Alexander Beckman Conley

1988 - 2019

Alexander Beckman Conley obituary, 1988-2019, Charlotte, NC

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Alexander Conley Obituary

Alexander B. Conley of Charlotte passed away unexpectedly Saturday evening, Feb. 23. Alex was the son of Mr. and Mrs. George M. Conley, also of Charlotte. Alex was born on Dec. 9, 1988 in Kansas City, MO, and moved to Charlotte with his family in 1995.

In addition to his parents, Alex is survived by a sister, Lauren E. Conley, Charlotte, and a brother, Christopher B. Conley, of Charleston, SC, and surrogate brothers, Brett M. Page of Cary, NC, and Corbin T. Page of New York City. He also is survived by numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins, and many friends and work associates.

Alex was a graduate of Providence High School where he was a member of the tennis team and was active in Delta Epsilon Phi, the National Honor Society for High School Students Studying German. Alex prided himself on being able to speak fluent German. Alex also was a graduate of The College of Charleston, Charleston, SC, where he was a member of Pi Kappa Alpha Fraternity. He also was active as a youth in baseball at the MARA and Olde Providence Baseball Clubs. He greatly enjoyed spending time at his family's home on Kiawah Island, SC, and he had many close friends in the Charleston area.

At the time of his death, Alex worked in management at Spectrum Communications in Charlotte. He also worked for several years at The Kiawah Island Club, Kiawah Island, SC.

Alex was an incredibly friendly and caring individual who possessed an infectious smile, charm, and a great wit. He loved history and could talk for hours about American and European history, especially famous battles and his heroes. He was particularly proud of his German/Irish heritage and his knowledge of the history of both countries. He loved his family members, and they will miss him greatly. He drifted off into eternity, leaving this world far too soon.

A memorial service to celebrate Alex's life for family members, friends, and associates will be from 2-3 p.m., Saturday, March 2 in the ballroom of Providence Country Club, 6001 Providence Country Club Drive, Charlotte, NC 28277. A reception will be held immediately afterwards in the same room. Contributions in Alex's memory can be made to The Brain and Behavior Research Foundation, 747 Third Ave., Third Floor, New York, NY 10017, a 501(c)3 non-profit organization. On-line condolences may be left at www.heritagecares.com. Arrangements are being handled by Heritage Funeral Home - Matthews.

Published by Charlotte Observer on Feb. 27, 2019.
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our deepest condolences. we're one of the few writers on this site who can say how horrible to lose a child. Sarah and I pray that your family has continued strength.

james,sarah marshall

March 7, 2019

Alex was one of my best friends in college, he was like my little brother. He was such a passionate person, had a contagious enthusiasm and laugh, and was such an articulate and intelligent person. He great admired art in all forms, music, film, poetry, writing, philosophy. Alex was a very deep thinker.

He was a great writer and wanted to write a screenplay. He also told me he wanted to be an author. He greatly admired Steinbeck and Fitzgerald. He was very funny and like to say ya vohl in German with enthusiasm joking around. We had a lot of great memories in Charleston, and I will miss him very dearly, he was a kindred spirit.

His spirit will live on forever.

I wish I could talk to you man, I miss you.

Mike Hendley

March 2, 2019

My deepest condolences at this sad time. May God's love and grace bring you peace at this difficult time. Praying for the family and my sweet and caring friend, Lauren to heal from this terrible loss.

Wanda Walthall

March 1, 2019

Im so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Alexander. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure in your heart and it lives forever. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. Hosea 13:14.

R. C.

March 1, 2019

So sorry for your loss. May you receive strength and comfort from God. "He will make you firm. He will make you strong. He will firmly ground you".1Peter5:10

February 28, 2019

My deepest heartfelt condolences for my funny, crazy friend and co-worker. Conley Family, I pray that God will give you understanding and peace for this unfortunate passing of such a wonderful and loving young man. Alex, you will be so missed by me. As our co-workers teased us, "you are my people's". It really hurts to know that we will never be able to cut up and make jokes with each other. I will miss you looking over my cubicle and telling me how much I remind you of your mother and we have the same style, and also that I am your girl. Alex, it has been such a wonderful year and a half, knowing you and being "your peoples". Watch over us Alex. Please know that I will think of your frequently and laugh at your crazy jokes. Love you, Your Peoples.

Joyce Cooper

February 28, 2019

Chris and family,

I am so sorry for your loss, please take solace in knowing that Alex was a wonderful person

Thomas Kroll

February 28, 2019

I am truly sorry for your lost. In the short time I knew him, he was an amazing soul that I enjoyed speaking with.

Daniel Jacobs

February 28, 2019

I want to send my condolences to Alex's family. He was truly an awesome person. It was a pleasure to have known him and worked with him. You will be missed my friend!

Arbriana Feaster

February 28, 2019

Conor Sullivan

February 28, 2019

I remember speaking with alex he was always calm in the worst situations he was extremely helpful told me to add him to my personal Skype so if I ever had any questions or needed help he was always available, SO sadden by this. I know he is in a better place, thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Mickie xxxxx

February 28, 2019

Dear Family and Friends of Alexander Conley, please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved one.Now more than ever continue to pray for Our Heavenly Father's Kinndom to come. At such time the promise found at Jn.6:40 will be fulfilled. You will see him AGAIN.

February 27, 2019

Conley Family...my deepest sympathies. Loosing you darling son is hard. May the God of tender mercies and ALL comfort, comfort you. Again my deepest sympathies

Sandra

February 27, 2019

George and Becky,
Barry and I are so saddened by the loss of you son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this extremely difficult time.

Sincerely, Barry and Lynn Pronier

February 27, 2019

I remember when I first met Alex ... he was so funny and had a cool vibe ... I'm sad and in disbelief too see a wonderful soul gone A .... may you Rest In Peace

Xalexus Cummings

February 27, 2019

I don't remember seeing Alex in person, but I did get him on the phone a couple of times & always thought he was very pleasant to speak to, always very helpful & knowledgeable. My condolences to his family during this time. Its hard to say "everything happens for a reason" when things like this happen, but He is in a better place- that is the truth.

spectrum Employee

February 27, 2019

My deepest condolence to the family and friends. As a co worker, i'm saddened by this tragedy. My prayers are with the entire family.

Uniqua D

February 27, 2019

George and Beckie- I am heartbroken to learn about your precious son. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. With love-Annice

February 27, 2019

My deepest sympathy goes to the Conley's. Alex was a very special person and he was my best friend. I will miss him dearly.

Parks Williamson

February 27, 2019

Deeply saddened by your loss. Alex will always be in very fond memories for me and hope your fond memories of him will help you all through these difficult times. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Perry Wilson

February 27, 2019

Alex was always willng to help his co-workers when needed. From.the very first time I met him he was quick to jump in assist. He will be missed.

Diane Bowens

February 27, 2019

Gregory Hoover

February 27, 2019

Alex was a great and genuine person may his memory live on forever

Darius Simmons

February 27, 2019

I worked closely with Alex at Spectrum as an agent on the same team. Was so elated when he was promoted to a Lead as it was much deserved. His death has shocked and stunned his teammates and those of us who knew him. We will miss him so VERY much. Prayers are with Alex and his family

Greg Pridgen

February 27, 2019

I didn't have a chance to meet you but I heard many good things about you and it's unfortunate that it happened so soon but you are in a better place now. RIP

Bruce McCloud

February 27, 2019

To the family ~ May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding guard your hearts and comfort you during this most challenging time as you reflect on the many fond memories and look forward to the time when all tears will be tears of joy.

February 27, 2019

Sharon Cook

February 27, 2019

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends. May you find comfort and support during this difficult time. Psalms 94:19 When anxieties overwhelmed me, You comforted and soothed me.

February 27, 2019

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