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Puckie
August 3, 2011
Dear Joanie, We met so early in life, though to the two us it seemed like entry into adult life, and I guess it really was. You were my very first, and for a number of years, only married friend, and together we entertained numbers of single friends, most in law school with Will but certainly not all of them. Just lots of friends around doing lots of things together.
You were such fun, Joanie, and had such joy to give. Weekend plans always had a special snap and style when you were part of the planning. You were a model for taking prudent risks, an odd phrase, I know, but one which fits. Your motto was, "Why not?" That didn't mean sky-diving off the Hancock Building, but it did mean exploring places and events about which others felt a bit reticent: cooking a new dish which involved hours of tricky preparation, going to sports events in sort of scary parts of town, setting out to explore places my mother had warned me against for no reason whatsoever. And all of it was such fun. Such fun.
We didn't know each other as real, growing-up adults, sadly. I remember when Reid and Claire were born, but they were so very tiny when Law School ended, and we all went wherever we went. What a loss that was.
Wherever you went and wherever you are, people are happier, better cared for, more congenial in a group, and more open-minded for your being there.
What a wonderful legacy you created and with such ease. Lucky us!
Love,
Puckie
Puckie [email protected]
August 3, 2011
Dear Will, The news of Joanie's death came as a terrible shock to me. Although we had not kept in touch and had not seen each other for almost 40 years, she was always in my mind as a model of optimism, radiance and fun. Real belly-laughing fun. Surrounded by sad deaths and way too many divorces, she kept, at least in public, a resolute and cheerful pragmatism along with fierce loyalty. She just loved the people she loved, and there was no room for discussion.
She was memorable for so very much, especially extraordinary staunchness no matter what she faced. I have missed her over the years, a gap in life which seems more acute knowing that it can never be mended.
I don't know how to get in touch with you but hope so very much that you are heir to her magic touch, which means that you are surrounded by love. The two of you built an extraordinary life together, Will, and I am deeply lucky to have been around when the cornerstone was set and the building just begun.
I am going to add a letter to Jon herself, the one I always was going to write and now do so too late. But with no dimunition of the emptiness that her loss brings.
With deepest sympathy and affection
Gricel M Ocasio
December 29, 2010
Dear Hastings Family,
We knew Joan and she was amazing to us. Please know that she is missed. Please accept our most sincere condolences.
Gricel M. Ocasio, Publisher, The Rainbow Times
Nicole Lashomb, Editor, The Rainbow Times
November 27, 2010
Dear Wil and Family,
My welcome into the Northampton community was complete when Joan accepted my offer to co-moderate the phenomenal Learning in Retirement Seminar, "Discovering Character..." so newcomers to the organization would continue to have the unique experience of her organizational creativity. It has continued under other titles but will be one of her numerous legacies. May the Goddess be with you all. Ina
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November 27, 2010
The memories I spent with you two summers in a row were amazing. You were the first one to ever have me try lobster Joan!From now on, i'll be trying more adventurous things for you. Miss you and Love you.
Andy Zimbalist
November 23, 2010
Dear Will:
We didn't know Joan well, but knew what a wonderful force she was in our community. We will miss her as our neighbor. Please accept our condolences and let us know if there is anything we can do.
Andy and Shelley Zimbalist
Jo Landers
November 23, 2010
Wil, I am so sorry
Leo
November 19, 2010
Dear Reed,
So sorry to hear about your Mom. I remember her as smart, welcoming, accomplished, and spirited. We'll keep you and your family in our thoughts.
robert uphaus
November 19, 2010
We only knew Joan and her husband
November 19, 2010
We only knew Joan and her husband
Nick Pilch
November 18, 2010
Our condolences. I remember her and feel for you and your loss.
November 18, 2010
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. Very sad. She was a lovely woman. I am glad I got to see her last year after a very long time. Jo-Ann Giuggio and Joe Giunta
Tammy Gardner
November 17, 2010
I'm so sorry to hear about Joan. And send you all my best wishes and good thoughts your way. Love, Tammy Gardner (formerly Laskaris from Belmont)
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