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NOYMER, Barbara of Marblehead, MA, passed away peacefully in her home on May 17, 2019 at the age of 90. Born Barbara Jane Alperin to Helen (Beck) Alperin and Maurice G. Alperin, she graduated from Newton High School in 1946 and from Simmons College in 1950. Barbara was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother, as well as a dear friend to many. She remained close friends with many of her childhood, college, career and community friends right up until her death. She loved living in Marblehead, her home of over 66 years. She was widely known as a skilled and caring guidance counselor at Marblehead High School where she worked for many years. Barbara's grandchildren would marvel, while out and about in Marblehead with Grandma, when former students would shout out, "Hi, Mrs. Noymer!" and fill Barbara in on college and post-college life. She always remembered her former students and was always eager to hear how they were doing. In 1971, when her oldest child went off to college and her youngest went to kindergarten, Barbara furthered her education part time. She earned a Master of Education Degree and with a specialty in Guidance and Counseling from Salem State College in 1975. Initially, she worked for Operation Bootstrap in Lynn and offered private college and career coaching prior to becoming a Guidance Counselor at MHS in 1983. Throughout this time, she managed to bake her famous graham cracker squares and send care packages to her kids in college. Barbara loved being outside in the fresh air, and many people in Marblehead recognized her as a frequent walker. She also loved the beach and enjoyed riding her bike and cross-country skiing for recreation. With her husband Arthur, she traveled widely and loved meeting new people to add to her circle of friends. Barbara was predeceased by her husband and best friend of 67 years, Arthur Noymer, and leaves her four children, David and wife Sandy Puritz of Newton, Edward and wife Leslie Luft Noymer of Andover, Beth Noymer Levine and partner Mark Goldfarb of Utah, and Peter and wife Grace Colon of California, and her 10 grandchildren, Jeffrey and Samuel Noymer; Rebecca and Deborah Noymer; Nathaniel, Hannah, and Molly Levine; and Benjamin, Katharine, and Jacob Noymer. In addition, she leaves her former son-in-law Henry Levine, and sister Nancy Alexander. Barbara also leaves extended family members, including many cousins, nieces and nephews. Barbara's funeral will be held on Sunday, May 26th at 11:00 a.m. at Temple Emanuel, 385 Ward Street, Newton Centre, MA. Interment will follow at Temple Emeth Memorial Park, 776 Baker Street, West Roxbury, MA. Shiva will be observed at the home of David Noymer and Sandy Puritz following the burial until 5 p.m. and again from 7 - 9 p.m. On Monday and Tuesday, Shiva will be observed at Barbara's late residence from 2 - 5 p.m. and from 7 - 9 p.m. Shiva will resume at David's home on Wednesday and Thursday from 2 - 5 p.m. and 7 - 9 p.m. and Friday from 2 - 5 p.m. The family wants to thank Julia Raynes and her wonderful caregivers for their loyal friendship and impeccable care, as well as Amy Bartlett, RN, from Care Dimensions. Donations in Barbara's memory may be made to the Abbot Public Library Fund, Inc., PO Box 1409, Marblehead, MA. 01945. Please note 'Abbot 140 Capital Campaign'. For more information or to register in the online guestbook, please visit www.stanetskyhymansonsalem.com. Stanetsky-Hymanson Chapel 781-581-2300

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Published by Boston Globe from May 20 to May 21, 2019.

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Bill Woodfin

June 18, 2019

I am sorry to see the passing of Barbara who is the mother of one of my MHS classmates Eddy! Condolences to Eddy and the rest of the
Noymer family on the passing of your mom. Bill Woodfin, Marblehead, MA

Jacqueline Polimeni

May 30, 2019

I remember Barbara fondly. She was the first person I met when I enrolled my son into MHS and Barbara was his Guidance Counselor. I will always remember her kindness, her wonderful way she had with my children and all of her students, and how she was a mentor to me when I received my Master's Degree in Secondary School Counseling.

In later years, long after my children had graduated from MHS, I would run into Barbara out shopping and she would always ask about them. She was extraordinary.

I will share the news of Barbara's passing away with my children, Daniel Press and Carly Press Tanis. I know they will be equally upset as I, as well as, having wonderful memories of her.

Jackie Polimeni

JUDITH fox

May 26, 2019

IT WAS A PRIVILEGE TO HAVE BARBARA AS A NEIGHBOR.WE HAD MANY LAUGHS TOGETHER.I HAVE NEVER MET A MOTHER WHO WAS PROUDER OF THEIR FAMILY.I WILL MISS HER.

Jeff Magee

May 24, 2019

I'm sorry to hear about Barbara's passing. I've known Barbara for many years. Mostly through doing the landscaping at her latest residence and on Seaview Avenue as well. In more recent years Barbara and I had many conversations. Mostly about my family which she knew quite well. And always asked me about them when I saw her. And to add, even a few laughs about Arthur and my Dad working in the leather goods industry. I enjoyed talking with her and will miss her caring heart.

Susanne and Jeff Lyons

May 22, 2019

A lovely tribute to a long and productive life. We extend our condolences to the Noymer family.

May 21, 2019

Our sincere condolences.
Nancy and Arnold Alexander

Emily Leamon Andreano

May 21, 2019

My sincere condolences to your family.

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Funeral

11:00 a.m.

Temple Emanuel

385 Ward Street, Newton Centre, MA 01970

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Shiva

2:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

Barbara's late residence

MA 01970

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7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

Barbara's late residence

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Barbara's late residence

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David's home

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Shiva

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David's home

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Shiva

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David's home

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David's home

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Funeral services provided by:

Stanetsky-Hymanson Memorial Chapel

10 Vinnin Street, Salem, MA 01970

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