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Memories and Condolences
for Victoria Wightman
stranger friend
October 25, 2018
You are never forgotten.
Rhonda Miles
August 27, 2007
Hi Torri
Miss ya everyday.....It's very strange without you here with us.I guess it always will be...But you are always in our hearts...As tough as it is,we all know we will be together again someday...
Love and Miss Ya....
Love Aunt Rhonda xoxox
August 26, 2007
Not a day goes by where I don't think of you or touch your beautiful photo with the same thoughts and questions going through my head..what if, why...Although our questions remain unanswered,one question that can be easily answered is will your family ever be the same? Never. We love and miss you.
Auntie Raine xoxo
Me
May 17, 2007
A part of you lives on in each of your family. They are loving, kind and gentle.... and fun... and funny. I just don't think I can do this without you though. I have been trying. I really have. You know that.
May 16, 2007
Dear Torri,
We miss and love you so much. You are forever in our hearts and in our thoughts.
Love, Auntie Raine, Gary and Family
Rhonda miles
May 16, 2007
Hey Torri
We went to visit you today. We went to your one year Mass and then went to visit you.So many pretty flowers,so many love and miss you! But you know all that i guess. Thinking of you today and we are all taking care of your Mom and Dad.....Love
Aunt Rhonda xoxo
May 16, 2007
You are missed. Loved by so many but never forgotten by any. You left this earth 1 year ago today but never left our hearts.
Rhonda Miles
May 10, 2007
Hey Torri
Hard to believe on the 16th of May it will be a year.It has been tough here without you. Mom and Dad and all of us miss you so much..watch over Mom and Dad this week,they will need you.Love Aunt Rhonda xoxo
May 5, 2007
It is hard to believe the time that has passed since you suddenly left us. Our family will never be the same no matter how many days pass. We only pray that you are at peace,happy and ask that you continue to watch over Mom and Dad.
Love To Our Angel
Aunt Loraine and Family xoxoxoxo
April 16, 2007
Kisses sweet angel.
Love Aunt Loraine and Uncle Gary x0x0
Rhonda Miles
April 8, 2007
Hi Torri
Happy Easter!!!! We are all thinking about you today.........
Love Aunt Rhonda & Cousin Bobby
xoxox
April 8, 2007
Our Dearest Torri,
Happy Easter to you and all of the angels. Watch over your family.
Love,
Auntie Raine, Uncle Gary, Billy and Lindsey
Mom
March 26, 2007
You would have been so proud Torri Bean. Your family and your friends carry your heart and your spirit. This makes me less lonely for you. I love you so much.
March 24, 2007
Dear Torri,
Our hearts are so sore on what would have been your 17th birthday. May you party among the angels today and enjoy a huge angel cake. We love you forever. Auntie Raine and Family x0x0
rhonda miles
March 24, 2007
Torri
Happy 17th Birthday!!!!!!I bet they are having the biggest cake in heaven for you.....Thinking of you on this special day...Watch over Dad and Mom today it will be a very hard day for them without you.
Love and Miss you..
Aunt Rhonda & Cousin Bobby xoxox
RHONDA MILES
March 20, 2007
TORRI
SEVENTEEN ON SATURDAY..... WE WILL CELEBRATE WITH YOU ON SUNDAY AT YOUR BIRTHDAY MASS YOUR MOM HAS SET UP...HAPPY 17TH BIRTHDAY TORRI.YOU ARE ALREADY AN ANGEL AT THE YOUNG AGE OF 17....SO HARD TO BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE REALY GONE..WE ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH.BUT THINK OF YOU EVERDAY.
lOVE
AUNT RHONDA AND COUSIN BOBBY XOXOX
Linda Joy
March 17, 2007
Dear Torri
In the few times I had met you, I felt very lucky. Want you to know you're always thought of. I feel honored to write in your guest book. You're like a beautiful sunset. Happy St.Patrick's Day. Love from the Cape
March 15, 2007
Dear Torri,
It is hard to believe the passage of time yet it seems like yesterday. We miss you so much and seeing your thumbs up sign. Love Aunt Raine and Gary
Rhonda Miles
March 14, 2007
Hey Torri,
Miss you and i am sending up a big hug for your Birthday on the 24th. You would be 17,hard to believe.You left us way to soon Torri...Miss Ya Lots!!!
Love Aunt Rhonda xoxox
March 2, 2007
Sending you the biggest hug
x0x0
February 22, 2007
moremostbestinfinityandbeyond
February 17, 2007
Dear Tor,
Thinking of you today and everyday. Pray that you are happy among the angels and have met up with family that have gone before you. Love forever,
Aunt Loraine x0x0
rhonda miles
February 14, 2007
Hi Torri
Happy Valentines day!!!!! We miss you and wanted to send a big hug up to heaven.PS Don't eat to much chocolate....Love Aunt Rhonda xoxo
February 3, 2007
Tor,
Just sending a kiss and hug up your way. We love and miss you tons.
Auntie Raine, Gary, Billy and Lindsey
RHONDA MILES
January 30, 2007
HEY TORRI,
JUST STOPPING BY TO SAY HELLO.WE MISS YOU EVERYDAY AND ONLY WISH YOU COULD BE WITH US.I HOPE YOU HAVE MADE MANY FRIENDS IN HEAVEN. I AM SURE YOU HAVE ALREADY STARTED A BAND AND ARE SINGING AND DANCING UP A STORM. SAY YOUR PRAYERS FOR DAD AND MOM OKAY..IT'S STILL SO HARD FOR EVERYONE. WELL TALK TO YOU SOON.
LOVE AUNT RHONDA XOX
Karen
January 29, 2007
Donnie,Lucy,Aunt Virginia & Uncle Don ,Lorraine, Rhonda,Cindy,& Tom And all my Cousins.I just watched the last video and I am sobbing I am a frequent visitor on Torri's websight and made an attempt to watch the last video What a tribute .To many losses so Many memories.But alas life goes on and we are left with the grief & memories..I am hopeing we all find some kind of comfort and understanding.. To all of you I send my complete Love.Lucy & Donnie You are in my Prayers.Love You All .....Karen
Carolyn Jenkins
January 23, 2007
This is to Victoria's friends and family = I pray for you all, and I am not religious. It's the only words I can think of to say, because what can be said. I mean it, it's just so awful. Everyone has a story of lost loved ones. I have pain every day, I wish I could say it gets easier, but you will find out that the more life goes on, the more you will feel "they" miss. I desperately hope that there is an after life, that your daughter, my Dad, are looking down and at least being able to observe and feel our eternal love for them. That thought makes the heavy heart feel better. Really life is never long enough, never enough time. Please use the time wisely and don't let the grief rule your life. My love was my Auntie Helen, she was so great, and my friend despite a 30 year difference she died of Cancer and it literally took my family over, her husband died 14 days later of liver cancer, no one including him, knew he was sick. It has been 12 years and we still can't get over it.
rhonda miles
January 22, 2007
Hey Miss Torri,
How are you doing? We all miss you so much. We were all talking yesterday and thought about how your Birthday is coming up in March and how you would be 17....Wow....We will always remember you as young and sooo pretty......It will be a hard day for us all but we know you will be looking down on all of us and helping us once again get through another tough day....I am sure the Angels are planning a large party for you.......Things are still hard for us all,your Dad misses you soooooooo much and we can only help him get through these tough days.....We know someday we will all be together again.Just wanted to say hi and hope all is well in heaven.....Talk to you soon...
Love Aunt Rhonda xoxo PS Today is cousin Billy's 25th Birthday....
January 16, 2007
Torri. It's Tuesday the 16th. I am sending my love to your Mom and Dad and really to your whole family for all the thousands of things they wanted to give you--but couldn't--these past 8 months: things like christmas gifts, rides to school, spending money for dunkins and boston, some hugs, some kisses, some advice, hours in the car as you practised, and then a proud nod as you smiled for your registry picture...
so missed, so loved you were in life. and are now too. I hope you are having fun up in heaven.
-j
January 16, 2007
Dear Torri,
You were in my thoughts all day today. I was thinking of you and at that split second I opened the door to a pizza place and heard Aerosmith playing one of your favorites. Eight months have passed since you left this world for another and our family was broken. We love and miss you so much. Please watch over the family, especially your Dad and Mom.
Love Auntie Raine, Gary, Billy and Lindsey.
rhonda miles
January 2, 2007
Hey Torri,
Hope you had a great New Years ,i am sure you sang and danced the night away...or you shared your musical talent with all your new friends in heaven...We miss you and we will always have those great memories of you that we will hold in our hearts forever.Happy New Year Sweet angel.Watch over your Dad okay,he needs some kind of peace in his life and i think only you can give that to him.Starting a New Year without you is just so hard for him.He needs some sign from you Torri,so anything you can do to ease the pain for him would help so much.If we could see him smile just once it would meen more to us than you will ever know. Almost 8 months without a smile is just so hard for all of us.We know you will do your best.....Nobody should ever have to endure this pain,it;s just not fair..
Love
Aunt Rhonda xoxo
a friend
January 1, 2007
happy new year torri!! i hope you had an awesome celebration up in heaven.
--j
December 31, 2006
Dear Torri,
As we ready ourselves to enter a new year, still wracked with grief from your passing we hope that you enjoy a night of dancing and singing with the angels. Love Auntie Raine and Uncle Gary x0x0x
Rhonda miles
December 30, 2006
Dear Torri,
wanting to wish you a Happy New Year!!!! It's going to be 2007 and you won't be here with all those who Love you so much...It is still to soon to believe you are gone...We only hope and pray you are in the best place and that you are at peace and are happy.We think of you everyday and remember what an important part of our family you were and will always be..Happy New Year Angel...
Love Aunt Rhonda
xoxo
gramie & grandfather
December 28, 2006
sweet girl we went to visit you on xmas eve,your xmas tree was all decorated,and beautiful. xmas was hard without you I guess it ALWAYS will be. We hope you like your butterfly,cherub on your tree.
December 27, 2006
Dearest Tor,
I woke up Christmas at Gram and Grandfathers and you were the first thing on my mind. Thinking of all of our holiday's and you and LoLo running upstairs to watch a movie or go online. Although the house was full it was so empty and you could see it in everyones faces. The biggest gift you can give to us is to watch over Mom and Dad and pray that each day will give them a few moments peace. Keep sending them signs. We love you.
Auntie Raine
Aunt Rhonda
December 25, 2006
Merry christmas Sweet girl..........
We love and Miss you..........
Linda Merchant-Fahey
December 24, 2006
Dear Don:
I am so sorry for your loss. Torri was such a beautiful & special gal. I had only met her a few times, but she will always be remembered. Want you to know our family welcomes you to our home any time. You are also a special part of our lives. Thank you for stopping in -- means a lot. Best Wishes to you & your family....
Aunt Rhonda
December 24, 2006
Hi Torri,
it's Christmas Eve and it is so hard to believe you won't be with us in the morning....pray for all of us so we can all get through this holiday without you...Dad and Mom need a sign to let them know you are okay..Elise struggles everyday as do we all.I wish you the best Christamas ever with the angels....Although you can't be with us,we know you are watching over us all.say a prayer for Dad and Mom, This is just way to hard for either of them.They need your strength now more than ever...Merry Christmas Torri
We all Love and Miss you soooooooo much......Love Aunt Rhonda and Cousin Bobby xoxox
December 23, 2006
Hey Tor,
Merry Christmas. The holidays don't seem the same without you. I'm going to miss watching you take 7 or 8 of grandfathers homemade meatballs on xmas day....you were always so funny doing that. Sending you a gift wrapped heartfelt hug up to heaven ....
Uncle T
Kelly Garber
December 23, 2006
hey Torri, I just thought i would say hi, and let you know that everyone in school misses you so much! Laura and Dan and Chelsea are always talking about you, and its really tough on them. i feel like this whole 7 months has been one long nightmare, that i need someone to wake me from.. I keep replaying a video of skatetown, and all you say is "hey girlfriend" but at the same time, your saying so much more.... everyone loves you so much, and please watch over your entire family- aunts, uncles, grandparents, and mostly your parents- i can only imagine that this is a very hard time for them.... let us all know that you're watching down on us...
I love you
Merry almost Christmas girlfriend!
Rhonda Miles
December 22, 2006
Hi Torri,
Can't believe it has been seven months already...We are all thinking of you everyday....watch over Mom and Dad okay? They will need all their strength just to get through these next few weeks.We know you are watching over all of us but Mom and Dad need it so much right now. we will miss you so much on Christmas but we all know that you and the angels will have a great Christmas in Heaven.Will write soon.
Love Aunt Rhonda xoxox
December 15, 2006
Seven months tomorrow which seems like yesterday. The hurt is as strong as it was the day you left us. This is an especially difficult time for your Mom and Dad..keep your spirit with them.
Love Auntie Raine
RHONDA MILES
November 30, 2006
HI TORRI..............
WE MISS AND LOVE YOU.....DAD AND MOM ARE STILL HAVING A VERY TUFF TIME SO WATCH OVER THEM OKAY....I WILL WRITE SOON...........
LOVE AUNT RHONDA XOXOXO
November 24, 2006
Torribelle,
Miss you and all of us being together at Gram's and Grandfather's. It is especially hard with you gone and Uncle T and I so far away, we are all out of sorts. While it is far from a Happy Day for any of us, we are forever thankful to your Mom and Dad for bringing you into our lives. Comfort them in some way to ease their tremendous pain.
Love.
Auntie Raine, Uncle Gary, Billy and Linz
Aunt Rhonda Miles
November 23, 2006
Dear Torri,
Happy-Thanksgiving to you. We all miss you very much and it is very hard on us all during the Holiday Season..Watch over your Mom and Dad during these hard times.Send them a sign you are doing well....When we said grace today,you were in our prayers...Watch over cousin Elise,she is having a hard time today without you here...We Love and Miss You..
Aunt Rhonda xoxox
November 22, 2006
Hey Tor,
Thinking of you during the holiday week. Remembering you being soooooo pickey eating - a plate of turkey and some mashed potatoes....."you want some vegetables Torri"; "no thanks uncle T"....Then when dessert was served you always seemed to like to try a little bit of everything.....I am sure that you are watching over your mom and dad this year who, although it seems like they have nothing to be thankful for,need your love and signs wherever you are. Like many people, you forget about what you really should be thankful for because often one takes it for granted; when it is no longer there the void and hollow "what if's" and "should haves" come crashing down. Watch over your folks and send them a dream or two that you are thinking of them.
Love,
Uncle T
Aunt Loraine
November 15, 2006
Tor,
My deepest thoughts begin and end each day thinking of you. Love you.
November 6, 2006
Tor,
Looking at the stars thinking of you. You are forever in our hearts and on our minds.
xxxxxxxxx00000000
Auntie Raine and Uncle Gary
Becky M
October 28, 2006
For Lucy and Torri:
I just randomly bumped into the news of your unspeakable loss, Lucy...five months ago now.
I am so sorry, so sorry. I remember our girls playing, and swimming at your pool--like yesterday.
I am just so sad and sorry. I can't even tell you...
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lucy Wightman
October 26, 2006
Boozarama - 5 months has passed now... help your friends stay storng, they love you so much and need you... Dad too.
xx more most best
MOM
AUNT RHONDA MILES
October 17, 2006
TORRI,
SIX MONTHS GONE,IT IS SO HARD TO BELIEVE..WE THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY AND PRAY FOR YOU EVERYNIGHT...WE ALL MISS YOU SOOO MUCH AND WE KNOW WE WILL ALL BE TOGETHER AGAIN SOMEDAY.....UNTIL THEN....
LOVE AUNT RHONDA XOXOXO
October 16, 2006
Our broken hearts continue to ache. We miss you so much Torri.
x0x0
Auntie Raine, Gary, Billy and Linz
Loraine Wightman-Evans
October 9, 2006
Time Passes, Love Remains
September 16, 2006
It is hard to imagine you have been gone four months. Thinking of you always.
Love, Aunt Loraine, Uncle Gary, Billy and Lindsey
September 13, 2006
Torr,
I know that you knew Uncle Gary and I were there Sunday. As we turned the corner Aerosmith was playing on the radio one of your favorite songs and your windmill was spinning wildly. Watch over your family we miss you every minute of every day.
Love,
Aunt Loraine and Uncle Gary
rhonda miles
September 11, 2006
Torri................
It's Aunt Rhonda,was just thinking of you and listening to your music...It's great.We all miss you so much but we know how much God needed you with him. You are missed not only by your family but by every person who ever knew you and there were so many....Funny how you just pop into my mind. I could be just driving or cleaning the house or just watching TV!!! We talk of you often and think of you everyday.. I was looking through old photos of you when you were little... Christmas,Easter,Holidays and Birthday's and i noticed you always had that same grin on your face, like you were up to something... It made me laugh because i am sure you were! That grin will always stay with me because our sense of humors were so alike...Now you grin with the angels and i bet you have them laughing up a storm!!!!!!!
Love
Aunt Rhonda
Loraine & Gary Evans
September 8, 2006
The most spectacular yellow butterfly flew right on my window while I was driving yesterday and I knew it was you.
Passing time can never fade
All the special memories made;
Loved ones never really part
For they live inside your heart.
Love,
Julie Dolan
September 7, 2006
LUCY/TORRI
IT'S JULIE HOW ARE YOU DOING? WHEN ARE YOU NOT BUSY... LEAVE ME AN EMAIL
talk to ya soon
September 6, 2006
TORRIS MUSIC
http://www.myspace.com/torrismusic
Kim Bachofner
September 1, 2006
My son was a student at SSCPS for just two years. I remember the day of Torri's passing like it was yesterday. I sat outside waiting for my son and saw that something was not right. A boy was crying uncontrolably while talking on a cell phone in the school parking lot. He kept shouting "no, no, no. Soon after Mike (Head of school) came out and and went right to the boy. I sat there feeling something happened that was terrible. I thought to myself, someone close to him must have passed away just by the way he was reacting. Then I would stop myself and say "no one would deliver such a message over the phone." When my son got into the car, I asked him if knew why this boy would be crying. He did not. I thought about this all afternoon. I recieved a recorded message from Mike (head of school) later that evening. The message said a student had passed away today. I then knew that is why the boy was crying. It was not until the next day that I found out it was Torri. Although, I did not know her well at all, however, I do recall the one and only conversation I had with her. It was about a photo I had seen. I asked her if she was the girl who was pictured on the school web site. Hair was long and and now it was short. She said it was her but, she did not like that picture, she liked shorter hair better. I told her she was very beautiful and that should could be a model. I know my conversation with Torri was short but, having that exchange of words with her made me cry when I finally realized it was Torri, the young lady, so delicate in frame and bright eyed that I once spoke to. Rest in peace Torri. Sometimes the simplest things can mean so much. Lucy, Torri was a very beautiful girl and after looking through the website in her memory, I can see that you and her were very close. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your entire family.
Loraine Wightman-Evans
August 28, 2006
Tor,
Whenever we speak or think of you a butterfly appears. It may be driving, sitting staring out a window, walking through the neighborhood..you are everywhere. Forever in our hearts and on our minds. We miss you so much.
Love,
Auntie Raine, Uncle Gary, Billy and Lindsey
a friend
August 25, 2006
Dear Torri,
Today you are 100 days gone. I miss your smile, the hair tweak, the head flip, the long drawn out words that started high and ended low--just to make your point...the arms that crossed each other front to back...your sweetness...your thoughts on life and people..
your laugh....
Sending my love to your mom and dad.
Cray On
August 20, 2006
Tor, it's me Crayon again. Mom is having a hard time sleeping and stuff. I have never seen anyone this sad. Ever. Well, your bear is sad too.
Crayon
Loraine Evans
August 16, 2006
Tor,
Watch over us all...you have an amazing view.
Love Forever,
Auntie Raine and Uncle G
Rhonda miles
August 16, 2006
Dear Donny,
Thinking of you today....
Love Rhonda
Loraine Wightman-Evans
August 15, 2006
Donny,
If a gentle word could make your day a little kinder in any way, I'd search for words from A to Z and sign each one with love from me.
JULIE DOLAN
August 14, 2006
LUCY/TORRI
HI, HOW ARE YOU ??? I MISS CHATTING W/YOU !! AS I DRIVE BY TORRI'S PARK EVERYDAY I THINK OF YA'S ! WHAT' THIS ABOUT A PASSWAORD TO GET INTO TORRI'S BOOK. LEAVE A NOTE I JUST WANT TO SEE HOW YOUR DOING? CONCERNED JULIE
Cray on
August 10, 2006
My Torri
It's Crayon. Your beloved bear. Remember you named me when you were like 2?? I miss you every second. Do you need me where you are? No, I know, you are probably all set. Know that I have so much love in my heart for you and although I am quite small and just a silly stuffed bear, I help your mother all the time, especially at night when you used to come in with me to sleep... that's when we would all talk long into the night...
I love you
August 2, 2006
Torri,
Thinking of you today and thought that I would visit your website. I know that you are ok where ever you are..basking in a beautiful light and learning all the secrets of the world. Hope you were able to hear my eulogy...I think we both know that you would have approved.
Love,
Uncle Tom
Loraine Wightman-Evans
July 29, 2006
Tor
Miss you so much...
Love with a zillion hugs and kisses.
Aunt Loraine and Uncle Gary
Julie Dolan
July 28, 2006
Mom/Torri
How can I reach you; What happened to Torri's Park? Leave a note! How are YOU doing; I miss talking to you. Hope your o.k. I know it takes time!!! LET ME KNOW IF YOU NEED ANYTHING !!!!!!!!!!!
JULIE
July 16, 2006
you were in my dream last night tor, it was me and you and all my friends from my new school and it was you but in eigth grade. i wanted to tell you what was going to happen, but i could never get the words out because you always interrupted me by saying you loved your mom... weird huh? watch over us lovey<3
July 14, 2006
torri - its funny, ive been thinking about you alot latley... you and your mom and how much i miss you and how much this hurts still. im sorry we had that year of not seeing eachother, but we both know we were "buisy" with our new schools. take care of us down here and im praying for your fam alot. love you dahlin
Julie Dolan
July 8, 2006
Mom/Torri
Lucy I think you daily as well as Torri, anything I can do JUST LET ME KNOW !!! Julie from Torri's Park
July 5, 2006
http://www.torriwightman.com
rhonda miles
June 23, 2006
Hey Torri,
Missing and thinking about you everyday....Love, aunt Rhonda
Anonymous Girl
June 20, 2006
REST IN PEACE TORRI.....you truly are an ANGEL :~)
I would like to say that I am so sorry for you loss she was beautiful. There are no words right now that are going to make you feel better. There is nothing that you want more except for having your precious Torri back with you in your arms to hold and squeeze even if it is only for one last time. It may not seem like it will get better, but it does. The light at the end of the tunnel will shine thru and it will be Torri helping you. She is now watching out for you like you once did for her. Keep your head held high and make her proud that you can keep letting her live on thru and your family. God bless you Lucy and Donnie and the entire Wightman family my prayers are with you thru this most diffucult time.
God Bless You Torri......
Make Damn Sure you take care of her up there!!!!!
We will see you on the flip side!!!
June 16, 2006
Rest peacefully sweet angel.
Jen
June 16, 2006
Lucy-I am sorry for your loss. I just want to thank you for helping my mom through the death of my daughter Rachel who died last april and my grandfather. I know how it feels to lose a child and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Torri is up there babysitting Rachel and singing and playing her guitar for her. she is taking real good pictures of them together. i really appreciate all u have done for me and my family. You are an amazing person and done so much for alot of people. God bless you all.
Kelly Garber
June 15, 2006
Torri, theres not a day that goes by that i don't think of you. Even though we weren't the closest of friends, you were one of those people who was sorta friends with everyone and touched everyone in some way. The day that i heard the news, i sat in my room and just kept watching the video of us at skatetown, where you roll by me, happy as ever, and look back and yell 'sup girlfriend!' and to this day, i'm still waiting to hear you say that! you will never know how much you are and will be missed. but even now, its not goodbye, its see you later... so see you later Torri. I love You
Kelly <333
RHONDA MILES
June 11, 2006
Torri......
WE MISS YOU SO MUCH.....ONLY WISH GOD HAD GIVEN YOU A LITTLE MORE TIME TO SPEND WITH US....YOU WERE JUST TO YOUNG TO LEAVE US..
LOVE, AUNT RHONDA XOXO
Gillian Shaughnessy
June 11, 2006
torri,
i never met you.
i knew some of your friends, however briefly.
from what i understand,
you were once an amazing young woman.
i think of you often, surprisingly enough.
after all,
you were quite an unbearable loss of possibility.
it's unbelievable.
love gillian.
old friend
June 11, 2006
torri - i really miss you, and i'm sorry that we had that year gap of not catching up at all. your wonderful, and your parents are in my prayers so dont worry about that. love you
Loraine Wightman-Evans
June 10, 2006
Torri,
Thinking of you always and know that you are in a peaceful place.
Love,
Aunt Loraine and Uncle Gary
x0
Michael D. Santos
June 9, 2006
I saw them all four girls laughing with joy and singing. And with-in seconds there life change and so did mine. I did'nt know Torri personally nor did i know the other girl's. But everyday i ask the lord to help the family with this tragic loss. My heart goes out to you Lucy and Donald i am so sorry.
RHONDA MILES
June 7, 2006
TORRI....
THINKING ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY....WE ALL MISS YOU SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH....
LOVE AUNT RHONDA
XOXO
an old friend
June 7, 2006
God bless the Wightman family during these sad days of mourning. My heart goes out to you in every way possible...please know that so many are sending love to you...especially to you, Lucy, especially to you...may all good spirits help you through this difficult time...
Parker Wiseman
June 2, 2006
I didn't know Torri personally, but many of my friends did...I wish I got the chance to meet her, I can't tell you how much empathy I feel for you right now...I never met her, but I love her and I know I'll see her someday. May God bless you
Cynthia Jokinen
June 1, 2006
Rest in peaceTorri Cindy J.
sherrie vlahakis
May 31, 2006
lucy,
The pain you are feeling takes my breath away. I remember how sweet and affectionate you were with little Torri at the graduate school soirees at Martha's house--big bear hugs and loving eyes and later how proudly you spoke of her recent achievements. She was an exceptionally adorable child and a beautiful, intelligent young lady.
It was so difficult to see you at the wake of your only blessed child. There is nothing like a mother's love; the energy in the room reflected Torri's life--love, beauty, and support...and that heavenly rainbow which i tried to capture in a photo...Torri is your angel forever! Please know that I am here for you.
with love & deepest sympathy,
sherrie
May 30, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Loraine & Gary Evans
May 30, 2006
We pray that each day brings if only a moment of peace that is a beginning.
Mel
May 30, 2006
Donnie and Lucy.
I have no words except to say that here in London I am thinking of you at this time. I remember Tori as a sweet, kind, friendly girl, who was always smiling. I know her smile with live on in everyone's hearts.
x
Lucy
May 27, 2006
please call, write the KINGSTON OBSERVER and insist they remove very disturbing photos from their web site thank you
Mom
May 26, 2006
Today Adam, Derek and Chelsea met me where you died. The town of Plympton sends a cruiser out when your friends go, just to make sure they are ok. They light it up at night and don't mind if you stay long. This police officer, Officer Reddy, his father worked out of District 11 in Boston and is retired, stood there for three hours today. he kept staring at the place you left us, kept looking away as if to shake it away. He took your friends aside Torri, just to tell them, you felt no pain, no fear. Officer Reddy was there within minutes and you had already gone. He remembers the other girls too and I wish you could erase the memories for him Torri.
rhonda miles
May 26, 2006
Dear Donny & Debbie,
Hope you are both doing well. I was just thinking of the two of you and just wanted to say hello....
Take care,
Rhonda
Loraine Wightman-Evans
May 26, 2006
Debbie, Words cannot express what it has meant for you to be there for my brother, Lucy and his family. A million kisses and hugs.
Love,
Loraine
rhonda miles
May 25, 2006
Hi Torri...
Thanks for the sunny day...You must have pulled some strings for us..I know you are watching over Dad and Mom right now!!!! Don't worry though,so are we.When the sun came out today,i knew it was you saying hello.....Love,Aunt Rhonda xoxoxo
Virginia Wightman
May 24, 2006
This morning I saw a butterfly,
at sunset a rainbow, at night I saw a star. Were they you Torri? were they you? The butterfly was free, the rainbow illuminated the sky, the star flickered around until she found her special place with the others.
Love,
Gramie
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