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Robert Gregory Starr

1963 - 2020

Robert Gregory Starr obituary, 1963-2020, Springfield, IL

BORN

1963

DIED

2020

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Vancil-Murphy Funeral Home - Springfield

437 South Grand Ave. West

Springfield, Illinois

Robert Starr Obituary

Robert Gregory Starr, Greg to us all, was born on Friday, October 11th, 1963, to Phillip Byron and Carol Jean (Hinrichs) Starr.  He spent his growing years in Illinois, graduating from Springfield High School in 1981. Greg was a voracious reader, always hungry to learn. So much so, that the most effective punishment for misbehavior was to not allow him to go to the Public Library. He developed an interest in all things moral and philosophical at an early age and began a lifelong journey on that pathway by joining the Stephen Douglas Chapter of DeMolay. 


Upon graduation from high school, Greg enlisted in the U.S. Army. With his talent for languages, he attended the Army’s vaunted language school where he demonstrated high proficiency in both Russian and German. On one occasion just a few years ago he was speaking with a Russian immigrant in his native language. This businessman commented that Greg spoke Russian with just a hint of a Berliner accent, and that had he not known better he would have guessed that Greg was from Germany.    


While home on leave from active duty in the summer of 1986 Greg sought to continue the journey he began with DeMolay and he petitioned for the degrees of Freemasonry. He was initiated, passed and raised to the degree of Master Mason at Pleasant Plains Lodge #700. He returned to Germany, to his post with the “Silent Warriors”; the 741st Military Intelligence Battalion where he served as a Cryptologic Communications Interceptor/Locator. Staff Sergeant Starr was decorated several times, receiving the Meritorious Service Medal, Army Commendation Medal, Army Achievement Medal, Army Superior Unit Award as well as the Good Conduct Medal three times.


While Stationed in Germany Greg was active with the Masonic organizations there, serving as both Junior and Senior Warden in Lebanon Lodge #831, a part of the American Canadian Grand Lodge, Augsburg, Germany. He was named an Honorary Life Member of the Augusta Lodge in Augsburg.


Greg returned home and was honorably discharged from the Army on August 2, 1993, having served his country with distinction for just under 12 years.


Greg worked for a while as a chef. Anyone fortunate enough to have had a meal prepared by Greg can attest to his mastery of the culinary arts. If while dining out he happened to sample a sauce of a quality that met his high standards, he would summarily declare that it was so good that “You would eat a flip-flop, if that sauce was on it.”  Henceforth the finest cuisine was referred to as being of “flip-flop quality.”


Greg heard the call to service again. He completed the arduous selection process and training and served as a Police Officer for the City of Baltimore for approximately 3 years. 


Greg had an inherent talent for computers and plied that talent as an IT contractor. In that role he travelled the world again, living Hong Kong, Thailand, Russia and Holland before returning to Colorado.


In his years there he was an important part of the Masonic community. He was a member and officer of five Blue Lodges: Douglas 153, East Denver 160, Enlightenment 198, and Schiller ~ Pythagoras 41, serving as Secretary of Douglas, East Denver, and Pythagoras lodges, Treasurer of Enlightenment Lodge and Worshipful Master of Schiller Lodge for 2012. Greg was also an active member in many associated Masonic organizations, serving in officer roles in the Denver Scottish Rite, York Right, Shrine, Eastern Star, SRICF, and Allied Masonic Degrees where he served as Sovereign Master in 2013. Greg was an author of philosophical articles, having several published in Ad Lucem and The New Hermetics Equinox Journal. His knowledge and wisdom in these areas was widely recognized. He held memberships in the Scottish Rite Research Society, Philalethes Society, Grand College of Rites, Colorado Grand Lodge Speakers Bureau, and the Denver Consistory (Scottish Rite) Speakers Bureau.


Robert Gregory Starr heard the call we must eventually all answer, and on Friday October 30th, 2020, a mere 19 days after his 57th birthday, he shuffled off the mortal coil to begin another journey.


From avid reader and gatherer of knowledge as a child to venerated sage as an adult, Greg learned and then shared so very much. Greg, your absence from the world is great loss to us all. Those who knew you well and whom you gifted with your friendship love you still. You will be missed until we all meet again.


Another Army veteran, serving law enforcement officer, and very close friend of Greg’s, after hearing of his passing reflected on Greg’s service to our country and offered these parting words, “ RIP, Greg. You were at one time a warrior and have earned the warrior’s farewell.” 


At the time of his death Greg was employed with Cigna Insurance Corporation. He is survived by his mother, Carol Edwards; step-father, Alvin Edwards; brothers Kirby Ryan Gram and Tim Starr; sister Kim Moser; and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his father; grandparents, Russell and Ethel Starr, and Arthur and Edna Hinrichs; and step-father, Kirby Elias Gram, whom he called “Dad.” He was of the Eastern Orthodox faith.


A memorial service will be held at 10:30 am CST Monday, November 9th, 2020, at Vancil-Murphy Funeral Home. Burial will follow at Camp Butler National Cemetery.


In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Mary Bryant Home for the Blind, 2960 Stanton St., Springfield, IL 62703, or at http://www.marybryanthome.org/support-us


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Published by Vancil-Murphy Funeral Home - Springfield on Nov. 6, 2020.

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P. S. "Sasha" Sandmann

November 21, 2020

Greg,

What does, or can, a brother says to his brother who has passed, or to his family who grieves? Your passing has struck a deep and resonate chord within me that I am ill-equipped to define or explain. Rest in peace, brother. You are the first for whom I have performed the Mourner’s Kaddish. I will keep the Yahrzeit for you because your memory is, and always will be, a blessing.

Less Boucher

November 21, 2020

I’m so sorry to hear of Greg’s passing. He had a very special relationship with Mom that was mutually beneficial. During her latter years, I can’t think of anything that made her happier than hearing another one of her nephews, Jimmy, talking about how Greg had been so much help to him at a time when he needed it. Greg was passionate about his interests and pursued them worldwide. He distinguished himself in his service to our country. I am proud to thank him one final time for that.

I’m including an old photo we ran across recently. It appears to be a family celebration at the Cook Street house, but we aren’t sure of the occasion. Beth, who is in the photo next to Greg, at some point wrote the “‘79” inscription at the bottom. She thinks Greg may have been showing her the book she is holding. We’re pretty sure that it’s Brandon’s head and haircut in the lower left corner.

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Megan Edwards

November 9, 2020

Greg was a loving and devoted son who enriched his mothers life on a daily basis. No mother should have to bury their son. My heart goes out to all of Greg's family. My he continue with you in the safty of your hearts.

With so much love,
Reiner, Megan, & Selene

Michael Richmond

November 9, 2020

I only knew Greg for about 6 months since I started working with him. He was a reliable colleague, a mentor and became a personal friend over the past couple months. I happen to come from a Russian-speaking country myself and he shared a lot of stories of his time in East Berlin and in Moscow with me, we spoke about Russian cinema, food, history and culture, all of which he was very knowledgeable in. He gave me a lot of good advise and was always there if I ever needed someone to talk to. I will miss him greatly, and will definitely use the lessons I've learned from him in my life.

Nicola Donaven

November 9, 2020

I have many fond memories of Greg, including delicious meals, coffee at Bardo, walks with Dima, and general all-around good times. Greg was erudite without pretension, and had an innate kindness. May light perpetual shine upon him and his memory be a blessing.

Gary Turner

November 9, 2020

Greg with the Cigna crew

michiko Quinones

November 9, 2020

Greg, thank you for being our foundation, our protector, our wise guru. No one can replace you and we will miss you forever.

Lisa Turner

November 9, 2020

It is difficult to believe we've lost Greg so soon, he simply was one of those anchors that you expect to have in your life, always, regardless of time or distance. He was a man of integrity, wisdom, taste and provided counsel and help without a second thought. As serious and intellectual as he could be, Greg also had the most wonderful laugh when he was truly amused and I will miss that. We are so very fortunate to have had his friendship and the memories of many wonderful conversations. Carol, our prayers to you and your family - we are here for anything you need. May the wings of angels carry you home, Greg.

David Spalding

November 8, 2020

Greg was more than just a coworker to me. We shared a commonality in service to our country, service in the "i" branch world, and self-taught and motivated transition to the world of IT and computer system administration. We talked in one medium or another daily, and I quickly found him to be a reliable sounding board for all types of work challenges and decisions our team faced. He was a integral part of our team's mission. As with all great soldiers and colleagues, the sum of our whole was greater than our individual parts, in large part due to Greg. Our loss is immeasurable, but I know we'll continue on with his work in the spirit and dedication to others that Greg demonstrated daily.

Rob Tavenner

November 6, 2020

To Gregg's family, wanted to pass along my sincere condolences and prayers to you. I was stationed with Gregg at Field Station Augsburg from 87 through 89. He was an amazing linguist, and a great guy to work with. My parents came to visit me in 1988 and he took a day of his time to be an in depth tour guide in Augsburg. My parents thought he had grown up there, he knew so much about the history of Augsburg. He was a good friend to me when I was a lot younger and a lot less wise, and I wanted to let you know he will be missed. Sending prayers to you all.

Julie Daniele Antonacci

November 6, 2020

You were so quiet in school, always with your nose in a book in Mr. Rambach's class. Rest in peace classmate, LHS 1981. What an accomplished life you have led, truly incredible. Thank you for your service, you've served your country well.

Mathew Ingalls

November 5, 2020

I am devastated by the news. Greg and I were brothers and roommates. We would discuss history, philosophy, religion, and he helped me with learning Russian and French. We traveled quite a bit together. I will miss him dearly. My heart goes out to Carol and his family. He loved you all so much. He shared so many stories about Carol (his mom). She was his hero.

Mathew Ingalls

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