1925
2016
On the morning of July 26th, 2016, John Distefano Jr. of Platte County passed away peacefully with his family by his side. He was 90 years old.
John was born September 22, 1925 in the Columbus Park area, the oldest son of Lena and John Distefano Sr. He attended Karnes Elementary School and Manual High School. He began his vocational studies as a machinist during his senior year and learned his craft at W.W. Brown Machine Works.
John served in the United States Army during World War II, stationed in Hawaii and Japan. After the war, John returned to W.W. Brown to complete his apprenticeship. He was also employed at American Can Company and Trans World Airlines, ending his career in 1991.
John was preceded in death by his parents, John and Lena; infant sister, Teresa; brother, Anthony and his wife Barbara; and nephew Dante.
John is survived by his wife Josephine (Donnici); sons, John and wife Katherine of Parkville; Paul; and Mark and wife Susan of Santa Monica, CA. He is also survived by grandchildren Nicholas, Laura, Benjamin and Nathan; brother and sister-in-law, Anthony and Paula Donnici; and sister-in-law, Annette Belfonte.
Visitation will be Thursday July 28, from 2-7 p.m. at Passantino Bros. Funeral Home 2117 Independence Blvd. Kansas City, MO. 64124, where the rosary will be recited at 6 p.m. The Mass of Christian Burial will be 10:30 a.m. Friday July 29th at St. Therese Church, 7207 NW Highway 9, Kansas City, Mo 64152. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be gifted to the St. Therese North Food Pantry.
The family would like to thank Dr. Thomas LaBruzzo for his care of John for many years. A special thank you to the staff of Galway House and Crossroads Hospice for their thoughtfulness and compassion.
John was a good brother, son, devoted husband and loving father. His legacy is one of courage and wit in the face of adversity, and his love of family and lifetime friends. Grief is the last gift we have to give to those we loved. Where there is much grief, there was much love.
Pallbearers: Alan McCalla, Mike Belfonte, Jim Hansen, John Baccala, Bruce Cappo, Drew Hemphill.
Ben DiStefano
September 22, 2020
Happy Birthday Grandpa John,
Love,
Ben
John Distefano
May 22, 2020
Dad,
We love you,
Uncle John Aunt Katherine Nick & Laura
Ben Distefano
March 26, 2020
Dear Grandpa John i loved you all my life i missed you we cared about you and i am sending you Love,
Thanks for being such a good grandfather to all my Grandchildren
i loved being with you on your Chair with Grandma
Love,
Ben
Vicki Distefano-Perbeck
July 21, 2019
Reading again the lovely guestbook & enjoying it. What a tribute from your grandson. Remembering the times together. RIP Uncle Johnny
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Ben Distefano
April 12, 2019
Dear Poppy, Grandma Jo, says goodnight
Love,
Grandma Jo
Ben Distefano
April 12, 2019
Goodnight Poppy!
Ben Distefano
February 5, 2019
Love you Poppy love and kisses
Ben and Grandma Jo Uncle Paul
Ben Distefano
December 30, 2018
Dear Poppy we are very sorry that you died
We love you and miss you
Grandma Karin Grandma Jo Grandpa Ed
Ben Nathan

One of Uncle Johnny trips to the farm to walk the acreage with his brother.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
Serenity Uncle.

Uncle Johnny and his mother.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
Celebrate in Heaven.

Uncle Johnny with mother and brother.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
Peace to you.

Uncle Johnny with great nieces and nephew.
Jessica Perbeck
July 29, 2016
Peace to my Great Uncle.

Uncle Johnny with his dad and brother.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
God Bless.

With Michael.
Michael Perbeck
July 29, 2016
Rest in Peace Great Uncle.

Uncle Johnny in the back next to Mike.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
Family Reunion

Taken with Uncle Johnny's polaroid on one of our drives to the country.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
Prayers for Uncle.

Uncle Johnny's new car w/brother Anthony.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
RIP dear Uncle.

Brothers and best friends.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
God Bless.

Uncle Johnny with Nana and extended family.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
Peace for Uncle.

Uncle, grandpa,and extended family.
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016
A photo can say a thousand words.

Uncle Johnny's new car. W brother Anthony
Vicki Perbeck
July 29, 2016

Uncle and his family.
Vicki Distefano Perbeck
July 28, 2016

Anthony Distefano
July 28, 2016
GREAT, Wonderful Uncle! I will never forget you and all the things you did for my Dad Anthony(your brother) and our family. I know you helped my Dad through Pharmacy school and my Dad never forgot that... You and my father were men above all men. Family was the most important part of both your lives and I am a better man to have had you as my Uncle!
Barbara Gurera Hausback
July 27, 2016
To the Distefano family !! So sorry for the loss of your love one. My prayers and thoughts are with everyone! RIP John Jr. God Bless

Uncle Johnny and Aunt Josephine at Darlene and Anthony's anniversary party
Gina Meyer
July 27, 2016
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