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Nicholas DeLuise Obituary
Nicholas C. DeLuise, 68, of Shelton, Connecticut, passed away peacefully at his home on August 11, 2025.
Born on February 15, 1957, in Bridgeport, Connecticut, Nick was the son of the late Alphonse DeLuise and Rose (Terranova) DeLuise. He is survived by his two beloved sons: Nicholas A. DeLuise and his wife, Alexandra, along with their children Christopher, Lillian, and James; and Matthew D. Kochanski and his husband, Paul, with their daughter Katrina. He is also survived by his brother, Anthony M. DeLuise.
Nick was retired from the printing industry. Outside of work, his true passion was music. A talented drummer and vocalist, he performed with his band, Out of the Barn, whose members became a second family to him and made a lasting impact on his life
Nick was equally at home behind the wheel of his cherished Corvette or on the open road with his motorcycle. While he loved both, his true happiness was found with his grandchildren whom he loves dearly. His love for his family and friends will be remembered by all who knew him.
Family and friends are invited to the Brooklawn Funeral Home, 511 Brook St. Rocky Hill, on Saturday, August 16, 2025 from 12-2p.m. Burial will be held privately.
The family would like to thank the staff and doctors at Hartford Healthcare Cancer institute for their care and compassion over the last few years.
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Crystal Stasolla
August 22, 2025
One of my favorite memories of Nick was how welcoming he was to my dad. They bonded quickly over their love of music, and around Christmas we’d all end up singing and playing together. Being fellow Italians, Nick, my dad, and I always had things we could connect and laugh about. Those moments of music, laughter, and family joy will always stay with me.
I also loved seeing him with my mother-in-law. He was always making her laugh, and together they truly brought out the best in one another.
He will be remembered with love and so deeply missed.
Derek Mocarski
August 22, 2025
I had the pleasure of knowing Nick for over 10 years. As my mom’s fiancé, he became such a special part of our lives, and in that time, I got to know him for the kind and funny soul he was. He was always so warm and welcoming, and best of all, he made my mom so happy. Some of my favorite memories are from the holidays at my mom’s house, spending hours at the kitchen table with Nick, catching up and laughing together. I also loved sharing my love of music with him, and I’m deeply grateful I was able to record his band before he passed so that we can hold onto that memory forever.
Nick, thank you for the love and joy you brought into our lives. You will be so missed, but never forgotten. May you rest in peace and keep the music going.
August 18, 2025
Dear Nicholas and Matthew,
I am so very sorry for your loss. As my brother mentioned I too have such fond memories of our families getting together when we were growing up. Those memories will always be treasured. May he rest in peace.
Debra and Jean-Luc Rieutort
Ashley Mocarski
August 17, 2025
Nick- it was a blessing to have you as a part of our family for the past 11 years. While you and my mom were together, and engaged, we had so many memories and holidays spent together. You raised two great kids and we are so glad you were able to spend time with your grandchildren. My favorite thing about you is how much time you spent with my grandmother. She loved speaking with you and your long discussions together. The best thing was knowing that you approved of my incredible fiancé Matt. You knew we were getting engaged and we are grateful for that last congratulations text. Praying for you and the family- especially on this Sunday. May you rest easy and we hope you´re riding the Harley in Heaven. Blessings- Ashley
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John Esposito
August 16, 2025
Matt and Nick,
We are sorry for the loss of your Dad. He will be missed.
Your Dad and I grew up as kids. Your grandparents were my god parents. I was fortunate to reconnect with him and we had many memories to chat about.
He was a good person and great friend.
May he rest in peace.
John and Rosemarie Esposito
Al Fritz
August 16, 2025
I have great memories of your father when we were young at our family get togethers, surrounded by food and love. Your dad was always fun to be around, caring and a hard worker. I know he’s making beautiful music in heaven. Love Al and Audrey Fritz
Al&Audrey Fritz
August 16, 2025
Dear Matt&Nicholas I have great memories of your father and our family get togethers when we were young surrounded by food and love. He was always fun to be around, caring and a hard worker. I hope he is making music in heaven.❤
Real Lavigne
August 15, 2025
Dear Nicholas, Matthew, and family
We are very sad to hear of your Dad’s passing. We have known Nick for over 11 years through mutual friends in Shelton. We always enjoyed spending time with him during our friend gatherings. More recently I (Réal) would have breakfast with your Dad at our local dinner. Recently a couple of Sundays ago, your Dad and I went to a Corvette show in Guilford. He truly loved his Corvette and was able to educate me on all the different models we saw at the show. The only thing he enjoyed talking more about was the both of you and his grandchildren. We will miss him greatly and will miss spending time with him. Unfortunately, we are not able attend the service for your Dad because we are in North Hatley, Quebec Canada to attend my aunt’s funeral.
With our deepest condolences,
Réal & Elena Lavigne
Jessica Pesce
August 15, 2025
Nick, I am struggling to find the right words to express how missed you will be. You were such a joy to be around and speak to. I loved hearing about your life, the silly things that made us both laugh and all the conversations about Italian food. You were someone I genuinely enjoyed seeing and talking to, regardless of what it was about. I thoroughly enjoyed our weekly chats and deep conversations about anything and everything that life was throwing at you that week. Your smile was infectious and your laugh was something that I looked forward to hearing every week. You will be profoundly missed, but I am so grateful that your suffering is over. Keep making people laugh, enjoying your delicious Italian food (Calorie free), and play all the beautiful music up in Heaven. I am sure I will see you again up there.
Roseann Lukaszewski
August 13, 2025
Nick, I am grateful that I knew you. Thank you for the life lessons you provided. Thank you for fathering my nephews, Nicholas and Matthew. They are a source of many happy memories and love in my life. May your spirit be at peace.
Luke E. DiMaria and the Staff of Brooklawn Funeral Home/Giuliano-Sagarino
August 13, 2025
We extend our deepest sympathies at this time and thank you for entrusting us with the care of your loved one.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
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