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Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence R. Burgess (Larry and Liz)
March 5, 2023
This is Liz Burgess, Larry's wife, writing for both of us on March 5, 2023. Dave was a dear, dear friend whom I met on my first date with Larry in 1968. I can picture Dave and Pitts Jarvis standing in the door of Larry's basement "office." (Pitts told Larry afterwards that my skirt was too short.) We remained friends with Dave long after he and Larry left MIT, seeing him whenever possible. When we bought our first house in Philadelphia, he came to help us move. We last saw him at the gathering for Pitts at the Jarvis house in Palo Alto. I remember that Larry drove me home to the South Bay, then drove back to Palo Alto to talk with Dave into the wee hours. Re-reading Dave's obituary this weekend, I once again marvel that such a brainy guy was friends with ME!
We have never known the circumstances of Dave's death. Could someone tell us? We'd love to talk to Jean or Julia. We are especially interested because Larry was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in August 2021.
Lawrence Burgess
May 20, 2021
David was 2 years behind me at MIT. Both of us were in the Sigma Nu fraternity. He was mentally and physically active during his college years. He played on most of the fraternity sports teams. He was an early fan of the outdoors and nature trails. I would take walks with him and a few others at parks 5-20 miles outside Boston. I met up with him a couple of times in the last several years, at my 50th reunion and at a funeral here in California for one of his fraternity classmates. I am so sorry that he passed away earlier than we would all hope.
Susan G Burmaster
April 6, 2021
David has been a part of my life for over 40 years!
We first met when, as a long lost cousin, he came to visit us when we lived in England.
I knew from that first meeting that he would be a special part of my life.
The world is a little smaller without this unique man who has been a counselor, life guide & a caring, beloved friend. Always just a phone call away .... with answers & advice for any problem, or just for a chat about baking bread, ham radio competitions or life in general.
Always in my prayers...as my beloved David. Now, Forever in my heart.
Carol Leary
March 12, 2021
I met David on the first day of seventh grade as we both entered a new, accelerated program at North Junior High School in Niagara Falls, New York. I can see him now in my mind’s eye and, within a few days, I realized he was the smartest boy I had ever met. To this day, I always considered him to be among the brightest, most brilliant men I had ever known.
We went through junior high and high school together and were voted most likely to succeed for the Class of 1965. David entered MIT and I entered Boston University and we kept in touch through our college years. Then our lives moved in different ways and in different cities but the connection was always there. When we moved back from DC to Boston in the late eighties we reconnected. And then we saw each other at least once at year at the Women’s Leadership Conference at Bay Path University where he then met many of my friends and classmates from Boston University, SUNY Albany, and American University and became close to several of my colleagues at the University. He loved that Bay Path was an all women’s university and he contributed to a Robotics Competition and helped set it up. And he gave money for a scholarship. When I shared that David had passed away, one my colleagues remarked that the Robotics Competition was one of her fondest memories of a 25-year career at Bay Path. David had many friends during his lifetime and was loyal to each. He had good advice when you asked but he was not afraid to ask for advice as well. He took it upon himself to be a key leader for the Niagara Falls Class of 1965 High School Reunion Committee and worked tirelessly to create a database of our classmates. He sent my husband and me wonderful CDs and books throughout the years whenever we expressed a certain interest in someone or something. And yes. We received a beautiful book on baking bread, one of his favorite pastimes. I shall never forget David; his brilliant mind; his caring personality; and his never-ending search of new knowledge. My husband and I extend our deepest sympathies to the family and we plan to contribute a gift to Bay Path to recognize the research of a woman science major who shows great promise. I know David would like that!
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