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Maria Moessen Obituary

Maria Louise Moessen

Weaverville - Maria Louise Moessen born on February 19, 1956, died at home in Weaverville, NC early in the morning on February 29, 2020 at age 64. Maria survived nearly two years with pancreatic cancer. She was an enthusiastic participant in a clinical trial of experimental chemotherapy at Johns Hopkins Medical Institute that kept her cancer at bay, had minimal side effects, and prospered her energetic lifestyle. Sadly she was overcome by a progression of the disease over the last few months. She remained highly motivated and gave directives to persons she had designated to carry a number of projects she longed to see completed forward. And "I want you to have a party .." was one of the last things she whispered. Vintage and Viva Maria! She found and inspired wonder and delight in the people and places of her life. Her amazing family of friends can't really believe she is gone! She was an accomplished theatre and film actor and teacher known professionally as Maria Mason. Her love of language and acting was first realized while attending Hendersonville HS in WNC just four miles north of the State Theatre of NC at Flatrock Playhouse. She interned summers and would early in her career play Lizzie in The Rainmaker and Pamela in Nude with Violin there. Her stellar repertoire ranged from the classical to originals to tap-dancing musical comedies in NYC and major regional theatres of the eastern US. She attended undergraduate studies at the University of Iowa in Iowa City w/ playwrights Lee Blessing and Adam LeFevre and was selected in a highly competitive national pool for a summer scholarship program at the American Conservatory Theatre in San Francisco in 1975. She earned a BFA in English, French and History (1980) and an MFA in Acting (1982) invited by the legendary Tom Haas at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill where she was inspired by special units of Chekhov w/ renowned actors Ed Binns and Elizabeth Franz. She performed Meg in The Hostage and Olivia in Twelfth Night for the Equity PlayMakers Repertory Theatre in Chapel Hill and met her future husband, Paul Schierhorn, a visiting cast professional for the Twelfth Night production, there in 1982. They would pursue their mutual aspirations in NYC, living in Brooklyn (1982-1990) and were married in 1986. Maria's artistic capabilities were unleashed in NYC through advanced tutorial studies at the T. Schreiber Studio under the mentorship of Terry Schreiber and Carol Reynolds (Body Dynamics). She truly found herself as an actress in this, performing memorable roles as Celia (As You Like It), Belinda (The Public Eye), Maria (Closing) and Madame Popova (The Bear). Her other NYC work included lead performances for Riverside Shakespeare, St. MIchael's Church, Douglas Fairbanks Theatre and T Schreiber Studio Theatre. She reluctantly left NYC to join Paul in New Orleans in 1990. He was a noted actor, lyricist and composer of musical theatre when he left NYC in 1988 to pursue a career teaching theatre at Tulane University. Maria was a pillar of support for his theatre works The News (Broadway, Tony Nomination), Glad All Over (Tulane Univ) and more. She herself became adjunct professor of Theatre and Dance at Tulane for 14 years. She taught the T. Schreiber technique (grounded in Meisner) to a 4th generation of students. She cultivated her own methodology of Shakespeare study which she imparted with great artistry and passion. She described her popular undergraduate class Fundamentals of Acting for Non-Majors as having "strict standards, great results". Nick Basta, a native of Syracuse NY credits Maria for jump starting his acting career by coaching him into the Harvard University American Repertory Theatre's MFA program. Nick vows that "There is a red carpet in the sky for Maria, his beloved mentor and friend". Maria embraced NOLA culture wholeheartedly and continued her own acting career there playing lead roles in Southern Repertory Theatre productions including Three Hotels, The Celestials, A Woman of Property (incl touring to Tbilisi), and Hamlet. Her portrayal of Annie Sullivan in the The Miracle Worker won her several Big Easy Awards including Best Actress delivered by Proclamation of the NOLA City Council in April of 1994. The role of Agnes the knitter in the Dog and Pony Theatre production of Dancing at Lughnasa in 1993 also won Big Easy Awards for Best Drama and Best Ensemble. Her portrayal of Sonya in Uncle Vanya (incl touring to Budapest in September 2000) was lauded by the American ambassador to Hungary at the time. She was a Company Actor, Associate Artistic Director and Director of Education for Southern Rep from 1993-2001 and implemented a redesign for apprentice training reaching over 400 youth and 22 college assistants. Southern Rep presented her a Special Recognition Award for her work in 2002. New Orleanian Scott Jefferson, a frequent acting partner of Maria's, visited her before she died and aptly explained her legacy. "She was a much loved woman in NOLA"! Her final stage role was for NC Stage Company's world debut of Stalking the Bogeyman in Asheville in 2016. Maria earned film credits in roles for Hot Flashes (w/ Brooke Shields), Last Holiday (with Queen Latifah), JFK (w/ Kevin Costner) and Deal (as co-star w/ Burt Reynolds). Her TV credits included co-starring roles in Drop Dead Diva, HBO's Treme, Vampire Bats, Stuck in the Suburbs, and Spirit. She was a member of stage and film unions for over 30 years. Two years after losing their home in Hurricane Katrina, Maria and Paul gave in to the pressures that plagued their efforts to remain in NOLA, son Will's birthplace and childhood home. The opportunity for Paul to take a teaching position at Mars Hill University sealed a move back to the mountains of WNC near where Maria had grown up. She reconnected with her childhood confidants, cared for her aging mother, and set about the work of establishing the family's new home in "little ol' Weaverville" as she called it. Her presence made a positive difference in the lives of her neighbors and the greater Asheville community. She engaged with Will's formative music, sports and academic career and saw him succeed in spite of difficulties, especially his dad Paul's dying with cancer in 2012. She proudly celebrated his joyful graduation from UNC-Asheville in May 2018. Lately she adored reading and studying Shakespeare with him on a regular basis. All the while she leaned into new acting and teaching opportunities, performing roles in Southern Appalachian Rep and NC Stage productions, continuing work in film and TV productions, as an Academy Instructor with the Asheville Arts Center, and auditioning for a role she very much saw herself in just last fall. Screen Actors Coop founder Jon Menick wrote, "Goodbye dear friend, Actor and sweet inspiration. I loved your courage, intelligence and grace. Thank you from everyone you helped." Maria felt a vast passion for the human condition and especially for the state of social justice in America. She attended the National Women's March in Washington DC in 2017. With her partner and their children she visited the National Monument for Peace and Justice and EJI's Legacy Museum in Montgomery, AL in the Spring of 2018. She was inspired by EJI founder Bryan Stevenson's (Just Mercy) liberating truth eloquently spoken to a packed Kimmel Arena at UNCA last year. She visited the Harriett Tubman Underground Railroad National Historic Park in Church Creek, MD last summer and later ate crabs and oysters and contemplated Harriett's escape from slavery through the marshes of what is now the Blackwater National Wildlife Refuge. Michener's Chesapeake provided her an insightful path to confronting the truth about about America's history of slavery. Maria loved art, literature, life and God. She was born in East Brunswick NJ. Her family relocated to the Laurel Park neighborhood of Hendersonville NC when she was seven years old. Her childhood memories of cats, dress up, picture books, her Mom's art books, Nancy Drew novels, biking, swimming, coloring books and classic cartoons, I Love Lucy and Harpo Marx, hiking, rope swinging, tree climbing and treehouse overnights, drawing, cooking, hiking, flower arranging, pen pal writing, and art and fashion exploration with her artist mother abounded. Special friends from her early childhood who were like sisters to her (Ginny Taylor, Frosty Sinclair, Debbie Mack and others) were with her from those formative days until the day she died .. you all know who you are! Maria was predeceased by her mother Mina Butz Moessen, her father Gustav William Moessen, her younger brother Gustave William (Bill) Moessen, Jr. and his wife Carolyn, and by her husband Paul Schierhorn. She is survived by her loving son Will Warren Schierhorn, her sister Sara Johnson Moessen (Andrew), her nieces Lisa Wyatt (Jason) and Rebecca Johnson (Blayne), in-laws Carl and Ann Schierhorn and their daughter Karen Schierhorn (Grant), and her Butz family cousins. She is also survived by her pal and companion R Briggs Sherwood and his kids. A Memorial and Celebration of Maria's Life and Legacy is tentatively scheduled for 11am on the morning of May 16, 2020 at Grace Episcopal Church Asheville NC, Fr Gary Butterfield presiding. Maria's friends and her son Will Schierhorn will also host a celebration of her life in NOLA at a later time and place TBA. Memorials may be addressed to Maria's formative charity "Someone Cares" c/o the Asheville City Schools Foundation PO Box 3196 Asheville NC 28802.

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Published by Asheville Citizen-Times from Mar. 21 to Mar. 22, 2020.

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Mick Berry

May 9, 2020

I miss her. We became friends when I was in graduate school at UNC in the same M.F.A. program. I remember when Paul and Maria met. She was always supportive of me, and very encouraging, even when I lacked confidence and experience. She was such a cheerful influence in my life, and we kept in touch. I hadn't spoken to her in a few years, and just recently heard. Her inspiration is still with me.

Briggs Sherwood

April 27, 2020

Announcement! Alleluia Alleluia Alleluia!

And "Boy Howdy!" as Maria herself would say! Or as Doc Watson would sing " Life Gets Tedious Don't It?" Nonetheless we are determined to remain inspired as we hope and pray for all the requisite breakthroughs in containment of the Coronavirus situation .. so that in the end we will save lives and life as we know it. And so that we may assuredly all be safe to travel and congregate happily again.
With Fr Gary Butterworth's steadfast and loving advice we're now convinced of the need to wait beyond May 16 for the Celebration and Thanksgiving of Marias life and legacy at Grace Episcopal here in Asheville. We are so anxious for this to happen and will continue our joyful planning for it in spite of all delays.

Thanks for your love and your patience as we all stumble forward with the situation. As soon as we have any inkling as to a likable date we'll pass that along. For now we will just leave the schedule open ended .. tbd! Our prayers are given for all to be safe, well and joyful yet!
Briggs Sherwood (for the Congregation of Grace Episcopal and) for Will Schierhorn and His Incredible Mum Maria Moessen

Wayne Ferrara

April 12, 2020

Words simply cannot fully describe how wonderful Maria was. Her always positive energy and kindness toward others will be remembered by all who had the pleasure of knowing her. A mentor to many, her intellect, her laugh, her smile, her generosity, her optimism and zest for life were all beyond special. Maria, was all heart. She will be missed by one and all.

mary ann lawrence

March 31, 2020

Maria was an incredibly vivacious yet warm and loving woman. I met her through bookclub, and she always brought much insight and humor to our discussions. God bless you, Maria.

Barbara Trevigne

March 28, 2020

Maria so kind and loved in New Orleans. She was and will always be remembered as a sweet and fantastic person. Her personality, kindness, and laughter is missed.
Barbara Trevigne, New Orleans

Ilene & Tino Procida

March 25, 2020

Maria continued to fill our hearts and minds right up to the end of her absolutely brilliant life. We will cherish the gifts of vibrancy and exuberance she imparted to us every time we were fortunate enough to be with her. If you could get Tino to sing "Maria" to you bedside, you must be directing a whole, heavenly choir now.

Portrait in front of the Old Main Hospital at JHMI Summer of 2019

Briggs Sherwood

March 23, 2020

Briggs Sherwood

March 23, 2020

Friends Forever D Jirous and Maria at Dalesio's early Spring 2019

Briggs Sherwood

March 23, 2020

Maria's Lily Bank

Briggs Sherwood

March 23, 2020

A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

Briggs Sherwood

March 23, 2020

Briggs Sherwood

March 23, 2020

Paul Oliver of Dalesio's in Little Italy Baltimore meets Maria !

Briggs Sherwood

March 23, 2020

Gwendolyne Foxworth

March 23, 2020

A Beautiful and Special Life Force! You touched and influenced my life as a person, friend, and fellow Artist!! Most of all You, Paul, and Will showed me love!! I will never forget you!!Fare Thee Well!

Valerie Heavens

March 23, 2020

Beautiful Maria, so vibrant, so alive, it's difficult to believe you have passed on. No doubt you are now delighting those who you are with in the heavenly realm, and adding your brilliant light. Miss you, sweet lady.

With you, Will and Briggs, and all of Maria's friends...
Love & Blessings,
Valerie

Maria with Fr. Bob Reese... Love you Maria!

Valerie Heavens

March 23, 2020

John C Jones

March 23, 2020

I will miss you sweet dear.

yvonne landry

March 22, 2020

Maria was a dear, sweet woman. I feel blessed to have known her. Much love, Maria. Sending love to Will!

Briggs Sherwood

March 22, 2020

Correction: .. Fr. Gary Butterworth (Interim Rector of Grace Episcopal) presiding. Sorry for the typo .. love this man so much!

We all loved being with you !

Briggs Sherwood

March 21, 2020

Vive mon amour Maria !

BRIGGS SHERWOOD

March 21, 2020

VIVE MON AMOUR MARIA

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