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Patricia Ann Rokey

1940 - 2020

BORN

1940

DIED

2020

Patricia Rokey Obituary

Patricia Ann Wilder was born on December 12, 1940, in Bremerton, WA. Pat moved to Topeka with her mother and siblings in 1944. She graduated from Topeka High School in 1959 and met Richard Lee Rokey in October of 1963. The fit was so good that they married just 5 months later, on March 28, 1964, a union that lasted 56 years. To this union were born 3 sons: Judd Andrew (Topeka), Kevin Lee (Eudora), and Sean Patrick (the home). Pat worked at Shawnee Heights Elementary School for 23 years as a Library Aide and Lunchroom Monitor, retiring in December of 2000. Among her favorite things were planting and growing flowers leading to her becoming a Master Gardener. She also felt the need, very strongly, to protect vulnerable animals. Sadly, Patricia passed away June 6, 2020, from cancer. Preceding her in death are her mother, father, and stepfather. She is survived by her husband, Dick, 3 sons, 2 grandchildren, 1 great-grandchild, a sister, a brother, and a half sister. A memorial celebration of Pat's life will be held on Saturday, June 27, at Highland Park Baptist Church, 820 SE 29th Street, Topeka, KS. Visitation begins at 1:30, service at 2:00, and a lunch will be served afterwards. She would like, in lieu of flowers, for memorial contributions to be made to the church. Interment will be in Rochester Cemetary. As many attendees will be vulnerable to coronavirus the family is requesting masks and social distancing at this event.

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal from Jun. 21 to Jun. 22, 2020.

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Karen V. Geier

June 29, 2020

Dick, I'm so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. You and Pat were great neighbors to our family back in the day. Pat and I enjoyed a love of flower gardening and had lots of good talks about that interest. May you all find peace in the good memories. Fondly, Karen Geier

Linda Williams Lucas

June 25, 2020

Dear Dick and sons,

I was so sorry to hear about Pats passing. I have many fond memories of spending time with her many years ago when you and Willie were in business together. May God comfort you during this time.
Linda Williams Lucas

Rose M Glatt

June 22, 2020

Pat was a generous person and my garden was graced by many starts that she recommended. We were in Master Gardeners together and shared the beauty of nature. She and Dick had a beautiful garden around their home. I am sorry to hear about her passing but knowing Pat she is now home and pain free!

RaeAnn Petesch

June 22, 2020

To the Rokey family - I'm saddened to learn of Pat's passing. What a wonderful woman she was. May she rest in peace.

Mark Works

June 22, 2020

I am so sorry for the entire Rokey family

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Highland Park Baptist Church

820 SE 29th Street, Topeka, KS

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