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Brian Heller Obituary

Brian K. Heller Ballston SpaBrian K. Heller, 53, passed away suddenly on Monday, June 3, 2013 from a long battle with liver disease. He was born on November 26 in Troy, NY to John and Theresa Heller. Brian was an extremely talented and well respected hair stylist known throughout the Capital District and owned salons for many years. He loved to travel and visited many wonderful places, Rome and Istanbul being two of his favorites. Family was the most important thing to Brian and he was extremely proud of his nieces and nephews, but would tell anyone that his most important accomplishment in life was his son, Corey. Brian lived life to the fullest and enjoyed every moment of it. He did more in his short 53 years than most have ever dreamed of doing. Brian's sense of charity and generosity were unmatched and he would give everything he had to those who needed. Brian will be sorely missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Brian was predeceased by his parents, John and Theresa Heller. He is survived by his partner, David LaMar and his son, Corey Heller (Kayte Greene). He is also survived by his brother, John (Marie); his sisters, Kim and Deb; his brother, Jeff (Renee); his mother and father-in-law, Karen and Renald LaMar; his sister-in-law, Carol (Dave); brother-in-law, Steven (Susan); his ex-wife, Alicia; and several nieces and nephews. A memorial service to celebrate Brian's life will be held at the Appel Inn Gathering Space, 590 Rte. 146, Altamont, NY on Friday, June 7, 2013 at 4 p.m.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. on Jun. 5, 2013.

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June 9, 2013

Dear David and Corey,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Brian.
Joanne and Tom DiLorenzo

June 9, 2013

THIS WAS THE LAST CONVERSATION I HAD WITH ..BRIAN..Brian Heller 1:10pm Mar 13
Hey buddy good to here from you what's going on with you I think we're getting old Tom I have had problems to need to get a liver transplant was it worth all that parting let me no what's up by u..HE SENT TO ME ..PLEASE SEE MY OTHER WRITING AND PASS IT ON..4 EVER B..

katie dilorenzo

June 8, 2013

so sorry for your loss. May God bless.

Kelly and Jeff Burckhard

June 7, 2013

Corey, Kayte and Dave,
We are so sorry for your loss! I only spent time with Brian a few times, I knew him more through the stories we would share when Corey and Kayte would come over. Even without knowing him well I know the world is missing a wonderful, fun and loving man because of how he is loved and missed. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you in this difficult time, we love you.

Sylvia & Irwin Pollock

June 7, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sandra Mawdesley

June 7, 2013

Corey,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting your dad, I have been told, of what a great person he was.I can only imagine, having a wonderful son like you. May you find comfort in the memories you hold.
Sincerely,
Sandra Mawdesley

Margie Nowak

June 7, 2013

Dave and Cory,what can I say at a time like this? I for one will celebrate Brians life. He was loved by many and will be greatly missed by everyone that was lucky enough to know him.

TOM DESIENA

June 6, 2013

IT HAD BEEN MANY YEARS SINCE I HAVE SPOKEN TO BRIAN. THEN LAST MONTH WE MADE CONTACT AGAIN. AFTER SOME EMAILS BACK AND FORTH AND TALKING ABOUT HOW WE ARE NOW PAYING FOR THOSE CRAZY DAYS. ME WITH MY HEALTH ISSUES AND HE WITH HIS, HOWEVER HE NEVER COMPLAINED BUT SEEMED MORE INTERESTED IN MY PROBLEMS...THAT WAS BRIAN...I NOW WISH WE DIDN'T TAKE SO LONG TO MAKE CONTACT AGAIN. HE WILL BE MISSED IN MY BOOK OF LIFE !! ALTHOUGH SAD..WE LIVED LIKE NO TOMORROW

June 6, 2013

David and Family. I am so very sorry for your loss. It was an absolute pleasure spending time with Brian. I will never forget <3

Kathy Riley Matthews & Jim Pallotolo

June 6, 2013

Our deepest condolences for your loss. God bless always.

Aunt Anna Riley & Boys

June 6, 2013

Kim & Family,

So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Love,

June 6, 2013

Corey and Kayte,

Our thoughts are with you and your family. We're so sorry for your loss.

With love,
Courtney and Rex

Noreen Mincarelli

June 6, 2013

So many wonderful memories have come flooding through me these past few days of our days growing up in the neighborhood. I will never forget all great times we had since we were knee-high. I will miss you my childhood friend. Heaven has welcomed another Angel.

June 6, 2013

So sorry to hear of Brian,s death. May he rest in peace

Gail Trietiak

June 6, 2013

Dave & Corey,
I am so sorry for your loss, may your memories comfort you during this difficult time. Brian was a wonderful person and the best hairdresser in the Capital Region. I will miss him....

Gail Trietiak

June 6, 2013

Dave & Corey
I am so sorry for your loss, may your memories comfort you during this difficult time. Brian was a wonderful person and the best hairdresser in the Capital Region. I will miss him!!

Patricia Billack

June 6, 2013

A beautiful life will not be forgotten. I wish you peace and strength.

Lori Robinson

June 6, 2013

Dear Dave and Family,
I was the sitter who assisted you with Brian before he went to ICU. I was sorry to hear that Brian had passed. You were a great comfort to him. I hope that comforts you in some way. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

andrianna riley

June 6, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ann Finnegan

June 6, 2013

Dear Dave and Corey, I can not tell you how sorry I am for your loss - a sweet, funny, talented man with a heart of gold who's been a unique and wonderful part of my life for almost thirty years.(!) Hopefully one day we will all meet in heaven - and catch up on "all the latest." With my love and a very very sad heart, May God Bless you and your families and your Brian - always.

Erin McCabe

June 5, 2013

I am sorry sorry to hear of Brian's passing. He was a very special person and I know he will be missed by all those who knew him and loved him. My heartfelt condolences.

Maura Orchard

June 5, 2013

Dave..I am so sorry to learn of Brian's passing...please accept my sincerest condolences..he was a wonderful person and I will miss him
Maura Orchard

June 5, 2013

david and Brian u are both well loved and Brian was a great person. David take comfort that you cared for him and loved him!

Linda Tersigni

June 5, 2013

I will always, ALWAYS cherish the moments I shared with Brian. He was a person that realized LIFE was short, and he welcomed each day. He was my friend. He will be remembered and missed, and may God welcome him with open arms!

Aggie Justice

June 5, 2013

I will always love you Brian. I will remember all the time we spent together, the many laughs we shared. You made an impact in my life and my kids. I will remember you as my Baby Whisper-er. Good Bye my Friend.

June 5, 2013

Brian I will always Love You my friend. You made such an impact in my life and my kids. I will always remember our times together, the many laughs we shared over the years. Good Bye my friend , a.k.a My baby whisper-er..

Vanessa Rokjer

June 5, 2013

David, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

-Vanessa

Becki Cole

June 5, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Brian was a wonderful man and I consider myself lucky to have known him. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love x&o

Dan and Aggie Justice

June 5, 2013

Dave and Corey, We are so sorry for your loss. Brian meant so much to our family. His spirit and loving nature will not soon be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Love you guys.

June 5, 2013

Love to u david

June 5, 2013

Jeff,Renee and family,
We are so sorry for your loss.
keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Colleen and Greg Campoli

Joanne & Donald Maguire

June 5, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you both, Dave and Corey...he was a very special man and will be truly missed..xoxo

Lisa Carlino

June 5, 2013

Corey,

My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

June 5, 2013

Dave, my heart goes out to you...I know how much you love Brian...

Denice

Sue Ewing

June 5, 2013

Dave, I am so very sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to you. Prayers for peace and comfort.

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