Doris Castevens
1957 - 2020
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Doris Ann Reed Castevens August 21, 1957 - July 3, 2020 CHARLOTTE - Two things caught Joe Castevens' attention when he first laid eyes on Doris Reed in horticulture lab more than 40 years ago: her very long hair and very short shorts. When instructed to partner up, Joe made a beeline to her. "I usually work alone," Doris told him. Joe persisted and he soon learned that Doris wasn't just the prettiest girl in class but also one of the smartest. They made the seamless transition from lab partners to life partners. For the next 40 years, instead of working alone, Doris plunged deep into family, friendship, and community, all while living her life out loud. Doris Ann Reed Castevens was born in Jamestown, New York on August 21, 1957, the fourth of James and Doris Reed's five children. Fiercely independent and headstrong, Doris chose the University of Georgia largely because her mother said she couldn't. She earned her first "C" as a senior-- after she started dating Joe--but still graduated with honors. Always one to drive a hard bargain, she refused to move to Charlotte unless Joe made an honest woman of her. Always the first to fold, he agreed. They married on February 20, 1981. Doris and Joe had two children, David and Ashley, but their family included friends, neighbors, dogs (Tucker and Baxter), and their pet chicken, Speedie. The family worked countless hours restoring their Plaza Midwood home, making the plant-filled front porch a communal hangout. As a gifted crafts artist with a penchant for building community, Doris hosted legendary parties and held workshops on making jewelry and holiday decorations, which usually turned into a party. But nothing solidified her place as the Doyenne of Winter Street like the progressive dinners and Halloween tradition she ignited. Every year, hundreds of trick-or-treaters came to see the house and yard that rivaled the set of "Thriller" with her family and dogs as lead actors. Only Doris could turn a stage IV cancer diagnosis into a research project. Intent on becoming her own best advocate and educating others, she tackled the science and treatment of nonsmokers lung cancer with a singular focus and became a national advocate for funding and research. She and Joe used her four years post-diagnosis to travel through Europe and across North America and spend every possible moment with family and friends. On July 3, 2020, Doris Ann Reed Castevens--wife, mother, artist, friend, and cancer activist--died in the home she loved surrounded by the people she loved. She was preceded in death by her niece, Laura Ann Wells, and brother James Reed. She is survived by her husband and best friend, Joe; daughter, Ashley (Babak) Mostaghimi; son, David (Caitlin) Castevens; grandchildren, Kaveh and Laleh Ashley Mostaghimi; sisters, Jackie Wells, Donna (Gary) Norgaard; brother, Darryl (Coreen); sister-in-law Jane Goree; her canine son, Baxter; nieces and nephews; and innumerable friends. We are broken by her death but joyed by her life. To honor Doris, live strong, love hard, and don't put off what matters. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Lungevity Foundation or the Lung Cancer Initiative of North Carolina. A Celebration of Life will be held later and, like all of Doris' parties, it will be epic. Learn more about Doris' journey, at posthope.org/doris-news/journal

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Published in Charlotte Observer on Jul. 9, 2020.
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September 14, 2020
We just learned about Doris’ passing and would like to send our thoughts and prayers to the whole family. It has been many years since we had seen Joe and Doris, but remember her as an absolute ray of sunshine.

Chuck and Dianne Hearn
Chuck Hearn
Friend
August 31, 2020
What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful courageous lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Janette and Jim Zimmerman
Acquaintance
July 10, 2020
Doris' childhood cuteness and antics entertained us years ago but her determination and zest for life endeared us to her, even more, in later years. Our sincerest sympathy to her Family.
Cousin Bonnie
Vinnie and Bonnie DeRosa
Family
July 10, 2020
Doris was an inspiration and will never be forgotten.
Tracy Hewett
Neighbor
July 9, 2020
Doris was always upbeat and happy. I met her Easter of 1975 when I started dating her older brother Jim and she was a bridesmaid at our wedding that December. We didn't spend a lot of time with her over the years since we didn't live close. The times we did get together were always fun and enjoyable. She was also very supportive during Jim's cancer and passing, even though I know it was hard on her.
It did not surprise me to see how active she was in her support for lung cancer. I also was so glad that Doris and Joe took the time to travel and enjoy life the past 4 plus years. Doris will be missed by many, many people. Sending love and blessings to her family, friends, and acquaintances.
Sister-in-law - It didn't give me that option below.
Karen Reed
July 9, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Delene L. Clark,Jarvi
Family
July 9, 2020
Doris was a powerful force for Love and for cutting through the bull to what is real and genuine in this life. She chose life at every turn and challenges us all to do the same.
Robert Dulin
Friend
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