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ARLENE STANTON Obituary

STANTON, Arlene C. (Federico) Lifelong resident of South Boston, passed away at home surrounded by her family, November 24, 2020. Daughter of the late Charles F. and Mary B. (Flood) Federico. Beloved mother of Robert J. Stanton, II and his wife Marcia T. of South Boston, Ann Walsh and her husband John of Stoughton, Janice Armstrong and her husband Joseph of Duxbury. Cherished grandmother of Nicholas Esdale, Joseph and Jackson Armstrong. Dear sister of Patricia Blakeman of Whitman, Anne McMannus of Texas, David Federico of Maine, Veronica Federico of Florida, Mary Federico of Holbrook and the late Louise McLaughlin, Charles Federico, Jr. and Francis Fromm. Arlene is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. As a child, Arlene could be found in the family owned store, Federico's Bike Shop, helping her father repairing bikes. For over 20 years, Arlene worked in the City of Boston Public School System as a Teacher in the Title 1 Program. In the early 90's, she was honored to be appointed as President of the Home and School Association. Arlene will be forever remembered as being devoted to her family and loving her trips to Sullivan's at Castle Island for her favorite treat, the famous Lobster Roll. Funeral Mass will be held on Monday, November 30th in Gate of Heaven Church, 615 East Fourth Street, South Boston, at 11AM. Interment will follow in Cedar Grove Cemetery, 920 Adams Street, Dorchester. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, the church is limited to 125 people for Mass, and there will be no public Visitation in the Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, kindly consider a donation in memory of Arlene to The Gate of Heaven Restoration Fund, 841 East Broadway, South Boston, MA 02127.

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 27 to Nov. 29, 2020.

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Anne M Rheault

November 22, 2023

Thinking of you always, but Thanksgiving is a week of thanks .
I've always been thankful for having you in my life.
I miss you so much and hope you're there in heaven with your family, granddad and mother dear , David and Junior and your sisters too.
I miss our conversations and prayers and just the unconditional love you showed me and my family . I just wanted you to know that I still think of you all the time . I even ride by your house and think of you .
Love you more than you will ever know.
Anne , Jillian and Ryan

Shelagh and Joe Ronca

November 27, 2020

Robbie, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mum. She truly was a lovely lady.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sleep in Peace Mrs. Stanton. God Bless you all.

Bernadette and Peter Kozak

November 27, 2020

"Big Arlene" will always be remembered as one of my many loving and caring Aunts. She always had a revolving door for us all. Sometimes we just visited, popped in for a cup of tea or for that occasional reprimand, and sometimes we slept over far longer than expected:) She holds a special place in my heart and will be forever remembered as a strong Aunt that had great influence in my life. She was there as so many other Aunts were to help us through some life's lessons. I will always love her.

Anne Rheault

November 27, 2020

Always the mother , when I needed one after mine was gone . Big Arlene for my Baby Girls Jillian and Ryan . Really the only nana they ever had ,
They have never forgotten the things you've done for us , or the boys too .
We are going to miss you , I'm going to miss our phone calls that could last for an hour or so , just chatting on about everything under the sun .
You loved me and I loved you with my whole heart , I couldn't have never asked for a better substitute for my mother . When you get heaven please give her a hug for me and the kids , Mother Dear and GrandDad too .
So long my dear friend , ill see you when I get there ... Maybe ! RIP

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