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Mary Codespoti Obituary

CODESPOTI, Mary Mary E. (Dolly) Codespoti, 51, of Charleston, SC died Saturday, November 26, 2005 at a local hospital. Born May 23, 1954 in Charleston, SC she was the daughter of the late Peter Joseph Codespoti, Sr. and Eula Lee Pellum Codespoti. A graduate of Middleton High and Suwannee, she was a former member of Mensa. Dolly earned her MBA from The Citadel. She was an appraiser for J. North Moore for 10 years. Dolly changed careers to become a private caregiver where she touched many lives. She is survived by her sister Angela Sue Merlino and husband Bart of Charleston; two brothers: Daniel J. Codespoti and wife Sandra of Spartanburg, and Sidney J. Codepsoti and wife Melanie of Charleston; seven nieces and nephews: Melanie Glaize, Mark Glaize, William J. Codespoti, Daniel Joseph Codespoti and wife Cynthia, Olivia Codespoti, Graham Codespoti, and Liberty Smith; and many cousins. Her brother, Peter Codespoti, preceded her in death. The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be held at 10:30AM Tuesday, November 29, 2005 at Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church. The family will receive friends in the Church hall immediately following the funeral. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the John Ancrum SPCA, 3861 Leeds Avenue, North Charleston, SC 29405 or to Ovarian Cancer National Alliance, 910 17thSt. N.W. Ste. 413, Washington, S.C. 20006. Arrangements by McAlister-Smith Funeral Home, DOWNTWON, 151 Wentworth St., Charleston, SC 29406. Condolences may be sent via www.mcalister-smith.com. Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Published by Charleston Post & Courier from Nov. 28 to Nov. 29, 2005.

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Amy Grimes

November 29, 2005

Even though I never met Dolly, I feel I like I already knew her through my Aunt Rhonda. My daughter & I were looking forward to meeting Dolly when we come down to SC over Christmas break. Dolly, my prayers have been with you throughout your illness! May you enjoy peace with God!! With Christian Sympathy and Love, Amy

Patty Auricchio

November 28, 2005

Dear Dolly, it may have been only one day the day we met...I was touched very much by you, your kindness was overwhelming! I will always look out for our friend, Rhonda, for you! MAY YOU ALWAYS FLY WITH THE ANGELS!!! God Bless ya, Patty

Kay Hyman

November 28, 2005

Dolly's love of all beings great and small will carry her to a beautiful place. She will be remembered in her life and death by the people and animals in our care at the SPCA. Kay Hyman

Rhonda Hammond

November 28, 2005

My Dearest Friend, I know that you are in the GREATEST PLACE...you are probably already with your Mom, Dad, Peter & your grandparents. You may even have already met my Aunt Helen again, my Grandpa Beal, Grandma Beal, Grandmother Penny, Carol, Chuck, Serena, Buffy, Ziggy, even "Bubba" who recently left earth & all of the rest of the people/animals I've lost in my life! Your death is sooo difficult to deal with at this moment in time! I may be selfish, but I just was NOT ready to let you go & I especially did NOT expect you to go as fast as you did!!!! I feel like I'm all alone without you!! Who will I be going to the "GW Boutique", water aerobics, chat with more than twice/day, share all of my feelings, secrets, etc.?? I MISS YOU SOOOO BADLY!! I love you forever from the time we met til infinity! With lots of love, hugs and many blessings, Rhonda

PS: Please tell all I said "Hi!" and that I'm doing the best as I can do under these circumstances! PSS: Enjoy all of the riches, peace, tranquility & everything there is to offer...I only wish there was a computer there...even though you are engaging in more enjoyable riches, I wish you could e-mail me & let me know how all is!!

Isis Dudek

November 28, 2005

I met Dollie while she was working with my sister in Sandpiper. I was grateful that she was there for Therese, as she was caring and competant in the work. We always had meaningful conversations, Dollie was open hearted and easy to talk to. I send my prayers of comfort to all friends and family, and for Dollie, assured that she rests gently in the arms of the angels. Blessings to all, Isis Dudek

Deen Stratford

November 28, 2005

I knew Dolly for less than a year, but felt as if I had known her a lifetime. She cared for my disabled sister at Sandpiper nursing home and she was truly an angel from heaven. She was beloved by all of the staff and other patients there as she somehow seemed to know everyone. I found myself going early and staying late when visiting my sister just to enjoy her company and I observed how she had a kind word for everyone. She will be truely missed.

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