Dorothy-Bedor-Obituary

Photo courtesy of Reed & Benoit Funeral Home Inc. - Watertown

Dorothy E. Bedor

Jun 7, 1930 - Jan 9, 2025

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Oh my gosh. My second mom. I spent half my elementary school years sitting at Bedor’s dinner table with Nancy, Jill, Junior, Gram and Dorothy. There was homemade ice cream and milk straight from the cows. And I worked there in the summers, where Dorothy was the best boss ever. Who else brings donuts, and yes, sometimes even hot fudge sundaes, to the workers in the field for a mid-morning break? Mrs. Bedor was a treasure, a classic, a lady. A super human, a true Christian. My love to...

Jill and family, I am sorry to hear about your mom passing. I am sure you have numerous loving memories of your mother and family traditions. Your mom will always be inside your thoughts and your hearts. May God bless you and yours.

Dear Jil and family- I am so very sorry for your Mom's passing. She was so kind and caring. I remember on so many occasions coming to your home. Jil, we had so many great times together! Sending prayers and lots of hugs.

Dorothy was my Sunday school teacher, dear friend of my mom's, and my first employer....I picked strawberries., I remember her on many camping trips with my family and friends.. I was only 12 or 13 i think.

We lived across the street from Dorothy & Junior through the 1990's. They were wonderful neighbors and friends always offering help to us as a young couple. Dorothy often brought goodies over to us and Junior plowed us out throughout each winter. Once the strawberries were ready for picking, Junior brought us a big basket of beautiful berries every summer. Although we moved away, Dorothy and I wrote letters to keep up for many years. I am so thankful to have known both Dorothy & Junior...both...

Dear Jill and Family,

Such a great Picture of your Mom! She was truly a beautiful soul inside and out! I will always remember her teaching Sunday School, the MYF meetings at your house with pizza and homemade ice cream Sunday nights, our snowmobiling days, Jill, and so much more. I think our Moms also shared a special bond through church and their faith. They were true ladies in every sense of the word. Such wonderful memories for sure! I shall treasure them always.

Sending heartfelt condolences to family and friends. I see her kindness, sincerity and work ethic reflected in her daughter, Carol my dear friend.

Sending all of you deepest sympathies and kind, sweet memories of your mother, growing up next door for so many years. What a beautiful picture of her, just as I remember her.

Obituary

Dorothy's Obituary

“If you want something done, ask a busy woman.”  Dorothy Gailey Bedor left this earth on January 9, ending a long life of community involvement, mentorship and giving back.  She was indeed a busy woman.

Born in 1930 to Flossie Eiss Gailey and Charles Cool Gailey, she grew up in Stone Mills, NY, graduating from LaFargeville High School at the top of her class.  After studying briefly at Syracuse University, she returned home to marry the love of her life, Junior Bedor, at Stone Mills Methodist Church.  She and Junior shared a lifetime, partnering over more than sixty years in several businesses, including dairy farming, bulk milk trucking and a you-pick strawberry operation.

The family relocated in 1962 to a farm in Adams, NY where both Dorothy and Junior were well known for their involvement in the community and their church.  Dorothy taught senior high Sunday school for many years, was active with women’s groups and led youth groups in Adams, often partnering with youth leaders in nearby communities.  She led two 4-H clubs and took groups to Camp Aldersgate and on several bus trips.  She often found time to host elegant meals with her close friends and family.  In more recent years she led a popular Bible study at Watertown’s Church of the Nazarene, where a close knit group of women met every week. 

She is survived by her daughters Carol (Mike), Shirley (Joe), Jil (Kerry) and Nancy (Don), a sister, Frances, a brother, Charles, 13 grandchildren and 12 great grandchildren.

Funeral services will be held Friday, January 24 at 12 noon at Watertown Life Church of the Nazarene, 535 Thompson Blvd, Watertown, NY, 13601.  Visitation with the family will precede the service from 11 AM to noon.  A luncheon will follow the service at the church. Donations in lieu of flowers may be made to the church or to Grove Cemetery Assn., 20173 County Route 181, LaFargeville, NY 13656. 

 Arrangements are with Reed & Benoit Funeral Home, Inc. and condolences may be made online at www.reedbenoit.com.

  

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