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James J. O'Connor

1948 - 2019

James J. O'Connor obituary, 1948-2019, Schenectady, NY

James O'Connor Obituary

James J. O'Connor died peacefully, surrounded by family, in Schenectady NY on March 27, 2019 at the age of 71. Jim is survived by his wife, Christine; children, Corinne, and David (Meghan) of Chicago, IL, stepsons Jason and Adam (Jessica) O'Toole of Massachusetts; siblings, Michael (Dianne), Mary, Gerald (Terry), Ralph (Ellen), Rosemary and several cousins, nieces and nephews, and grandkids. He is also survived by his cousins Terri and Jay Stearns, and Theodora Lager. He is preceded in death by his parents James J. Sr., and Rose O'Connor, his Aunt Marie Bormann, and sister Kathy O'Connor of Rotterdam. Jim was born on March 20, 1948 in Schenectady, NY to James and Rose O'Connor. He graduated from Bishop Gibbons High School in 1967 and attended Saint Michael's College [Winooski Park, VT] where he graduated in 1971 with a bachelor's degree in Sociology. He then attended State University of New York at Albany where he received his Master of Science in Rehabilitation Counseling. Jim worked for the majority of his career in the New York State Education Department for the NYS Vocational and Educational Services for Individuals with Disabilities for more than 30 years until he retired in 2010.  Jim lived a very full life of service, and intellectual curiosity. He focused his professional efforts on helping those with disabilities. In his personal life, he loved watching baseball and football, playing his fantasy drafts and checking in with family and friends on Facebook. He stayed very close with friends he had made growing up in Rotterdam and in the area. He always loved visiting with his classmates from Saint Michael's and laughing with them. A memorial celebration of life service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Sunnyview Rehabilitation Hospital foundation at donate.givetosunnyview.org. The family would like to thank Ellis Hospital, the Visiting Nurse Association, Home Instead and Sorel E., Sunnyview Rehabilitation Hospital, Landmark Health, and Dr. Caroline Eaton and the Schenectady Fire Department for their care and responsiveness. Jim has found his patch of clover.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. from Apr. 1 to Apr. 2, 2019.

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ralph

March 26, 2024

Jim, wishing you were still here. Would love to talk to you. Missing you, Love, Ralph

Carol Ellis

March 26, 2021

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Mike OBrien

March 26, 2020

Jim has been a class act all his life. He has 2 terrific adult children and a spectacular wife who stood by him through thick and thin. he worked hard to earn his degree and guided many as a Counselor for the state of New York. All handicaps he had he just booted aside.
While he was a good friend in college, He was a wonderful friend for the 49 years afterwards (except when he called me when the Patriots lost in the playoffs before I even began walking out of the stadium...and kept me on the phone for 20 minutes asking me what Super Bowl Party was I going to now that I have no rooting interest).
Jim was brilliant, funny, loaded with friends, deeply in love with his wife Chris and a great friend to many of us as was displayed with the number of people who drove to Vermont for his Celebration of Life.

I must be honest, I did not mind his not making a call to me to bust me about the Patriots and Tom Brady after this immediate past season!!!

John Gearing

November 24, 2019

I met Jim through the Community Archaeology Program at SCCC. Although he wasn't able to get "down and dirty" into the trenches to dig for artifacts, Jim focused his efforts on the research needed by each dig. He loved a good joke (and many a bad one!) and always had a ready smile and a positive attitude. I miss the big guy. Safe travels, Jim.

Sorel E

April 5, 2019

It was such a pleasure providing care to Jim, even on days he wasnt feeling his best he always kept his spirits high. He always made me laugh and always asked me how my son was doing. Some days I could finish his sentences for him and know what he wanted before he got a chance to ask. You will be missed Jim but it puts my mind at ease to know you are no longer in pain or suffering.

Mike O'Brien

April 2, 2019

Jim was the class of our class and I was thrilled when his son David and my son Matt connected at St. Michael's College. Jim came with me when I drove out to the tri city area to watch an SMC baseball game vs Siena and watch Matt play.
He was a brilliant man and many of us feel he was the brightest student in our class.He conquered any/all obstacles with a smile and great humor.

Jim and I were always in lines together, since most colleges in those days did everything alphabetical order. Howie O'Hara, another classmate, was right there with us.

When the Saints go marching in, Jim O'Connor will be leading the way.

Susan Fulton

April 1, 2019

Jim was the light in the room. We feel privileged to call him family.
Chris, Corrine, David, Adam, Jessica, and Jay, our heartfelt sorrow. We will miss this amazing man.
Craig and Susan Fulton
Florida Massachusetts

Eileen Sullivan

April 1, 2019

Chris so sorry for your loss of your great love, Jim. We all feel privileged to have added Jim to our family. He truly love Eli, Simon, Owen and Jessie! We will greatly miss his positive attitude and warrior spirit.
Eileen Sullivan, Jessie's Aunt

For my friend

John Stephenson

April 1, 2019

My Brother Forever

John Stephenson

April 1, 2019

April 1, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Tom Ozimek

April 1, 2019

Please accept my prayers and condolenses on your deepest loss. Jimmy was a true friend and a Brother since our days at Bishop Gibbons. I will always remember his sharp wit and tremendous sense of humor. May you rest in Peace Jim. ozzie

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