Jacqueline C. DeBye

Jacqueline C. DeBye

Jacqueline DeBye Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 2, 2010.
FALMOUTH — Jacqueline "Jackie" C. DeBye, a woman who loved life and her family, passed away after a brief illness at the Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston on Monday, May 31, 2010. She was 59 years old.

Jackie was born in Cambridge. She grew up in Burlington and was a graduate of Burlington High School Class of 1969.

She had many friends. She was retired from Verizon where she worked as a maintenance administrator for 17 years. Jackie had the last 10 years living in Cape Cod, mostly in Falmouth. She embraced all that Cape Cod offered. She loved going to the beach, clamming, boating, and entertaining. She enjoyed spending her time in her vegetable garden. She was a huge Red Sox Fan. She loved the holidays and spent hours decorating her home for each upcoming holiday with Halloween and Christmas being her favorites.

She was one of six children and treasured the time with her family. She was blessed to have her children living nearby and being a major part of her life. She was extremely close to her 10 grandchildren and was also able to see the birth of a great- grandchild.

She will be remembered for her appreciation of family and friend, her humor and laughter, and the love she showed to all those she met. She will be lovingly remembered.

Jackie was the loving and caring mother of Kristin Arzola and her husband Francisco, Guy Patierno and his wife Justine, and Jill Estrella and her husband Robert, all of Falmouth. She was the devoted daughter of Eleanor (Joyce) DeBye of Burlington and the late Paul J. DeBye. She was the sister of Paul L. of Londonderry, N.H., Philip of Burlington, Michael of Tewksbury, Susan of Nashua, N.H. and Jody of Westford. She was the proud grandmother of Katelyn, Karli, Lorretto, and Rowen Arzola, Dempsey, Juliet, Mia, and Finn Patierno, and Robert and Jaclene Estrela and great-grandmother of Kayden Estrela.

A funeral Mass will be at St. Anthony's Church, 167 East Falmouth Highway, East Falmouth on Friday, June 4, at 11 a.m. Interment will follow at St. Anthony's Cemetery. Visiting hours will be held at the Edward V. Sullivan Funeral Home, 43 Winn St., Burlington (Exit 34 off Route 128, Woburn side) on Thursday from 4 to 8 p.m.

Memorial donations in Jackie's name may be made to the American Heart Association, 20 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701 or www.americanheart.org. For directions, obituary, and online guestbook, see

www.sullivanfuneralhome.net or www.stanthonyscapecod.org.

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Susan Zwick

June 5, 2010

My condolences to Jackie’s children and grandchildren. I know she loved you all very much. My deepest sympathy to my friend and Jackie’s devoted love and companion, Rick Prouty. Please be at peace. You and Jackie shared so many years together at your home in Wareham. I know the first several years were filled with love and happiness, as you shared your love for the beach, clamming and camping, especially with Jackie’s grandchildren. Please be comforted by the good memories of Jackie, and by your wonderful care and devotion to her during the last several years as she struggled with so many health issues. You were there for her, and your Mom was there for her also. My God give you strength to hold on to the good memories. Be strong, my friend.
Your friend Sue from Connecticut

Keith and Danielle Estrella

June 2, 2010

We extend our Love.. and wishes for Peace to all of Jackie's family. Jackie was one of a kind ...always with an open heart and open door policy. She will surely be missed and when we think of her ...it will always be with a smile on our faces and love in our hearts.

June 2, 2010

Though many years have gone by, I still remember Jackie's wonderful and cheerful nature - my deepest sympathies to you all - Sandi Gillis Roberto - a classmate from Burlington High School

Janis St Peter

June 2, 2010

Jillian and Family, Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your Mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Gerry & Tom Dushku

June 2, 2010

Jackie always welcomed us to her house in Falmouth and we had many good laughs and shopping together. I always think of Jackie when I make her Mexican Dip. Rest in peace my friend and my condolences to my nieces and nephew also the DeBye family.

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