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John Duffy Jr.

1933 - 2019

John Duffy Jr. obituary, 1933-2019, West Chester, PA

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1933

DIED

2019

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John Duffy Obituary

John J. Duffy Jr., a flamboyant Chester County criminal defense attorney whose reputation for courtroom heroics was matched by his avocation to helping scores of suffering alcoholics and addicts find treatment and recovery, died on February 1. He was 85.
In courtrooms throughout the Philadelphia area, Duffy was known as a gifted storyteller who deftly humanized his clients and as a brilliant and relentless cross-examiner who often left the prosecution's witnesses stammering. His standing was built on defending a string of high-profile murder trials and he remained a sought-after homicide defense lawyer throughout his five-decade career.
In the summer of 1964, Duffy traveled to Mississippi in the wake of the murders of three civil rights workers that came to be known as the Freedom Summer murders. Duffy took depositions for about a month on voter suppression and stayed in different homes every night due to threats against the group of lawyers who had responded to calls for volunteers from Attorney General Robert F. Kennedy. As he returned from Mississippi, Duffy serendipitously met the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., who was arriving there.
Duffy's life took a sharp turn in 1974 when, after a series of legal and personal struggles, he acknowledged his own alcoholism and entered an alcoholic rehab center then known as Chit Chat at the behest of his own criminal defense lawyer, John Rogers Carroll. Suspended from practicing law for several years, Duffy and his family grew closer during tough times, supported by their investment in a family-operated luncheonette in Paoli, and by Duffy's earnings as a law clerk working for Carroll.
On the day his license was reinstated, Duffy triumphantly ran up the steps of the Philadelphia Art Museum Rocky Balboa-style, and within weeks he and Carroll formed a boutique criminal defense firm, Carroll, Creamer Carroll & Duffy. While at that firm, Duffy played a lead role in the 1980 legal defense team representing a handful of politicians in the storied ABSCAM scandal.
Together with Carroll, who was also a recovering alcoholic, Duffy began focusing on helping others to find the gift of sobriety. They formed a lawyers-only AA meeting that became the seed for Lawyers Concerned for Lawyers, a nonprofit that became a model for lawyers' assistance programs throughout the nation.
In more than 44 years of sobriety, Duffy harnessed the storytelling skills he had honed in courtrooms to tell his own story in AA meeting rooms of how he hit bottom and won his life back one day at a time. He also worked closely with the rehab that had saved his life, which was later renamed the Caron Foundation, serving on Caron's board for more than 30 years, including two years as a Chairman. The Gill-Duffy Alumni House will carry his name on campus.
In 2009, Duffy received the Osceola Wesley Award from the Chester County Drug Court for his contributions to the "recovery of people gripped by addictive demons." Duffy had returned to West Chester after the Carroll firm dissolved, and he formed a new firm that was ultimately known as Duffy & Green.
A father of seven, grandfather of 19 and great-grandfather of six, John James Duffy Jr. was born and raised in West Philadelphia, attended West Catholic High School and served in the U.S. Air Force before attending LaSalle University and Villanova University School of Law.
It was while stationed in London in 1952 that Duffy met Bridget Cotter and the two married there before returning to Philadelphia in 1953. By the time Duffy graduated from law school in 1962, the couple had two daughters and three sons. Two more sons were born by mid-1965.
John and Bridget divorced after 31 years, and he was remarried several years later.
Duffy's June 6, 1986 marriage to Marie DelVecchio, a healthcare professional, was a transcontinental ceremony, with a judge in Chester County officiating by phone while the newlyweds were in Normandy, France, beginning their lives together on the anniversary of D-Day.
Among the many notable cases in his career, Duffy in 1981 defended one of the Maragos brothers who, along with four others, were accused of rigging the Pennsylvania lottery's daily number in an elaborate scheme that involved injecting paint into the ping pong balls used to randomly choose the winning numbers. The scam came to be known as the Triple Six Fix, because the winning number was 6-6-6. All of the Maragos brothers avoided jail time by agreeing to testify against the accused mastermind of the scam, Nick Perry.
Duffy is survived by his wife, Marie; his two daughters: Bridget Wilson and her husband, Barry; Jane Maughan and her husband, Bill; and five sons: Casey and his wife, Christine; Seamus and his wife, Cathy; Shannon; Fitz and his wife, Tarra; and Shavin and his wife, Wendy; 19 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.
Relatives and friends are invited to his visitation, Thursday February 7, 2019 from 9-11am at the St. Agnes Church 233 West Gay Street West Chester followed by his Funeral Mass at 11am. Interment will be at the St. Agnes Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Duffy Family Endowed Foundation; Caron Treatment Centers 243 N Galen Hall Road Wernersville, PA 19565.
Arrangements by DellaVecchia, Reilly, Smith & Boyd Funeral Home Inc. 610.696.1181 www.DellaFH.com

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Published by Daily Local News from Feb. 4 to Feb. 5, 2019.

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Heather Durkin-Thomas

June 22, 2019

I just learned of Mr. Duffy's passing and I am so sorry for your family's loss. I was blessed to have known Mr. Duffy through my dad and followed in his footsteps in law and life. He always had some wonderful stories and life lessons that will live on along with his service as his legacy. His impact on this world is immeasurable. I am sure that my dad was there when he crossed over and they are enjoying their glorious reunion. Much love and gratitude to all.

May 6, 2019

The Moot Court Board at VLS loved meeting Mr. Duffy and having him Judge Finals at Reimels in 2012. Sending condolences and love to his family.

April 19, 2019

Marie Sorry to hear that John passed. John and I go way back in both of his worlds. Trdtifird for his defendant in a murder case, John won! My Father loved him too. AS John would say-God Bless Sam DePaul lll

March 29, 2019

Mr Duffy it was an honor knowing you,!! May you rest in peace, you deserve it my friend. .John and Beverly Welsh

Gene Hickman

February 13, 2019

Was shocked and saddened to hear this news. The Duffy Family, once again, has another Guardian Angel watching over your family.

My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the Duffy Families.

John receiving Osciola Wesley Award

John Morton

February 6, 2019

John receiving the Osciola Wesley Award

John Morton

February 6, 2019

February 6, 2019

Rest in Peace, Sir
You helped me almost 40 years ago. I appreciate your services to this day.
You were a damn good attorney and a great person.
Sad to see you leave.

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Sandra and George Moyer

February 5, 2019

Sorry for your loss. Sounds like he was an amazing man!
Our thoughts and many prayers to the Duffy family

George and Sandra Moyer

Amanda Winkey

February 4, 2019

John Duffy was a peoples man; if he knew you were being treated unfair or unjust he was there to defend you. John attended my brothers funeral in 2006 and that was the last time I saw him. He said that when he died he wanted Mr. Joe Lewis to sing at his funeral,(ONE Day At A Time). I just want his family to know that was one of his wishes. John represented me and my brother on different occasions. I will never forget how smart he was about the law and how kind he was while defending it. He was my friend and Lawyer.

Barclay Reynolds

February 3, 2019

Helped with my habit and defense. Good man! 610306-8117

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