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Joseph H. Ridgik

1932 - 2019

Joseph H. Ridgik obituary, 1932-2019, -, TX

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1932

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2019

Joseph Ridgik Obituary

Joseph H. Ridgik

- - Born April 12, 1932 in Chester, PA, son of Peter and Verna Ridgik, Dr. Joseph Ridgik passed away on June 26, 2019 and is survived by his wife, Mary Lou, his five children, Donna, Karen, Mark, Lisa and Denise, fifteen grandchildren, and 3 great grandchildren.

Dr. Joseph Ridgik graduated from St James Catholic Boys High School; La Salle University, Philadelphia, PA; and received his medical degree (D.O.) from Philadelphia College of Osteopathic Medicine in 1960. He interned at Doctor's Hospital, Columbus, OH and residency and training in Obstetrics and Gynecology at Riverside Hospital in 1961-1962 and hospitals of PCOM 1962-1964.

It was in his fourth year of medical school that he married the only woman he ever loved, Mary Lou Polinski, acquaintances through grade school and High School, but due to a 5 year age difference, it wasn't until his wife to be was in nursing school that friendship grew into a love that would thrive through 60 years of marriage. Dr. Ridgik often said that he fell more deeply in love with Mary Lou as the years went by - even more than when they were first married. Prior to their marriage, Dr. Ridgik served from 1955-57 as a hospital (corpsman) with the Fleet Marines, a service which was a great source of pride to him.

After their marriage and completion of his residency training, the young family lived for 5 years in Stratford, NJ while Dr. Ridgik's practice grew rapidly. For 5 years he was in solo practice to the point of being the busiest OB/GYN at J.F. Kennedy Hospital, delivering an average of 500 babies/year prior to gaining a partner and over the next several years, headed what would eventually become a 5 man group, the largest in South Jersey. Along with delivering babies, Dr. Ridgik performed an equal number of pelvic surgeries, taught medical students in the classroom, clinics and bedside, both in Philadelphia and his base hospital of J.F. Kennedy. Dr. Ridgik was a prolific writer of OB/GYN articles, two of which are in the Library of Congress in Washington D.C., and regular lecture/presenter at medical meetings and conventions throughout the country.

Dr. Ridgik and his first medical partner were on the cutting edge of many technical breakthroughs, conducting some of the first work in obstetrical ultrasound, colposcopy, laser and cryosurgery, laparoscopic surgery and other procedures. At J.F. Kennedy Hospital, Dr. Ridgik served on virtually every committee and was Chief of Staff in 1974. One of his great prides was to be voted teacher of the year twice by the medical students in Philadelphia and New Jersey and achieving the position of Clinical Assistant professor at the University of Medicine and Dentistry in Stratford, NJ.

Over the course of several years the Ridgiks grew into a family with four daughters and a son, which provided great joy and pride. The family gradually expanded to 15 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren.

Four great loves filled Dr. Ridgik's life - his wife, his family, his catholic faith, and his country. As the years passed, Joe and Mary Lou travelled extensively visiting 30 countries and sailed on 10 oceans and seas. Dr. Ridgik was an avid reader, photographer and artist. He greatly enjoyed a variety of music from country, the "Oldies" and classics.

Dr. Ridgik had a great love and pride in watching his children and their children grow into a close knit family that remained close to each other as they grew older. Every grandchild received a Bachelors Degree, with at least 3 achieving Masters level and two currently pursuing their medical career.

At the age of 86, Dr. Ridgik authored two books. The first based on medical humor and the second a compilation of more than 200 quotes, sayings and thoughts on how to live a life of happiness and fulfillment entitled, A Doctor's Prescription for a Life of Joy, Love and Peace.

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Published by Courier Post on Jul. 1, 2019.

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Jerrold M Snyder, DO

June 19, 2020

Mary Lou and family I have no idea why I decided to google Joe. When I found out that he had passed away last year I was sorry that I didnt reach out much sooner. I was one of his residents at Kennedy. He was always a great mentor and role model. I hope the entire family is staying safe during these Covid times. Though this message is a year overdue, I wanted to let you know that he made a big impact on a lot of lives. He also never forgot to show how proud and in love with his whole family he was.

Yvonne Perez

December 15, 2019

I adored him, sweetest man I ever worked for. Prayers the family. ❤❤❤

Shirley Gasca

December 15, 2019

I just love Dr. Ridgik! He was my Dr. when I was pregnant with my second baby. He also allowed me to intern with him as a Medical Assistant. The most gentle, kind, humble, funny, classy and amazing Dr./man there could be. He and Mary Lou were both so gracious to my husband (Who they used as their mechanic) and myself. They would take us out to dinner and have us over their house. We're so sorry to hear of his passing and want to send our condolences to his family. I know he's in a better place with Jesus, but I also know such a great man will be forever missed. Love you Dr. Ridgik!!

Shirley Gasca

John Mooney

August 21, 2019

On behalf of the St. James High School Alumni Association, I extend our deepest sympathies and prayers on your loss. In April 2020, the Alumni Association will remember Joe at their annual Memorial Mass at St. Madeline's Church in Ridley Park, PA.
I have known Joe since 1946, attending both St. James and LaSalle with him.

Keith and Charele Raport

July 20, 2019

Mary Lou and family,
We were so sorry to hear about Dr. Joe's passing. I, Charele, have fond memories of visiting you and having a wonderful time at a pool party at your NJ home. Time passes quickly and families grow and move away, but memories last forever.
It sounds like you have been blessed abundantly over the years! What a wonderful legacy Dr. Joe leaves behind!
We pray for comfort and peace for you and your family in the days and months ahead. You know you will see him again in heaven, and that's a promise. We mourn your loss with you but rejoice that he is home with the Lord. God grant you strength, rest, and the hope of eternal life to sustain you until you meet again. Sending our love and prayers,
Charele (Waxmunski) Raport

CAROLINE & JOSEPH FEDENA

July 9, 2019

Dear Mary Lou and Family, we are so sorry to hear about Joe's passing. I fondly remember Joe as my "older" cousin who was a lot of fun. I spent a good deal of time at Uncle Pete's and Aunt Verna's home on Jeffrey Street because we lived behind the Ridgik's on Engle Street in Chester. Joe would clown around with his brother, Ed, and I would just laugh.
Over the years I remember Joe as a very kind person who never spoke ill of anyone. We were so proud of him as he became a doctor and moved on in his profession. My husband said that Joe was the only person he knew that knew early on what he wanted to do in his life.
We also remember visiting you and Joe in our motorhome when you lived in CA. Joe asked what he could do for us as we were leaving. My husband said that we could use some water in our water tank not realizing that CA had a sever water shortage. Joe never missed a beat as he said to take as much as we needed.
God Bless him, you and your family. Love, Joe & Carole Fedena

Janet Beadling/Forvour

July 6, 2019

In September of 1973 I was Blessed to have Dr. Ridgik deliver my son. He was so kind and so caring. My thoughts are with his family during this sad time. What an "Admirable Man" he was...

Richard Karns

July 2, 2019

Great legacy. I work with one of his grandchildren. Peace and condolences to the entire family. Rest in Peace Sir

Lisa Bucca

July 2, 2019

I HAD THE PLEASURE OF WORKING WITH DR. RIDGIK FOR SEVERAL YEARS AND I HAVE NEVER SEEN A PHYSICIAN SO WONDERFUL TO HIS PATIENTS, HIS STAFF AND ALL THOSE WHO CAME IN CONTACT WITH HIM. JOE WAS A MAN OF FAITH, HE SHARED THAT WITH OTHERS WHO HE TOUCHED WITH ALL HIS KINDNESS AND CARE. JOE HAD AWAY OF MAKING YOU FEEL LIKE FAMILY. HE ALWAYS HAD THAT CARING, FATHERLY MANNER. JOE WAS THE TEACHER. MOLDING THE FUTURE FOR THE NEXT GENERATION OF PHYSICIANS HE WAS EASY TO TALK TO WHEN YOU NEEDED A FRIEND AND AS A PHYSICIAN YOU COULDN'T ASK FOR A MORE PROFESSIONAL, KNOWLEDGEABLE, AND COMPASSIONATE ONE. I WANT TO SEND CONDOLENCES AND LOVE TO ALL OF THE RIDGIK FAMILY. MRS. RIDGIK I PRAY GOD GIVES YOU COMFORT AND STRENGTH IN THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME. I ALSO WANT TO THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR WONDERFUL HUSBAND WITH THE WORLD. HE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY AND WILL BE FOREVER A MEMORY FOR ME THAT BRINGS A WARM, GENTLE FEELING TO MY HEART. I KNOW MY LIFE WAS BLESSED TO HAVE KNOWN HIM.

July 1, 2019

Dr Ridgik was a great doctor, he saved my life
and I was always grateful to him. He was the best
and I am sorry for your loss. Toni Blakeley

Theresa D'Alessandro (DiGiuseppe)

July 1, 2019

My deepest heartfelt condolences to the family on the loss of such a wonderful man. I worked with Dr. Ridgik and his group for two years in the early 70's. He, along with his staff was instrumental in helping me with my 3 pregnancies. He will be missed.

July 1, 2019

Marylou l was sad when I heard about Joe . I was recalling our combined family trip on that long road to Florida.Now the Joes have taken a greater trip on the road to heaven.Tell Mark,Donna Karen Lisa and Denise to be joyful because they had a great father and you a wonderful husband.Our family sends their love and prayers.Anne Michele Carol Joseph and Scott

July 1, 2019

Dear Marylou I was sad when l heard about Joe. I

Carol Snyder Wilson

July 1, 2019

Dear Family, I was a pregnant sixteen year old girl when I met Dr Ridgik. He was so kind and put me at ease right away. He delivered my daughter, Tracey, in 1967 when I was seventeen years old and he told me I was the best patient he ever had. Since I held him in the highest esteem his words meant so much to me. He also delivered my son, Christopher, in 1971. My children were born at JFK hospital in Stratford NJ. I have thought of him often because he was the best doctor I've ever had. I am so sorry for your loss.

Peggy Burgo

July 1, 2019

Dear family,
Dr. Ridgik, delivered my children, and operated on me and saved my life. He was a kind and loving man. I will never forget him. May your fond memories help you in your time of grief.

July 1, 2019

I am so very sorry for your loss, please accept my sincere condolences. May the God of all comfort give you his peace at this very difficult time. Php 4:6,7

June 30, 2019

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

June 30, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

June 30, 2019

Losing a loved one is never easy, but our loving god promises to give us the strength and courage we need to endure, and to cope with the pain of your loss. He also promises to hold your hand every step of the way. (Isaiah 40:31, 41:10, 13) so my condolences goes out to your family during this hard time.

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