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George Bender Obituary

February 22, 1932 - March 30, 2020 George John Bender was born in Bellflower, CA to John and Marie Bender who immigrated from the Netherlands in 1917. They settled in Venice, CA where George and his four siblings were raised. George met his high school sweetheart and the love of his life, Shirley Morris, at Venice High School, where they both graduated in the class of 1950. They were married in 1952, and after living in Hawthorne, CA they moved to Rancho Palos Verdes in 1963 and raised their four children. George was a good son, brother, husband, father, friend, and neighbor. He took great pride in serving his country in the Air Force during the Korean War, working as a Firefighter for the Los Angeles Fire Department for thirty-one years, and establishing George Bender Plumbing in 1958. George enjoyed being an active member of the Palos Verdes Community by helping the Las Candalistas, serving on the Board of the Peninsula Symphony, and was a trained CERT volunteer. Throughout his life, George enjoyed various physical activities, fishing, boating, scuba diving, water skiing, running marathons, playing tennis, and hiking, to name a few. He hiked Mount Whitney, and in August 2006, he hiked to the top of Yosemite's Half Dome. One of his greatest joys was hiking the trails, cliffs and shores of Palos Verdes, he truly loved and appreciated the natural beauty that surrounded him. After Shirley's passing in 2004, George's 'neighborhood family' was his special family! They walked together every day, they loved spending time together, and they loved, cared for, and looked out for one another! George had been in declining health over the past couple of months, and unfortunately, in the end, was compromised by the COVID19 virus. George passed peacefully, knowing he was loved, admired, and appreciated. He is predeceased by his wife, Shirley, and his daughter, Debbie. He is survived by his youngest sister, three of his children, eight grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.

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Published by Daily Breeze on Apr. 8, 2020.

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Jan Roberts

April 20, 2020

Mr. Bender was a regular customer of mine at the former Longs Rolling Hills. He came in often and we had many good chats, such a nice man! My heartfelt condolences to the Bender family.

Kenneth Bender

April 13, 2020

Please accept my most sincere condolences to your family.

Debby Power

April 10, 2020

My condolences to all the Bender family. I have known George and Shirley since our Venice High School days. My husband and I have lived here on the peninsula since 1957 and would see Shirley and George while we were shopping. I have such fond memories of both of them. If services will be held in the future I would like to be informed. With warmest regards. Debby Lombard Power VHS '51

Mrs Scott

April 10, 2020

I am truly sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences. I hope that the happy memories that you have will bring you some comfort during this difficult time. May the God of all comforts bring you a measure of peace, today and tomorrow.

Hermien Langenberg

April 10, 2020

Dear family Bender

My condolences to you all,so sad George past away.
I remember George as a wonderfull cousin, the times we had together with Shirley and family in Palos Verdes and in Holland with the Duth family.
Thanks for these beautifull memories.

"REST IN PEACE"

Youre cousin Hermien and family,
The netherlands

Pat Zigrang

April 9, 2020

My condolences to the Bender family in their loss.

Lora Larson

April 9, 2020

May the Lord comfort my cousins Dave, Kathy and Cindy and all of George's friends and family at his entry into Heaven with aunt Shirley. Knowing that You, Jesus, are the only Way for us to be reunited for eternity in glory as well as believing that we are with You and your saints right now! (Ephesians 2:19) A virtual hug to you all, grace and love more so!

April 8, 2020

To the Bender family, all my my love to all of you. I am sorry I didn't know your Dad and Grandpa, but what a great family in our South Shores community, God bless and peace to you during this very hard time. Terry Katnic and Family.

Susan

April 8, 2020

Thank you for letting us get to know George a bit better. We are friends with one of his daughters and she is truly a testimony to his and his wifes incredible parenting. May the peace of God surround the family during this difficult time.

April 8, 2020

The members of Las Candalistas send their sincere condolences to the family of Mr. George Bender. He and his late wife, Shirley, were dedicated to helping those in need. Shirley was an active member of our organization and George was a beloved Honorary member. Las Candalistas will miss George and his thoughtfulness. Rest In Peace.
Las Candalistas Members

April 8, 2020

I will miss George's smile and upbeat personality. He loved his family and visited my dad, his brother, often in his final days.

Sara Sealander

April 8, 2020

Dear Cindy, Kathy and David--This is a beautiful tribute to your Dad. You three took such good care of George. Thanks also to Dick, Bill and Julie. I'm sending condolences and much love to all.

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