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Marvin D. Guffey, 49, Topeka, passed away on Saturday, October 4, 2008 as a result of injuries suffered in an automobile accident. Marvin was born March 25, 1959 in Topeka, the son of Willard "Glen" and Stella (Ray) Guffey. He graduated from Seaman High School in 1977. After working a few years at Goodyear, he was employed as a carpenter with the State of Kansas where he had worked for over 25 years. He held the Lead Carpenter Role in many projects for family and friends. He was a member of Grace United Methodist Church and the Moose Lodge. He enjoyed dates with his wife, fishing, car shows and playing Texas Hold-Em poker. He was a founding member of the Topeka Hot-Wheels Club and a dedicated garage sale attendant. Marvin married Patsy Wasson on December 22, 2005. She survives. Other survivors include daughters, Ashlie Guffey, Robyn Wasson-Guffey; a granddaughter, Grace Lynn; brothers, John (Susan) Guffey, Paul (Lori) Guffey; twin brother, Melvin (Penny) Guffey; and parents, Glen and Stella Guffey; his mother and father-in-law, Howard and Earlene Wasson; brother-in-law, Howard (Benna) Wasson, Jr.; and nephew, Howard Wasson III. all of Topeka. Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m., Thursday, October 9, 2008 at Penwell-Gabel Parker-Price Chapel, 245 NW Independence. Marvin will lie in state from 5-9 p.m., today at the First Baptist Church Parlor, 3035 SW Mac Vicar, where the family will receive friends from 6 - 8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Helping Hands Humane Society, 2625 NW Rochester Road, Topeka, Kansas 66617. To leave a special message for the family online, visit www.PenwellGabel.com Marvin Guffey

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal on Oct. 8, 2008.

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rich and janel freislinger

October 19, 2008

Ashlie, I am so sorry about your dad. I know you were close to him. I had only ever heard good things about him from your mom and step dad. I know you will miss him. Stay strong.

Jackie

October 18, 2008

I am so sorry for the lost of your dear loved one. It's comforting to know that God cares for all of us and losing a loved one is something we cannot get used to. The Bible gives us hope that one day we can see our dear loved one again. On behalf of all mankind Jesus surrender his soul for many. John 15:13 says “No one has love greater than this, that someone should surrender his soul on behalf of his friends.” Truly I am sorry to hear of the loss of your dear loved one and I hope these few words will bring you comfort and hope.

Sheila Isern

October 17, 2008

To the Guffey Family,
I am deeply saddened to hear of Marvin's passing. May your hearts be filled with joyous memories of Marvin and all that you shared. Your family was such a wonderful part of my childhood.
With Love,
Sheila Bright Isern (daughter of Eldon and Mildred Bright)

Nancy Garbisch Arasmith

October 15, 2008

I just heard about the loss of Marvin. I am so sorry for your great loss. I have probably not seen Marvin much since our school days, but he was a great guy and I have fond Memories of both Marvin and Melvin from our years together in Jr/Sr High. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sheri (Hodges) Christy

October 14, 2008

Sorry this is late. I am so sorry to hear about Marvin. I attended Jr. High and High School with Marvin and Melvin. Marvin was a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ashley Healy

October 11, 2008

I know this is late, but I was trying to figure out the right words, and I realize there are none. Marvin was a great guy and even though I only knew him from waiting on him at the restraunt or what Robyn has told me. But that didnt matter, when my daughter fell ill, Pat and Marvin along with Marvins parents were right there to help me, even though they didnt know me. He was a GREAT man and he will be missed so much. Just know that he touched the lives of many and will always be remembered! God Bless

Mary and Randy Clinton

October 10, 2008

To The Guffey family, Ashlie and Tammy, My prayers are with you all at this time of sorrow. Marvin was such a kind man with a quiet sense of humor. He was such a great Dad. My God's angels wrap around you and help you thru these trying times.

Marty Reddick

October 10, 2008

Sorry to hear about Marvin. We know he is with the Lord. I knew Marvin & Melvin from school,and also had Marvin help me with the sale of my hot wheels collection. Great guy, and he will be missed by all.

Marty & Family

Robin and Lew Carpenter

October 9, 2008

To the Guffey Family: We are so very sorry for your loss. May God give you comfort and strength as you adjust to life without Marvin's physical presence. Remember his spirit and love are still with you all. Hold him close to your heart and cherish all the memories of him. Love never dies. Rest in Peace, Marvin

Michelle & James Forbes

October 9, 2008

Our prayers go out to all of you. Marvin truly was a wonderfully happy person. James and I walked into work alot with him and I don't remember a day he didn't have a smile on his face and have something good to say. I ususally listened of course,there was alot of hot wheel and car talk but it was all good. We will miss him. Our kids Leigha and Cody grew to know him also and are very saddened to hear about his passing. Please know we are thiking and praying for your families.

Amber (Parnell) Keehn

October 9, 2008

Nick and Melvin,
My deepest sympathies to you and your famliy. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family as your cope with the loss of a wonderful person.

Kerry Hammeke

October 9, 2008

Pat and family,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Arthur, Erich, and Kerry Hammeke

October 9, 2008

The Seaman Alumni Association send our sympathy to Marvin's family. May the kindness of family and friends help you through these difficult days.

Norma Johnson Priddy
SAA Secretary

Verner Newman III

October 8, 2008

AWAY
I CAN NOT SAY, AND I WILL NOT SAY, THAT HE IS DEAD - HE IS JUST AWAY. WITH A CHERRY SMILE AND A WAVE OF HE HAND. HE HAS WANDERED INTO A UNKNOWN LAND, AND LEFT US DREAMING HOW VERY FAIR IT NEEDS MUST BE, SINCE HE LINGERS THERE. AND YOU - O YOU, WHO SO WIDELY YEARN FOR THE OLD - TIME STEP AND THE GLAD RETURN, I THINK OF HIM FARING ON, AS DEAR IN THE LOVE OF THERE AS THE LOVE OF HEAR. THINK OF HIM AS THE SAME, I SAY; HE IS NOT DEAD - HE IS JUST AWAY

Cathy Guffey-Shutts

October 8, 2008

Its been a long time since seeing or talking to any of you, but know my thoughts prayers, and sympathy are with you. I will try to be there tomorrow. Just know in your heart that he is in a better place, as hard as that is at this time. And know my heart goes out to all of you.

Gene and Mabel Shown

October 8, 2008

Glen, Stella and family:
We are sorry to learn of your loss. Just know our thoughts and love are with you. Gene and Mabel

Al & Laurie Gonzalez

October 8, 2008

Glen, Stella, & Family: We never got to meet your son Marvin...but, we know you...and that tells us that he was a good man. Stay even closer to the Lord at this time, He will sustain you.

Mark Stock

October 8, 2008

Marvin and I enjoyed talking fishing and great garage sale finds. He'd tell me about fishing with his brothers. You could tell he loved it; loved life. EVERY time, he had a joke for me. I don't remember the jokes, but I remember Marvin's smile and laugh. Many people do as well; it's his legacy. RIP, my brother!!

Therese Peterson

October 8, 2008

Paul, Lori and family, So sorry to hear about your sudden loss.

Roy Snow

October 8, 2008

So sorry to hear about the passing of Marvin. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Roy Snow Kansas Moose Association.

Tim Houser

October 8, 2008

I met Marvin when I went to work for the state as a temp. I was fortunate to have been paired up with him on most of our service calls. He was a person that was easily likeable from the beginning. He liked to talk, but he also listened too. Unfortunally, that was many years ago, occasionally I would bump into him.....The Toy Store......during lunch, at McDonalds, We would try to catch up on our family lives , knowing that we only had a few minutes to spare. Marvin was a great guy... he will be missed!

Jeannie Schnellbacher

October 8, 2008

Pat,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeannie Schnellbacher

Rachel Rhine

October 8, 2008

Paul....my heart goes out to you and your family for your loss. Know my thoughts are with you all.

Angela Roberson

October 8, 2008

Mel,

I was so sad to hear about the tragic loss of your twin brother, Marvin. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Rick / Lesa Cyr

October 8, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Guffey and Wasson family,Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. May the Lord comfort you in this time of sadness. I have alot of school memories about Marvin and Melvin and myself, Marvin you will be missed by all.

Richard & Linda Young

October 8, 2008

Pasty and Family,
There are no words that will make the pain go away at this time. But through your love of Marvin , the hurt will easy and you can smile again on the good times. Marvin will always remain a wonderful person in our hearts

Jane Hansen

October 8, 2008

Pat, My deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved husband.

Rachel Ramirez-Hale

October 8, 2008

Aunt Stella, Uncle Glen, John, Paul and Melvin
I am deeply sorry for the loss of Marvin. Sean, Carter and I will not be able to make the funeral tomorrow but know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love always

Cheryl Kulp

October 8, 2008

October 8, 2008
My deepest condolences to Pat on the loss of her husband. The staff at Holland Student Center are all thinking about you. Please take the time to heal. I am thinking of you and you will be in my prayers. Your co-teacher and friend.
Cheryl Kulp
1809 Golden Rain Drive
Lawrence, Ks. 66044

john warner

October 8, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Helen Kirven

October 8, 2008

Stella, Glen, Paul, John and Melvin. I am thinking of all of you in your sorrow. God bless.
Helen Kirven (worked for Paul and worked with Stella at Red Dragon)

Terry & Brenda Jones

October 8, 2008

Our condolences to the Guffey family- we worked with Marv at the state for many years- he always had a smile- he will be greatly missed

Becky Lindbloom

October 8, 2008

John, Susan and family. I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hold tight to your memories. Becky Lindbloom

January and Jeremiah and Family Gustafson

October 8, 2008

Our deepest sympathy for your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. We will greatly miss Marvin. He was such a caring person. The love he had for his friends and family was very evident and I hope this helps you through this tough time. We will always be here for you if you ever need anything.

Jeremy Hood

October 8, 2008

Deepest condolences to the family of Marvin Guffey. I knew Marvin when I was in high school 7 years ago. I have always cherished the time he spent fishing with me and introducing me to hot wheels as a collectors item. He was one of a kind and will be sincerely missed.

Lynn & Rita Haverkamp

October 8, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Marvin was a wonderful friend and will be sorely missed by many. May you find comfort in your memories.

October 8, 2008

Patsy and family, Marvin came down to the cafe here in the Docking Building to eat always a smile on his face, telling me about his fishing and family, he will be sorely missed here, we want to wish you our condolences and you and your family will be in our prayers. The Staff of Patricks Cafe...

Sheila Mergen

October 8, 2008

Ashlie,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. Please call me if you ever want to get together and talk. May God be with you during this very difficult time.

Joyce & Duane Neiswender

October 8, 2008

Glen, Stella and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We will miss seeing Marvin at the Texas Hold'em at the Moose. He always had a smile and was so upbeat. Hang in there.

Kristina Rottler

October 8, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so very sorry for your loss.

The Rottler Family

Adam Moon

October 8, 2008

I only new marvin for a short time while i worked for the state as a temp worker but marvin was a great guy and will be missed rip marv

Debbie Baumgartner

October 8, 2008

Howard & Benna: I was so saddened to hear about the tragic loss of your brother in law. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Tammy Gockel-Ruddy

October 8, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Marvin. He was a great guy. Marvin worked with my dad (Ves Gockel) at the State and I know my dad thought highly of Marvin. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Dad passed away a year ago and I know that the thing that got me through was knowing what a difference dad made in the lives of others and how much dad was loved. Take comfort in knowing that Marvin was loved and did make a difference in other peoples lives.

Connie Hartford

October 8, 2008

Susan,
I send my Angels to help you and your family and want you to know, my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
Please let me know if there is anything I might be able to do to help you.
Connie

Verna Jackson

October 8, 2008

It is never easy when someone is taken so suddenly. May you find peace knowing that God is there and holding you in your time of sorrow.

Kim (Johnson) Hines

October 8, 2008

Marvin was like a brother to me, he spent alot of time with our family. He will be missed. I will miss him in the hall way at work too.

Mark McCoy

October 8, 2008

Please know that Marvin is in my thoughts and prayers.

Sue Affolter

October 8, 2008

Patsy and Family and The Family of Marvin. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathy. I remember Marvin when I was growing up as I lived on Lower Silver Lake Road and my brother (Rick Cyr) was friends with Marvin and Melvin and graduated together. Please know that I share in your great loss. With sympathy.
The Affolter's
Dan, Sue, Corey, Megan

Rocky Burgess

October 8, 2008

The worlds loss is Heavens gain, you will be missed on Earth but rejoyced in Heaven. RIP Marv

Ron & Donna Baxter

October 8, 2008

Our prayers are with you. Ron and Marvin worked together at the State and he made a grand impression. Our son in law, Brian, worked with him for the last 8 years. God must have a bigger plan for him up there. God bless

Kevin Johnson

October 8, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Marvin. After knowing him and Melvin for most of my life I know he will be missed by many.

Denver Erickson

October 8, 2008

Marvin was one of kind, and I believe I can honeslty say that everyopne that knew Marvin liked him very much. He will be grealty missed and his zeal for life never forgotton. May God bless his family and comfort them untill that time when we all meet again. (Gen 31:49)

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