Brenda Barber

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Brenda Lee Barber, age 57, of Dennings, died Saturday, April 29, 2017 at Carroll Hospital Center due to injuries sustained in an accident on Route 31. Born December 9, 1959 in Gettysburg, PA, she was the daughter of Rhoda Rohrbaugh Graybill Weant and stepdaughter of Clyde Weant of Harney. She was the wife of Ricky D. Barber, her husband of 39 years. Brenda was a 1977 graduate of Francis Scott Key High School. She was a member of Bethel (New Hope) United Methodist Church, near New Windsor and the Mason Dixon Historical Society, where she proudly displayed her 1941 John Deere B tractor at their events. She was the leader of the Sams Creek 4-H Club for 30 years, had been honored as a 4-H All Star and was the recipient of numerous 4-H awards on the state level, including the Dorothy Emerson Citizenship Award which is a tribute to volunteers who are committed to improve the quality of life for all and encourage others to do the same. She enjoyed Civil War reenactments with the 19th Georgia Infantry, raising hives of honeybees, flower gardening, helping on the family farm, "Matthew's Trouble" and loved spending time with her children and grandchildren. Brenda had been previously employed at the Carroll County Vo-Tech Center and with Donald Hull Accountants. She was the current secretary for the Carroll County Farm Bureau. In addition to her husband, mother and stepfather, she is survived by children, Justin L. Barber and wife Hilary of Boonsboro; Matthew A. Barber and wife Liz of Dennings; Kyle B.W. Barber and wife Ashley of Silver Run; grandchildren, Eli, Patrick, Bridgette, Levi, Owen, Delilah and Wyatt; twin sisters, Kathy Stoner and husband Mike and Karen Roberts and husband Dale, all of Harney; brothers, Brian Graybill and wife Donna of Dover, PA; Gary Graybill and wife Bernadette of Spring Grove, PA and numerous nieces and nephews. A funeral service will be held at 11:00 a.m. Friday, May 5 at Windsor Station of the New Windsor Volunteer Fire Co., 101 High St., with her pastor, Rev. Mary Buzby, and Rev. Mindy Coates, officiating. Interment will follow in Bethany Cemetery, Hooper Rd. The family will receive friends from 1-4 and 6-9 p.m. Thursday, May 4 at Windsor Station. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Sams Creek 4-H Club, c/o Ashley Barber, 1421 Silver Run Valley Rd., Westminster, MD 21158. Online condolences may be shared with the family at

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Published in Carroll County Times on May 2, 2017