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Paul Parks, a longtime activist in Boston's black community who served as state secretary of education and chairman of the city's School Committee, died today in his Mattapan home of cancer. He was 86.
"He was one of the first citizens of the city, no question about it," said Michael S. Dukakis, who in his first term as governor appointed Mr. Parks to be education secretary.
Praising him for his dignity and accomplishments, Dukakis said Mr. Parks served the Commonwealth on the state and municipal levels "at a time of great turmoil, great tension, when the city tried to find its way through a whole period of history and come out on the other side with some real values and without the hypocrisy we lived with for decades."
Mr. Parks, who grew up in Indianapolis, moved to Boston in 1951 to work as an engineer and soon became a key player in the city's civil rights struggles.
As a leader of the Boston chapter of the NAACP, he advocated in the mid-1960s for desegregation, then served as vice president of the Metropolitan Council for Educational Opportunities as plans were made for busing.
When Dukakis announced in 1974 that Mr. Parks would be the first black to join his cabinet, some prominent white politicians criticized the education secretary appointment. But Dukakis called Mr. Parks "eminently qualified to chart the new educational course for the Commonwealth."
Doubts in some political circles weren't the only challenges he faced. As education secretary, he rode on buses alongside black students going to South Boston High School and shielded some as rocks crashed through windows.
"That was very scary, but I was more afraid for the kids," he told the Globe in 1992, recalling how he pushed students to the floor of the bus during some of those rides. "It was an awful thing for them to go through. It wasn't that easy for me, either."
In 1992, Mr. Parks became the first black to serve as chairman of the Boston School Committee. Raymond L. Flynn, then Boston's mayor, appointed Mr. Parks to the post at the time the committee had switched from an elected to an appointed body.
"When we went through the whole process of reorganizing and reforming public education in Boston, Paul stood shoulder to shoulder with me, despite the fact that it was quite unpopular to many people in the city," Flynn said.
He added that Mr. Parks "commanded a presence because he had this peculiar voice that when he spoke, people listened. It was almost like a voice from up high. When he spoke, you just turned around and listened to him, if not for what he said, then for how he said it."
Several years ago, Mr. Parks found himself in the public eye when his accounting of his military service during World War II was challenged.
Mr. Parks said he was detached from an engineer regiment and was at the Dachau concentration camp when it was liberated in 1945, but others in the military said that account was not supported by records.
Nonetheless, during a ceremony in Berlin in 2000, Mr. Parks was presented with an award named for Raoul Wallenberg, who saved thousands from Nazi gas chambers during the Holocaust.
The Berlin B'nai B'rith chapter, which honored Mr. Parks, looked into the conflicting accounts and announced nearly two years later that Mr. Parks could keep the award.
"Although there is no eyewitness support for Parks's claims, neither is there any eyewitness refutation, and his US military records are not inconsistent with his account," the organization said in August 2002.
Mr. Parks leaves his wife of nearly 38 years, Virginia (Loftman) of Mattapan; a son, Paul Jr. of Cumberland, R.I.; a daughter, Pamela Parks McLaurin of Milton; Stacey Parks Townsend of Canton, a daughter from his wife's previous marriage whom he adopted; a sister, Dorothy Jean Parks of Quincy; and four grandchildren.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 31 to Aug. 5, 2009.

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Marian Baylin

December 6, 2023

To the Parks Family
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St Petersburg FL

Robin (Nappi) Gaeta

December 1, 2012

Dear Virginia, it has been many, many years since I've seen you; I hope you'll remember me. This is Robin Nappi. I was your Admin Asst 1980 - 1986 under Alex Rodriguez and Leon Brathwaite back in the day. I have thought of you and Paul so many times over the years. I hope this message finds you. With all my Love, Robin.

Ella, Alexander Gorlov

January 5, 2010

Dear Virginia! My husband Alex and I were absolutely devastated when we read in the Boston Globe’s annual martyrology about the death of our dear Paul. Somehow we miss that sad information due to our absence from Boston in August and couldn't attend the funeral to pay our last respect to him. With certain delay but from the bottom of our hearts we are sending you and your family our deepest sympathy and condolences. I knew Paul Parks professionally and had the pleasure of working with him. From the first encounter with him I had been under the spell of his outstanding personality. He was a man of dignity, compassion and wisdom and I always felt like in irredeemable debt for all he had done for me personally as for a recent immigrant and a new American. Although we didn’t meet with him often in the last years Paul always remained in our life as a very important person, a dear friend and trustworthy advisor. We will cherish the memory of him for the rest of our lives.

Mona Yancey-Frazier

August 13, 2009

Paul & family. I know this is very late, but I hope Buz gave you my heartfelt condolences. I know how tough it is to lose your Dad, but you have to know that his soul is at rest in the love of Jesus Christ and that he lived his life as God wanted him to. Please let me know, through Buzzy, if there is anything I can do besides pray for his soul and for your peace. God Bless You.

Edward and Starra Anderson

August 9, 2009

To the family of Paul Parks,
My husband and I were so sorry to here about the death of your loved one. He was a great man in this community and he will be greatly missed by all. My you all find peace in your time of sorrow. Remember to be absent in the body is to present with the Lord.

August 8, 2009

To the family of Paul Parks, Sr., please accept my condolences.Paul was an inspirational leader to many of us who came to know him as a fraternity brother and who also had the opportunity and privilege of serving with him during the Dukakis administration. He was a man with great wisdom who revered life. He will be missed.

Wallace Kountze

Diane Good

August 8, 2009

Paul, Jean, Paul and Victoria,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your father and grandfather. We know that he has been ill for some time and pray that the Lord has him in his arms and is watching over all of you and blessing you with healing. Our sympathies and wishes for peace and healing are with you at this time.
Jim and Diane Good
Lindsey, Jimmy, Spencer and Nancy

Kevin Francis

August 8, 2009

Paul Parks was generous with his time and the infinite wisdom he shared. He was always kind and a warm presence whenever I visited him and Aunt Jean in Boston. I truly feel privileged to have known him. Aunt Jean, I know your great strength, family and friends will help you at this time of loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember, those who live in the hearts of others never die. Paul is in the hearts of many.

With Heartfelt Condolences,

Kevin

Nik Nik (great-neice)

August 7, 2009

To My Great Aunt Jean,
I love you all so much. I am so sorry I can't be there now. My deepest condolences are with you and Stacy. I miss you guys and pray that GOD comforts you in this time. Love you lots.

Connie Redden

August 7, 2009

I am loosing the only male role models I’ve ever known. My Boston father/Mentor and my biological father. Both at the same time. I know not to ask why.

I will miss you Paul but I know you are happy with what I have done with my life through your guidance. Thanks to you and your wife (Virginia), I was not a lose child. I had a dream and I reached it.

To Virginia and family, please accept my most sincere condolences on your loss. My family and I have been praying since we heard. Words alone cannot express my sorrow but I needed you to know that meeting Paul made a major difference in my life. I was taught that you should never say “I could not have done it without you”. But I MUST say, Paul, I could not have reached my goals without you. Thank you so much Paul and Virginia.
Connie

Cynthia Scott

August 7, 2009

I met Paul Parks at a meeting at Freedom House when I was a young woman upset over urban renewal. While Paul often disagreed with my positions on urban renewal and later on civil rights and strategies for attacking racism in Boston, he did so with grace and humor. He will be missed as a very vocal supporter of equal rights for African Americans and quality education for our children. I will miss his warmth and insight.

THEDA FERNANDEZ

August 6, 2009

I have known Paul Parks all of my life. He was a dear friend to my parents and a wonderful inspiration to all of us who knew him and prospered under his tutelage. I will miss him terribly.
With love, !Que descanse en paz!

Margaret Belle

August 6, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Valerie I. Lake-Hart

August 5, 2009

Virginia and The Family of Paul Parks:
Mr Parks lived a rewarding life, full of wisdom, a people's person and a wonderful neighbor. Woodhaven Street has lost a great friend. I will miss him.

August 5, 2009

To The Family of Paul Parks:
We have known Paul for many years through his Community work and he will be sadless missed.
"If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My father will love him, and We will come to him and make our home with him. John 14:23
We will keep you in our prayers.
Deacon John and Deaconess Elaine MADDOX
Morning Star Baptist Church, Mattapan

Karl Nurse

August 5, 2009

I knew Paul Parks professionally as a dedicated public servant, but more so, as a warm and open individual who dedicated himself to the causes of his community. Although I am more than 20 years his junior and he, a member of the greatest generation, I was honored that he called me his friend. To his family, in particular to Paul Parks Jr, my deepest sympathy, Karl Nurse

Richard I. Clayman

August 5, 2009

A wonderful gentleman---my sincere condolences--Richy Clayman from Chelsea

Leonidas Mulrain

August 5, 2009

Virginia,Paul was a great guy,may God bless his soul.I always remember his service to the City and the Country--However most of all I remember the fun we had on the Caribbean Cruises--Keep the faith.Marjorie and myself extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time.

August 4, 2009

Dear Gin: you and the entire family have Kevin and mine deepest sympathy. Paul will be greatly missed. Kevin was reading some of the stories that was wrriten about Paul and what he has done for the City of Boston and hopes his legacy lives forever. (Tara Arjoon)

Barbara Burke

August 4, 2009

Paul will be remembered by many of us for his support, advice and mentoring early in our careers. Thank you for your support and for being a friend.
My prayers are with Virginia, Pam and the rest of the family.
Sincerely,

Ralph Cooper

August 3, 2009

Virginia,you and the entire Parks family have Deneice's and my deepest sympathy.Paul was my friend and mentor.
Who as Secretary of Education kept Boston State's evening under-grad college alive while I attended as a veteran-student.Paul was a hero.We thank God for his service.Paul will be missed but always remembered. We love you,
Sincerely

Jim & Fran Kneeland

August 3, 2009

Funny how we approach life and react differently. This was a man who spent his life coping with hardships and challenges far beyond normal. Not just once, but again and again, from the ghetto streets of Indianapolis to WWII to busing in the streets of Boston. Yet, instead of becoming an angry man, Mr. Parks was a man of dignity, compassion and wisdom.

He used his experiences, education and wisdom to help others. He always had a kind word, joke or a smile to put you at ease. He will be sorely missed by many but leaves behind a wonderful family and legacy of kindness and strength.

Eddie Downs

August 3, 2009

Paul Parks will be missed by many. I had the pleasure of working with Paul at City Hall when he sat on the ZBA. I found him to be the kindest, and one of the most respectful people I have ever met. He has left his mark in the City of Boston. He raised his family with the same values he had. God Bless

Evelyn Cobb

August 3, 2009

Dear Gin,
Thank you for sharing Paul with so many of us. We can always look back on the time we shared in Angela's kitchen and the anecdotes and stories he told. May God be with you and family for always.

Vermelle Parks

August 3, 2009

To Virginia and the Parks family, I extend my heartfelt sympathy in the passing of Paul. A gentleman , a scholar and dearly beloved by so many
people. His acts of kindness to people like me and my family will never be forgotten. These people are all over Massachusetts and beyond. His kindness to people of every walk of life
insures a legacy greater than all of the work he did in purposefully building in institutions. May he rest in peace now for he has served well and a lived well. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Love Vermelle Parks&family

August 3, 2009

Dear Jeannie, my heart goes out to you and my adopted family at this time.

Thelma "T" Davenport-Tulloch,
White Plains, NY

Cynthia Macdonald

August 2, 2009

More than twenty years ago two gentlemen offered to let a friend and me sit in two empty seats at the small table the gentlemen occupied in a crowded Boston after-work gathering place. Both of the gentlemen were named Paul Parks. This courtesy resulted in a most memorable evening, filled with intelligent conversation and inspiring anecdotes. We also learned that we have mutual friends, very dear to us. Thank you again, Mr. Parks, for the courtesy and the conversation. Godspeed to you and God bless the Parks family.

Linda Johnson

August 1, 2009

Paul Parks Sr.
Larger than life, gentle in spirit, a man admired and loved by many!
I count my blessings every day that I have a wonderful friend, Paul Parks Jr. and through him I am blessed to have known Paul Sr. for many many years of my life . You were always a guiding light- full of patience and loving concern for the children of the city -lovingly known as "Dad" starting with the youth at St. Marks Church and growing beyond any boundaries imagined. You were always accessible and listened intensely to what was said and more importantly what was not said. Knowing you has made me a better person and you have left the world a better place. You will always be remembered as a beam of light ever glowing with purpose, love and helpfulness even to your last days My condolences to the family in this time of loss. Love Linda

Audrey Hind

August 1, 2009

Dear Virginia,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Audrey Hind

August 1, 2009

Paul Parks upon meeting us at a social gathering in our neighborhood and hearing about our handicapped son offered to help and did so and we are eternally grateful. Virginia and Paul just lit up the room and made it a very interesting and fun evening. Our deepest sympathy to Virginia, Stacey, Paul Jr., Pamela and Paul's sister Dorothy.

Joe & Teresa Terranova, Wells, Maine (Formerly Framingham, MA.)

Teresa Terranova

August 1, 2009

Paul Parks upon meeting us at a social gathering in our neighborhood and hearing about our handicapped son offered to help and did so and we are eternally grateful. Virginia and Paul just lit up the room and made it a very interesting and fun evening. Our deepest sympathy to Virginia, Stacey, Paul Jr., Pamela and Paul's sister Dorothy.

Joe & Teresa Terranova, Wells, Maine (Formerly Framingham, MA.)

Larry DiCara

August 1, 2009

Paul was an important citizen of our city for many decades; our paths crossed frequently at City Hall, the State House, the Board of Appeal, and in the community. His was a full and productive life.

David Mortimer

August 1, 2009

Mr. Parks was so generous with his time and expertise. Back in his Model Cities days, he was very patient with a group college students who were trying to provide recreation/education services in a Model Neighborhood. Mr Parks always had time for us and taught us how to navigate the bureaucracy. May he rest in peace.

Bob Consalvo

August 1, 2009

Having worked with Paul on the Boston School Committee, I know first hand of his personal crusade to improve the lives of Boston's school children. He was a special person: smart and wise, courageous and kind. His civic leadership in Boston will have a lasting effect and be long remembered. My condolences to Virginia and his family.

Rosina Lucibello

August 1, 2009

Rest in Peace, Mr. Parks. You will never be forgotten; you inspired a lot of people, including myself. God Bless You.

Jay Goober

August 1, 2009

Mr. Parks created an amazing and exceptional life that truly serves an example for others. My condolences to his family.

Tom Keane

July 31, 2009

He was a healer who left Boston a much better place than he found it.

Martha Ziegler

July 31, 2009

With the passing of Paul Parks, we have lost one of our most inspiring Boston heroes. I hope his family and friends are consoled by the memory of his leadership in helping to bring Boston children and families through one of our most challenging times. We must dedicate ourselves to continuing the work begun by Paul and his colleagues.

Adam Pachter

July 31, 2009

Rest in peace, Mr. Parks. God Bless You.

Tom Finneran

July 31, 2009

Paul Parks was the foremost citizen of Mattapan. Our city and our Commonwealth are diminished by his passing. I could always seek his counsel and count on his passion for community causes. He was a model of civic engagement and public service. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and his many friends. I hope they are consoled by the knowledge that he is at rest and at peace in God's kingdom.

Thomas Jones

July 31, 2009

Mr. Parks:

We are better people for having known you, Sir. You served your country proudly at it's great moment of need, saw the true depth of human hatred and suffering. You returned to your country and set about building a greater City for all of us to live in. You overcame great odds and obstacles with dignity and intellegence. You showed me many great attributes in your time on the Boston Zoning Board. Rest in Peace after a job well done for all of us

Ken Edelin, M.D.

July 31, 2009

A wonderful and great human being who made a difference in the lives of so many - not only in Boston and Massachusetts but around the world. The world is a better place because of Paul. He will be missed but his legacy endures.

Dan Genannt

July 31, 2009

I've only met him once or twice, but through his son, Paul Jr, I know Paul as a caring, kind gentleman who was able to change the lives of those around him. My sincere condolences to the whole Parks family on your loss. May you find God's grace and peace ever present through these difficult times.

Taneè Sutherland

July 31, 2009

To my uncle Paul "Peeps", you were always there for the family! I could always come to you to talk, to laugh, and to cry! Your are a great man in so many ways. It's going to be hard with you gone but you will forever have a piece of my heart! I love you with all my heart! You will never be forgotten! Your spirit is with all of us! I Love You! ~ Nae

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