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Mark Lanier Obituary

Mark Lanier

Brookline, MA - The sudden death of Mark Lanier, 60, on February 13, 2019 came as a heartbreaking surprise to family and friends. Mark was born in Cincinnati, Ohio to Lloyd Addison and Melissa Emery Lanier, who predeceased him. He graduated from Cincinnati Country Day School, where he is remembered as a scholar and athlete, for being a loyal friend and for wearing the same skinny tie, day-in and day-out for six years. He graduated magna cum laude from Williams College, earned a Masters in English Literature from Oxford University, England, and an MBA from Stanford University's Graduate School of Business. He worked for T. Rowe Price before business school and later worked at Grumman Hill, LLC for Richard D. Irwin, whom he considered a mentor and then a longtime friend and co-investor. Mark formed and ran Pegasus Capital, a hedge fund that has invested successfully in small cap companies. Mark also served on the boards of Thos. Emery's Sons, Inc. and Scinet Development & Holdings, Inc. Mark was passionate about a few chosen volunteer activities. He loved his close friendships with and his leadership roles alongside generations of Brothers and Sisters of his Uncle Tony. He devoted hundreds of hours each year to his work with Clubhouse International whose Executive Director, Joel Corcoran, described Mark as "an extraordinary advocate for people living with serious mental illness and a familiar face at Clubhouse programs on six continents." While serving as Clubhouse International's Chairman, the organization received the Conrad N. Hilton Humanitarian Award, the single largest humanitarian award in the world, given to a non-profit judged to have made significant contributions to alleviating human suffering. Mark's interest in residential programs for people with mental illness began with his service on the board of Laurel House, in Stamford, CT and continued the rest of his life. Mark's additional interests were so varied and esoteric that friends and family were caught in an awkward tension between wanting desperately to learn about his newest hobbies and, on the other hand, knowing that we would be thoroughly baffled, once we knew. Mark joined the American Bonsai Society, so that he could join them on a trip to Japan. He became very serious about the study of cheeses and would happily lecture the uninitiated. Long after his considerable weight reached a point where he no longer played active sports, Mark could be found walking rocky river beds throughout the U.S., wearing blue jean overalls and leaning on a sturdy walking stick, in search of Suiseki rocks, expressive stones deserving of appreciation. Although he traveled repeatedly to Scandinavia, his favorite city was Kyoto. Mark studied the accordion and guitar. He joyfully curated recorded music of many kinds for family and friends. He cooked thoughtfully and generously. He had exceptional gifts of relationship, which were appreciated by old friends and by people he had just met. He enjoyed the strict rigors of writing Haiku. Yet, at same time, splitting infinitives and ending sentences with prepositions were things he was OK with. Mark loved his children, family and friends. He is survived by his children, Henry Anson Lanier, Spenser Cole Lanier, Lillian Avery Lanier and Samuel Elias Lanier, by his former wife Kirsten Olsen, by his siblings Addison Lanier II (Jamie), John Emery Lanier (Jane Garvey) and Melissa Lanier Murphy (Shenan), and by numerous nieces and nephews who love, enjoyed and will miss him. A Celebration of Life gathering will take place, in Boston, later in March. Donations in Mark's memory may be made to Clubhouse International at https://clubhouse-intl.org/get-involved/ways-to-give/ or by sending a check to 483 Tenth Avenue, Suite 205, New York, NY 10018.

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Published by The Cincinnati Enquirer from Mar. 6 to Mar. 10, 2019.

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Peter Seltzberg

April 6, 2019

Mark you will be missed. You were an inspiration to me with your sharp wit and intelligence, and always open to new ideas. One of the very few keepsakes from my career has been a newsletter you wrote up regarding a stock idea that i gave you that worked out nicely for you probably 10 years ago. and i will make a toast with the armanac liquor you sent me as a thank you in your honor this evening. i will definitely miss seeing you at investor conferences and at meetings in Boston and talking to you on the phone. rest in peace and i'm grateful for the time we got to spend together as colleagues.

your friend,
peter

April 4, 2019

I was fortunate enough to know Mark as a peer, as well as a friend. He was one of the very few people in our industry that was universally loved and adored by everyone who met him. Mr. Lanier also had a very special bond with my Dad, which is near impossible to establish. What made Mark to exquisite, was the fact that he was so accomplished yet so humble with everyone he met. Nearly no one in the world makes everyone around them better with their presence. I speak on behalf of our industry, when I say that he will be missed deeply. My condolences to the Lanier family.

Addison I. Lanier

March 24, 2019

Oh dear, I am so sorry to find out just last night of Marks passing. I Share the Lanier family name and was gifted to have known Mark recently albeit not as deeply as I wished.He and family visited us in Alberta when Estie Lanier passed. His plans to stay a visit us longer were cut short. Later and so generously Mark mailed me and my brothers a wonderful gift too. I was so much hoping to visit him in his home state. My oh my... I am in awe of his legacy and myself am almost exactly his age, but feeling young. He was too young to leave us. I will miss the opportunity for wisdom he could have conveyed over a fifth of bourbon... and instead take a strong lesson about in mortality from this. I can do little else now.

I hope my belated condolences to his loving family will still arrive with the very caring and shared sorrow I have with you all. I'll be in more personal contact over the next while.
Blessings to you at this tough time.

Addison Ike Lanier
March 24th 2019.

O S

March 9, 2019

My condolences to family and friends. Take time to grieve and celebrate a life well-lived. The loss of a loved one is truly difficult no matter how long we have them with us, but remember Almighty God promises to be near to all those calling on him (Psalm 145:18)

Diane Shulman

March 8, 2019

Dear Lanier Family...so saddened to read of your loss...I have lovely memories of selling 54 Welland Road to Mark...and of staying in touch over the years...he was kind enough to let my family re-visit 54 after my husband died and the family were together at the Golden Temple to remember him...it was clear to me how much he loved the four of you.

Don

March 8, 2019

Please accept my sympathies for the loss of your loved one . May God be with you and your family during this time of great sorrow Please read Jeremiah chapter 29 verse 11 and 2nd Corinthians chapter 1 verses 3 and 4.

Tom Reif

March 7, 2019

A very special person that had a great influence on my life. Mark's wisdom, ethics and patience were a strong influence in my life.

March 7, 2019

Kind thoughts are with the family in your time of grief. May fond memories bring you comfort during these difficult days. Psalms 9: 9, 10

Tom Frey

March 7, 2019

We only shared a relatively brief time in our lives, but it took one almost no time to learn that Mark was a special person, and even the time period I shared with him was enough to enrich my life forever. He was, aside from all of his talents (which one had to learn from others), just a great guy. I grieve twice today...for Mark leaving too soon, and for my egregious lapse of not keeping our relationship current over the years.

March 6, 2019

Extending my sincere condolences to the family and friends. May you seek God's comfort through his loving promise of everlasting comfort and hope for the future. John 6:40

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