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Jennifer Crosby Cargill

1965 - 2019

Jennifer Crosby Cargill obituary, 1965-2019, Southport, CT

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1965

DIED

2019

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Jennifer Cargill Obituary

Jennifer Crosby Cargill
We are extremely saddened to announce the sudden passing of Jennifer Crosby Cargill in Southport, Connecticut on June 9, 2019. Born December 2, 1965 in Bennington, VT, Jennifer was raised on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. Jennifer attended the St. Hilda's & St. Hugh's School from K-6th grade and then moved to The Nightingale-Bamford School, from which she graduated in 1983. A tried and true New Yorker, Jennifer went to Hobart and William Smith Colleges and graduated with degrees in French Literature and Russian, fulfilling her dream of fluency in multiple languages.
After college she joined the training program at Lord&Taylor where she developed her extraordinary sense of fashion styling and her love of vibrant colors. Jennifer met her husband and lifelong best friend Samuel Whitney Cargill at a charity event in NYC in 1988, and in the summer of 1992 they wed in the central nave at St. John the Divine, the church on the block where she grew up. Shortly after, they moved to Pasadena, CA where Jennifer continued working in the fashion business at the LA Fashion Mart. She joined the Junior League of Pasadena where she volunteered and served as President of the chapter.
In 2002 Jennifer and Sam welcomed their first child, Samuel Whitney Cargill, Jr., followed in 2006 by their daughter Rosalie deForest Cargill. While living in Pasadena they were immersed in community philanthropy and loved their weekend cruising to Catalina Island aboard, "Abraxis" and "Marbella."
Sam's work as President of Global Accounts at AON Risk Solutions brought the family back to the East Coast where they settled in Sam's hometown of Southport, CT, surrounded by his sister, sister-in-law, mother and multiple nieces and nephews. Jennifer continued her philanthropic work in her new community, serving Trinity Church on the Vestry and its Nursery School Board and as a founder of the Trinity Tailgate Tag Sale. She supported many local charities, including the Pequot Library in Southport and Fairfield Country Day School, attended by both Sam and her son Sammy. She was also a member of the Sasqua Garden Club, Pequot Yacht Club and the Country Club of Fairfield.
In 2010 upon their return to Southport, Jennifer joined her sister-in–law Sissy Cargill Biggers as a partner in Southport Galleries, which represents American contemporary artists in a variety of mediums. Jennifer curated many exhibits and hosted lively gatherings which made the gallery an important cultural center of the village—her creativity and demure elegance always in present.
Jennifer is survived by Sam, her loving husband of 27 years, her son Sam, Jr., her daughter Rosie, her sister Heather Crosby Mnuchin of Los Angeles, mother Virginia D. Crosby and step-father John J. Walsh of New York City; 9 nieces and nephews; 4 aunts and uncles and 15 first cousins. She was predeceased by her father H. Ashton Crosby IV.
Services will be held on Saturday, June 15th at 3:00 p.m. at Trinity Episcopal Church, Southport, CT. Contributions may be made to the Jennifer Crosby Cargill Memorial Fund in care of Trinity Episcopal Church, 651 Pequot Ave., Southport, CT 06890.
For travel directions or to sign her guest register, please visit www.LeskoPolkeFuneralHome.com

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Published by The Hour & Connecticut Post from Jun. 10 to Jun. 12, 2019.

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Toby Beavers

June 20, 2019

Dear Sam!! My deepest sympathies for you all! Thinking of you! Love Toby

June 19, 2019

We were devastated to return home and learn the news of Jennifer's untimely loss. Our deepest sympathy, prayers, and support to her husband and children; to Sissy and Virginia, and all of the Crosby and Cargill families. May Jennifer rest in eternal peace. Cheryl Carlesimo and family

Fred Feuerhake

June 18, 2019

Sam and family,
So very saddened by the very premature passing of Jennifer.
Everyone who came to know her were so fortunate...memories will last a lifetime.
Best wishes,
Fred

June 17, 2019

My condolences to the family. May you receive the comfort you need during this time of sadness. Matt 5:4

June 16, 2019

"On behalf of Paci Restaurant, our deepest sympathies..."
Donna and Bob

Tony Wan

June 15, 2019

On behalf of Tony Wan & family, our sympathies and condolences are shared with all of you at this unconcievable time of loss.

Our thoughts and prayers are from the 112th Street extended families who where raised together in a neighborhood considered to be one of a kind.

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Eric Gray

June 13, 2019

The Gray family expresses our deepest condolences to the entire Cargill family.

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john Mitola

June 13, 2019

Sam and the Cargill Family:

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I am thinking about you during this incredibly difficult time. Jennifer certainly lived a wonderful life. Peace.

June 13, 2019

For her loving family, please accept my heartfelt condolence, and I hope that this lovely verse from the bible ,will bring comfort and peace to all. Mathews 5:4

Ellen Hatch

June 12, 2019

Just heartbroken Sam. Prayers for you and Sam and Rosalie. What a loss. She was a smart, beautiful, creative, loving woman.

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June 12, 2019

Sam, I can't even begin to say how sad I am for you and your kids...I just heard this minute...Jennifer was very special and I loved her straightforwardness and unique personality. She was always kind to me. I am so very sad. Unbelievably sad.
Kim Romero

Marybeth Auszura

June 12, 2019

Sammy and Rosie
Your Mom was a shining example of service to her Church Community. Whenever volunteers were needed for a Coffee Hour , your Mom signed up for two.... and she would quietly tell me to call her if I ever needed last minute help and she would get food over to us. One year, during Christmas Pageant, I was sent downstairs to help your mom with costumes - she was knee deep in costumes and children yet had complete calm and control. I'm so very sad for your loss and I hope you find comfort in the open arms of your Trinity family. Sam , I'm very sorry for your loss.
Marybeth Auszura

The Staff of Lesko-Polke Funeral Home

June 12, 2019

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Stephen Taft

June 12, 2019

Sam, I am so sorry for your loss. I loved re-connecting with you last month and it is such a shock to think of all you must be feeling, you and yours ... All my best in these hardest of moments ...

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Martyn Belmont

June 11, 2019

I am absolutely devastated to hear this tragic news. I am thinking of you, Sam and the children who have lost this beautiful woman. Please take care of yourselves at this very difficult time.
With much love,
Martyn

Marty Levine

June 10, 2019

Everyone at Martel is absolutely devastated. We loved her and Sam coming in so regularly. We will remember her in the fondest way. I will think of her every time I look at the beautiful photo on the wall we bought at the gallery. Our thoughts are with you Sam and the whole Cargill clan.

Marty Levine and the staff of Martel

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