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Richard "Mark" Spaulding
1961 - 2020
BORN
1961
DIED
2020
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Richard "Mark" Spaulding Obituary
Black River
Dr. Richard “Mark” Spaulding, 59, of State Route 342, died suddenly after being stricken at his home on Saturday, December 12, 2020 in Black River.
Dr. Mark was born on January 20, 1961 in Carthage, the son of the late Robert G. and Marjorie (Fleming) Spaulding Jr. He was a 1979 graduate of Copenhagen Central School and a 1983 graduate of SUNY Cortland. Mark worked for the New York State Department of Corrections in Albion, NY for several years before attending Logan University in Chesterfield, Missouri and later graduated with his Doctor of Chiropractic in 1992. He moved to Scottsdale, Arizona and established a successful practice of Chiropractic Care opening three offices in and around Cave Creek, Arizona. He returned to New York in 2011 and has operated Spaulding Chiropractic in Black River for several years.
He was known for his humor and storytelling, enjoyed fishing, discussing history and current events, and was an avid New York Yankees fan. Throughout his high school and college years, he was a dedicated bodybuilder spending countless hours in the gym and entering various competitions throughout New York State. One of his proudest moments was being awarded Mr. Cortland’s ‘Best Back” in 1983.
He is survived by his two beloved dogs, Rudy and Kobe, one sister: Katherine (Robert) Stackel of Watertown, three brothers: William (Paula) Spaulding of Great Bend, James (Robin) Spaulding of Copenhagen and Thomas (Elizabeth) Spaulding of Lowville and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. He is predeceased by his parents and an infant brother, Joseph Spaulding.
There will be no calling hours or services at this time. The Bezanilla-McGraw Funeral Home, Carthage is assisting the family with funeral arrangements. Online condolences may be made at www.bezanillafh.com.
Memories and Condolences
for Richard "Mark" Spaulding
Mr. Chuckles
September 27, 2024
It wasn't me!
Richard Z
February 1, 2024
I was one of Mark´s roommates during his senior year at Cortland. I am deeply saddened to learn of his passing. He was one of the funniest and most genuine people I know. Every night we ate dinner together - roasted chicken with potatoes, except on Mondays. That was pasta night. For dessert we would eat an entire pie. God broke the mold when he created Mark. May Mark Rest in Peace!
Matthew
May 18, 2023
I remember all the great times we had especially at camp fishing for frogs!
Brenda
December 8, 2022
Sending love
December 11, 2021
Remembering you
Rick Perryman
January 21, 2021
Mark was my brother, occasional roommate and friend for 20+ years. I’m just learning of his passing and am speechless and heartbroken.
He had the quickest humor and was smarter than most people will ever know! I’ve never laughed harder than with, and occasionally at the expense of Mark.... a position he welcomed!
We had a lifetime of fun and adventure in Arizona during the mid to late 1990s. We followed our professional dreams, partied with celebrity’s and lived an envious life for many years. Mark was one of the smartest people I’ve ever met with a mind for trivia that was maddening if you were an opponent.
I finally got married and had kids and the shenanigans had to stop...but we still had great times and he was Uncle Mark to my kids.
RIP my brother and dear friend. You’ll always be in my memories and in my heart...no one could ever say you didn’t live life to it’s fullest...I witnessed it for myself!
To Jimmy (Hollywood!!), Bill, Tommy and Catherine, I’m so sorry for your loss and so sorry we lost touch.
Rick
Thasia Lenae
January 13, 2021
My heart broke to read about Mark's passing. We had a special connection and he will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Randall Harper
January 5, 2021
My sincere condolences to Mark's family, so sorry for your loss.
Nicole La Joie
December 20, 2020
My heart goes out to all of you. I will never forget this man and will certainly remember our many laughs and memories. I’m so glad I was able to talk to him recently and have one of our catch up talks. Bless you all.
Mark & Jenny Snyder
December 18, 2020
Uncle Mark! It was great getting to know you over the past 5-10 years... the world is a way duller place without you here. Thanks for ALL of the memories. Thanks for NOT hitting us head on @ Jared & Katie's wedding. I appreciated EVERY call I EVER got from you. RIP fellow Darkhorser!
Steve & Ellen O’Brien
December 16, 2020
Katherine, Jim, Bill and Tom our thoughts and prayers goes out to you during this most difficult time.
Bud Cole
December 15, 2020
My deepest sympathy goes out to Katherine and all the Spaudling friends and family. May the Lord have his angels comfort all of you during this very sad time.
Katie Spaulding
December 15, 2020
Uncle Mark,
This Thanksgiving was truly a special day with you, and I will cherish our last time together forever. Christmas won’t be the same without you...all the kids yelling “how did he know!?” I already miss overhearing your crazy phone calls with Marcus. You are terribly missed.
Shelly Graham-Randall
December 15, 2020
Bill,Paula and family. We are so saddened by the news of Mark. Our thoughts and prayers to your families.
Beth Sautter
December 15, 2020
Katherine and family, so very sad to hear about Mark...I only met Mark a few times, but the stories I have heard will live on forever; cherish the memories.
Thinking of you all during this difficult time.
Vince Gill
December 15, 2020
Mark, Go Rest High On That Mountain.
Robert Dryden
December 15, 2020
Dear Spauldings all, my deepest condolences on Mark’s passing. I hope the memories of a life well spent will comfort you during this sad time.
The Olivers
December 14, 2020
Dear Bill, Jim, Tom, & Katherine, as much as Mark made me crazy, I adored him and loved him to bits. May his memory be for a blessing. C-State forever!
With gentle hugs, Douglas & Diane Waugh Oliver
Sue Petrison
December 14, 2020
Bill, Jim, Katherine, and Tom,
I'm so sorry to hear about Mark. Let your good memories help get you through this sad and difficult time.
Sue (Fleming) Petrison
Josh Fleming
December 14, 2020
The phrase: "Never a dull minute...." certainly comes to mind. A million stories, laughs, and good times for sure. See ya, when I see ya old buddy. RIP
Bob LeFevre Sr.
December 14, 2020
My thoughts and prayers to All Family members This Christmas he will celebrate with all the loved ones that await him in Heaven .
Bob LeFevre Sr. & Family
Gary Rodgers
December 14, 2020
Jim, Katherine, Bill and Tom - I'm so sorry for this tremendous loss. I have a lot of fond memories of him both on and off the baseball field. "Rocket-arm" as Rod Eldridge used to call him. May he rest in peace.
Marion O’Driscoll
December 14, 2020
Bill, Jim, Katherine, Tom... I am so very sorry!! We all remember Mark for his smile, stories, jokes , and personality!! I have so many memories of him growing up ! Loved my cousin!! I had some good phone conversations with Mark last spring! We reminisced all our family memories! You are all in my thoughts and prayers !! ❤ Marion
Julie Grieco
December 14, 2020
I had been seeing Mark professionally for the last few years. His stories and sense of humor always left me with a smile. I really enjoyed seeing him and will miss him dearly. He was such a great guy. I wish peace to his family.
Wayne Berrus
December 14, 2020
Tom & Family, Wayne and I send our deepest condolences. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nora and Joel Jamieson
December 14, 2020
Jim and Robin, I am so shocked and sorry. Please feel my hug and prayers
Peggy Green
December 14, 2020
Bill, Paula and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in my prayers. May your brother rest in peace.
JJB
December 14, 2020
Katherine and brothers..my heart-felt condolences for the loss of your brother. Always remember the good times. The Dark Horse was never safer than when he was on the door lol
JAN ORTO
December 14, 2020
I am so sorry to hear about Mark. I have cleaned for him for 4 years.
wilfred lewis
December 14, 2020
My condolences for his family and may the Angels take him home
Wyatt Earp
December 14, 2020
You can ride with us anytime you want now. I'm your huckleberry. RIP.
Deborah Gillette
December 14, 2020
Randy and I were so sorry to hear this news. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Bruce MacDonald
December 14, 2020
sorry to here of mark passing
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