3, 2025 of Petersburg, Virginia. She was the daughter of the late Martha and Willie Epps, Sr. She was married to the late Leroy Chatman of Dinwiddie County, prior to his death. She was preceded in death by her children, Mable "Jackie" Blount, Earnest L. Chatman, Raymond C. Chatman, Gary S. Chatman, and Gordon K. Chatman; siblings, Delores Epps, Elsie Epps, Andrew Epps and Willie Epps, Jr.; sons-in-law, Minister James Blount, Jr, Minister Alfred Tucker, Jr.; grandchildren, Gregory Jackson, Latoya Wilson, Danielle Chaney, Baby Cydnee Rose, Baby Joshua R. Mungin and Lamar Morris.
Earnestine has always been a servant of God, even before accepting Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior. She later in life joined First Baptist Church, West Petersburg where she rededicated her life, allowing her love for God, His church and God's people to blossomed. She was ordained as a Deacon July 2, 2000. She served as President of the Usher Board for approximately seven years, the first female as Deacon at First Baptist Church, Vice Chair of the Deacon Board, Member of the Mass Choir, the Gospeletts and the Senior Choir. God blessed her with many gifts and abilities, but all is attributed to the Glory of the Lord. She has always tried to encourage and edify people, and continued to do so until her last days.
Earnestine worked many jobs during her life time: Housekeeping, Early Childcare, Retail and Taylor Men`s Store that sparked a fire and passion that would cultivate a calling unlike no other. In 1973, Earnestine's Sew Shop was birthed she was more than a seamstress — she was a weaver of dreams. With every stitch, she stitched love, patience, and vision into fabric. Her hands transformed cloth into garments that carried stories, and her creations became heirlooms, cherished long after the seams were sewn. For more than two decades, Earnestine devoted her time and energy to feeding the homeless, offering not only meals but dignity, kindness, and hope. Her unwavering commitment made her a pillar of the community, someone whose presence reminded us all of the power of compassion in action. Through her service, countless lives were touched and her example continues to inspire others to give selflessly. Let's not forget she was THE TRI-CITIES SEAMSTRESS. Not just alterations, but DRESSMAKING and ALTERATIONS. You know that your weren`t just getting any type of experience, you was getting the BEST that the city had to offer. A LEGACY that will continue to live on.
Grandma, Steamboat, JapJap, Granny, Boobie, GG and "1Chat" as she was affectionately known to many of her grandchildren. She always knew how to make everyone feel safe, whether through a warm meal, a kind word, or simply her presence. Her compassion extended beyond her family, touching neighbors, friends, and even strangers (Because she never met a stranger, she only met family!). She reminded everyone that small acts of care can change lives. She gave without expecting anything in return, teaching by example that love is the greatest gift we can offer. Her life was a testament to perseverance, showing her family how to face challenges with courage and grace. She reminded everyone that small acts of care can change lives. Some of her famous quotes: "If you can't find a job, create a job", "Never go to bed angry", "Give me my flowers while I'm here to smell them", "You're too young to be tired". "When I give I don't expect to get it back", "Don't go out there starting nothing, but make sure you finish it", "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all", "Always love people no matter how they treat you" and so many, many more. Her life was a living testimony of faith in God, expressed through boundless love and service. Guided by her belief, she poured compassion into every act, feeding the hungry, comforting the weary, and uplifting those in need.
Mom/Grandma was one of those grandmas that had to have her hands in everything, "One man's trash is another man's treasure", there wasn't an apartment that she didn't help decorate, customize and make it a home. She always saw the vision that we couldn't see. The memories we shared will last a lifetime.
Earnestine leaves to cherish her most precious memories to her daughters, Carolyn Nesbitt (Steve), Deacon Deborah Chatman-Tucker, and Deacon Robbinette Nicholas (Michael); one son, Robbie Chatman; and her bonus daughter, Marie Cox; Earnestine is survived by her grandchildren, Angelo Chatman, Jaceline Chatman, Yolanda Harris-Williams, Tonya Richardson, Kenneth Chilon Stith, Jane Bradley, Earnest Harris, Corey Taylor, Tarsheena Morris, Janeece Prosise, Jacinda Blount, Keon Taylor, Qiyamah "Janell" Shabazz, James Blount, Jr, Antonio Cox, Niketa Nicholas, Timere Burchette, Tamika Cox-Johnson, Jessica Chatman, Mischa Nicholas, Erica Cox, Whitney Denefield, Joshua Self, and Jennifer Tucker; seventy-four great-grandchildren and twenty-eight great-great grandchildren; her siblings, Mackenzie Epps (Ruth) and Vinette Hart; sister-in-law, Ann Epps; lifetime family/friend, Dorothy Duffus; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives and friends.
The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to her devoted granddaughter and caregiver, Jaceline Chatman, whose love, dedication, and tireless care brought comfort and dignity throughout her final years. A special heartfelt thanks to her devoted caregiver, Deacon Tessie Blagmon for your excellent love and care shown to our mom and the James River Hospice and Nursing Staff. Special thank you to First Baptist Church, West Petersburg for your unwavering love and support.
Services will be held 11:00 A.M., Friday, December 19, 2025, at Good Shepherd Baptist Church, 2223 South Crater Road, Petersburg, VA, Bishop Jeffrey L. Reaves, Sr., Pastor, and Rev. Edward L. Fox III, eulogist. The interment to follow at Wilkerson Memorial Cemetery.
J.M. Wilkerson Funeral Establishment, Inc., 102 South Avenue, Petersburg, VA, (804) 732-8911, watch the funeral services live online at www.jmwilkersonsince1874.com.
Shatia Thorne
December 19, 2025
Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. Mrs Ernestine was a wonderful woman who touched the lives of many, and her memory will always be cherished! Love and prayers from our family to your's. Nicholas | Mason Family
Patricia Davis
December 19, 2025
You will be missed so much. You were a line person to me and my family when we were neighbors on Wythe Street, My prayer's go out to the family at this time.
Beverly Love
December 17, 2025
Praying for the family.
Brenda Trotter
December 17, 2025
My deepest condolences to the family Ms Chat had a special place in my heart, let the fun memories be your guide
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IOLA HOLLIDAY
December 17, 2025
Aunt Earnestine was so sweet and down to earth. I always carved out time to visit her when I would come home. I use to enjoy calling her before her health started to decline.
I'll cherish the precious memories of her.
My heart felt sympathy to my cousins.
The LORD will comfort and give peace to all of YOU.
Grace & Love
LaToya Land
December 17, 2025
Aunty was always smiling and so nice. She will make your day. I use to come to her sewing shop all the time to get things done and go see her at home. Aunty you will be missed. Love you
BOBBY PEYTON
December 16, 2025
Ms. Ernestine made a difference in my life very early on. She was always with a smile and offering motherly
advise. My sincere condolences to her family.
Pauline Bolling
December 15, 2025
I would like to say to the Chapman family that your mother made a great difference in my life as I became a young lady. She made me strong and so many ways she made me overcome things that were in my way I just wanna say thank you thank you for a wonderful lady, I wish I had to spend more time getting to know her what a special person she was much love
Tammy Wilkins
December 15, 2025
I'm so sorry for your loss my prayers are with you and your family my God continue to watch over you'll love you'll she was a beautiful and caring person u will be missed.
Delano & Bertha Bland
December 13, 2025
Carolyn and the entire family, we are so sorry to hear of Ms Chatman passing. She was a sweet, friendly person and great seamstress. Mr P thought she was his personal seamstress. Sending our sincere condolences and prayers to you all. She was loved by many and will truly be missed❤. Gone but never will be forgotten RIH Ms Ernestine
Priscilla Thomas
December 13, 2025
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Mary Miles Nelson
December 12, 2025
I pray that God will give each of you the strength that need doing this time of sorrow Remember that Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal
Angela (Pepper) & Jacques Hargraves
December 12, 2025
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Angeles Fowlkes
December 10, 2025
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.My condolences to Debbie and Family.
Janet Flowers
December 10, 2025
My heart was saddened to hear of the transitioning of your loved one. May the comforting ministry of Holy Spirit be with your family. I will always remember her kindness and faith as she served in the Kingdom. I am grateful for my memories and may your memories of her be filled with everlasting joy. She was a blessing to many and a blessed and faithful woman of God. Continue to hold on to your confession of faith.
Carla Granderson Spicer
December 9, 2025
Praying for the family members, her children, grandchildren and all other relatives. Mrs Chatman was a beautiful person. And she will surely be missed. Sleep peacefully, Grandma. Your work is done on this side.
Sharon Pegram Taylor
December 8, 2025
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Brenda Thurman Jones
December 8, 2025
Condolences to the family, especially Toots. my childhood friend. Ms. Earnestine was the best seamstress I knew. I have fond memories of the dresses that she made for me and my daughter. Take your rest Ms Earnestine.
Charlotte Anderson
December 8, 2025
Condolences and prayers to the family and friends.
Saundra Mason
December 7, 2025
With deepest sympathy and condolence
The Jones family
Vanessa Thomas
December 7, 2025
My deepest condolences to Debbie and the Chatman family. May God give you peace and strength during this difficult time. You’re in my prayers.
Patricia Key
December 7, 2025
Sending Prayers And Love To My Special Family, Ms Earnestine Always Had a special Place in my Heart Condolence to Robbie and Robinette my Classmate (1978) And All The Family Love You
Cynthia Talley
December 6, 2025
Ms.Chatman a life well accomplished, your warm smile made most of us feel so welcome to be in your presence a rest so deserved for you RIH
Saundra Mason
December 6, 2025
In deepest sympathy and condolence The Jones children
Damien Smith
December 5, 2025
So sorry to hear about the passing of such a beautiful soul. I’m forever thankful for everything you did for my father, mother and I; as well as the whole community! May your soul rest. Heaven definitely gained a beautiful angel. My prayers are with the whole family. Love.
Dea. Anita B. Drumgoole
December 5, 2025
Sending my deepest condolences to Robbie and family. Sharing in your loss of heaven's gain.
Linda Redwine Bell
December 5, 2025
My sincere condolences to the Chatman family. Mrs Chatman was an "old school mother" in the neighborhood and always showed all the children love and kindness. Thank you being a part of my village growing up. Praying for the family and lifting you in prayer. Rest well, Mrs Chatman.
Hattie Bonner
December 4, 2025
I pray that you're surrounded by God's love and comfort during this challenging time. May your memories bring you comfort.
Beckee Coleman
December 4, 2025
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Janice Jones
December 4, 2025
My sincere condolences to the Chatman’s family.What a gentle and kind woman. Made the memories of the kindness and love that your mother show each of you remain embedded in your hearts peace now Mrs. Chatman resting now and your father‘s arms
Yvonne Smith
December 4, 2025
Most beautiful person ❤ my condolences to the family at this time
Brenda Trotter
December 3, 2025
My deepest Condolences To The Chatman Family. A Real Sweet Lady .
Robert Crenshaw
December 3, 2025
Our condolences and prayers go out to the family, Robert and Pat Crenshaw
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