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Lorraine ARMSTRONG Obituary

HAMPTON - Colonel Lorraine F. "Armie" Armstrong Jr. passed away Nov. 13, 2012, at the age of 93, from pulmonary complications. He was born in Houston, Texas to Lorraine and Clifford Armstrong in 1919.
Armie was preceded in death by his wife, Alene Bennett McGolrick Armstrong, in 2008, and by his son, Patrick Armstrong, in 2011.
He is survived by his daughter, Suzanne Armstrong Bingham, and her children, Paige DeCosta and Blaire Bingham and son Patrick's children, Allyson Whittington, Trish Matthes, Lauren Armstrong MacEwen; granddaughter, Sarah Whittington; niece, Marie Ford Boring; and grandniece, Shelby Ford.
Not long after his birth, the Armstrong family settled in San Antonio, and lived seasonally on their ranch in Sequin, Texas. Armie graduated from Sequin High School where he played sports, lettering in tennis and football. He then enrolled and attended Texas Lutheran College, graduating in 1939. At the age of 20, he began Army Air Corps pilot training, completing the Advanced Pilot Training School in 1940, and quickly became a seasoned pilot before the United States entered into WWII. During this time, in 1941, he married Francelle "Boots" Parmiter, with whom he had his two children, Patrick and Suzanne.
During the war, Armie served in the North Africa and Southern European Theatre assigned to the 434th Bomber Squadron, 12th Bomb Group, nicknamed the Earthquakes. He flew B-25s and became a squadron commander at 25. Armie flew 71 combat missions, though the standard rotation was 35 missions. Upon his promotion to major and return to the states during the war, he trained new pilots and ferried planes. These planes included: B-26s, B-25s, A-20s, A-26s and P-61s, to name a few. For his service as part of America's Greatest Generation, Armie received two Distinguished Flying Crosses, nine Air Medals, an Air Force Citation, and the European Campaign Ribbon including six campaign stars, among others. Later in his military career, he was presented the Legion of Merit Decoration for his Exceptional Meritorious Conduct in Performance of Outstanding Services and Achievements during the 1962 Cuban missile crisis. He also coordinated the logistics for the first airbase in Vietnam. While stationed at the Pentagon in Washington, D.C., Armie retired from the U.S. Air Force in 1968 as a full colonel.
Following his retirement, he accepted a position with Sperry Rand, in Long Island, N.Y. After two years, he decided to return to Newport News to complete his education at Christopher Newport College, becoming a computer programmer in the early days of main frame computers. Upon graduation, he took a position with Leiber America, a construction equipment manufacturing company, where he served as the manager of the Data Processing Center. At the age of 62 he fully retired and enjoyed a life of sailing the Chesapeake Bay. He enjoyed the freedom of the water and a rich and full life.
At the young age of 79, Armie started socially seeing longtime friend, Alene McGoldrick and they eventually married in 2000. They spent the next eight years traveling, sailing, and enjoying life together before Alene passed away in 2008.
Armie Armstrong was an amazing person, a gentle, kind, caring man, and a wonderful father, husband, grandfather and friend. He contributed so much in life with his many talents; he loved to fly and loved to sail, whether on the sea or in the air. His strong and determined spirit will always be with his family and loved ones, as he embarked on his last sail to the heavens.
The family wishes expressions of sympathy to take the form of contributions to Habitat for Humanity, (serving Hampton, James City Co., Newport News, Poquoson, Williamsburg, and York Co.), P.O. Box 1443, Newport News, VA 23601, 757-596-5553, www.habitat.pgw.org, [email protected].
A funeral service will be conducted at 2:30 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 17, 2012, at R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home in Hampton. Immediately following the services, the family will receive friends until 4:30 p.m. Interment will be in Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.
Arrangements are by R. Hayden Smith Funeral Home, 245 S. Armistead Ave., in Hampton, 757-723-3191. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

Published by Daily Press from Nov. 15 to Nov. 17, 2012.
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Our sympathy goes out to his family. He will be missed.
Walt and Linda Serwatka

November 20, 2012

We will miss Army greatly. He was a great man. We always enjoyed hearing his great stories.

Scott and Pam Roberts

November 17, 2012

Dear Suzanne, I realize that we have not seen each other in many years but I was saddened to read of the passing of your father. My father left us 2 years ago so I know some of the things you may be feeling. As I do, take comfort in the many years of memories and will live in both your heart and mind. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pam Smith Szynal

November 16, 2012

I wish to express my sorrow for your loss to Suzanne, Paige and Blair. Your father and grandfather was my treasured friend for 50 years. We enjoyed many days and nights sailing together on the Chesapeake Bay, trips to Martha's Vineyard, Nova Scotia and Bermuda. The later trips were aboard the "Escape".
He taught me many things and was a quintessential leader. He will be sorely missed by me but his memory lives on.

Ron Nackman

November 15, 2012

We are saddened to hear of Armie's passing. He was delight to see at yacht club meetings and always a formidable racing competitor out on the water.

Mike & Jen Schripsema

November 15, 2012

I wish to extend to you and to members of your family my deepest sympathy on your loss. May the Lord's loving promises comfort you and give you strength as you walk through this difficult time. On behalf of a grateful nation and an expression of appreciation for the honorable and faithful service rendered by your loved one, if you wish for a personalized memorial card mailed to you with history of playing of taps, 21 gun salutes, meaning of each fold of the flag as a keepsake, please send your request to:
Chaplain Richard Reuer, Honoring Those Who Served Ministry
1206 6th St SW
Minot, ND 58701
Or click on “CONTACT ME” to email me your mailing address.

This service is free to all veteran families. I wish to thank you for your serving from one veteran to another – Thanks!

Chaplain Richard Reuer

November 15, 2012

Armie was a true hero and a legend at our local yacht club. We will miss him.

Rick Rose

November 15, 2012

This is the man who instilled in me a passion for sailing...and living...he will be missed

Tom Connors

November 15, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. It was always a pleasure to see your dad when he would come in for his routine care. He was always so cheerful and sweet. He will truly be missed by us. God bless you and your family.

November 15, 2012

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