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JOSEPH LAPPEN Obituary

LAPPEN, Joseph Aaron Joe Lappen, of Delray Beach, FL, formerly of Randolph, Quincy and Hull, MA, died peacefully on Wednesday, July 17, 2019, at the age of 95. Beloved husband of Shirley (Moller) Lappen. Dear father of Jacki Lappen & her husband Karl Eberth, Henry Lappen & his partner Susan Farber, Cara-Lyn Lappen & her husband Jon Holst, and the late Edward Lappen & his surviving wife Helene Lieb. Loving brother of Harvey Lappen, and the late Dorothy Clayton and Heshie Lappen. Cherished grandfather of Ross & Steph Lieblappen, Mia & Mike Panzer, Jasper Lapienski, Adrian Eberth, Ezra Fradkin, Ethan Holst, Grace Holst, and great-grandfather of Everett Lieblappen. Joe was the owner and general manager of Lappen Auto Supply and Garage Equipment, which he ran with his brother Harvey and son Edward for most of his life. He was passionately married to Shirley for 71 years. He was an avid runner logging five miles a day at the Quincy Y. He loved boating, golf, Passover seders, and being with his family. He was a staff sergeant flying 51 bombing missions over Germany in WWII. Funeral services will be held at the Stanetsky Memorial Chapel, 475 Washington Street, Canton, MA, on Sunday, July 21, at 1PM, followed by interment at Sharon Memorial Park. Memorial observance (shiva) will be held at the home of Helene Lieb, 18 Deep Run, Cohasset, following interment until 9PM and on Monday & Tuesday from 2-4PM & 7-9PM. Expressions of sympathy in his memory may be donated to the charity of your choice.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 18 to Jul. 19, 2019.

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Rob Pearlman

August 6, 2019

I was saddened today to hear about Joe's passing. We first met and started doing business about 1971. He quickly became a personal friend and even though we hadn't been in touch for about 20 years, I feel I have lost a close friend.
The Lappen family is one of the most honorable families I have ever done business with.
Ha'makom yenahem etkhem betokh she'ar avelei
Tziyonvi'Yerushalayim

David Zeidman

July 23, 2019

Shirley - please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family on Joe's passing. Yours was truly a remarkable union for 71 years ! My late mother, Ruthie Zeidman, and my late aunt, Edie Davis, became friends of yours when you and Joe moved to Quincy and joined Temple Beth El.

My best to you always.

David Sonny Zeidman
Braintree, MA

Mark Bell

July 22, 2019

Condolences to the Lappen family. I am sorry for your loss. I am sorry I never got to meet Joe Lappen. I would have liked to have stood next to him, shake his hand and looked him in the eye and thanked him for his service to this country. He was a part of the greatest generation. I married a Kramer. My wife is a first cousin once removed from Joe Lappen. What great stories he must have had. Rest in peace Joe.

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Stanetsky Memorial Chapels - Canton

475 Washington Street, Canton, MA 02021

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the home of Helene Lieb

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2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

the home of Helene Lieb

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7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

the home of Helene Lieb

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2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

the home of Helene Lieb

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Shiva

7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.

the home of Helene Lieb

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