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Frank Pagano Obituary

SARASOTA, Fla. - Cmdr. Frank P. Pagano Jr., U.S. Navy (retired), 66, of Sarasota, Fla., formerly of Hampton, Va., died March 7, 2008, and will be buried with full military honors at Arlington National Cemetery on June 11.
Survivors include his loving wife of 46 years, Carol; his son, Frank III of Hayes, Va.; daughter, Kathy, and son-in-law, Chad Balch, of San Francisco, Calif.; daughter, Tara, and son-in-law, Kevin Carroll, of Lithia, Fla.; brother, Filippo of New Bern, N.C.; and four grandchildren, Sean, Elana, Laela and Connor, the pride of his life.
Frank lived his life with integrity, strength and honor. He was a great inspiration to his children and grandchildren, and will continue to live in the hearts of all who loved him.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to TideWell Hospice and Palliative Care, 5955 Rand Blvd., Sarasota, FL 34238.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Press on Mar. 15, 2008.

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Rose Costango

March 6, 2024

It matters not how many years you are gone, my love for you and memories of how you touched our lives is eternal. Rest in peace always.

Rose Costango

March 7, 2020

Our last conversation was so precious I will never forget it nor him. He was the salt of the earth.

Filippo Pagano

March 6, 2019

Carol it has been 11 long years since my brother Frank has passed. I miss him every day and think of him offering up prayers. Love Fil.

Tara and Arthur Leopold

April 4, 2008

Dear Carol,
We send our heartfelt sympathy to you, Frankie, Kathy and Tara and their families and also to Frank’s brother Filippo and the rest of your close family for the great loss you suffer.

Although it’s just four years that we know Frank (since moving to Florida), it seems like he’s always been part of our lives because he had the gift of making one feel so comfortable from the first time meeting him. We’re fortunate to have known him and his likable and generous ways and his great gift of conversation.

Carol, you and I go back before “DCE forever” days, and then by chance we all meet again after decades. As I read the dedications to Frank I was touched by the beautiful sentiments written; to which we add our prayers to you and all your family that you will be watched over and comforted in your grief.
With Love,

Jill Oliver

March 22, 2008

Dear Carol
Mark and I have many happy memories of chatting with you and Frank on the pool deck at Tangerine Bay.You and your family have our sympathy and best wishes.

Jed and Jeanne Diachun

March 21, 2008

Dear Carol,
We were so blessed to have known Frank and he will be greatly missed.He was a wonderful storyteller with a great sense of humor.

Veronica Pagano

March 19, 2008

To My Cousin Frankie's Family, Carol and Children and Grandchildren and Brother Filippo. I am so sorry at the passing of Frank.

Frankie was full of love and life!When he joined the Navy after Fairleigh Dickinson, his Dad was sad, and said I will never see my son again! Well when he adjusted, he was so happy telling everyone where Frank was. He is in Iceland, He is in Sinapore. He was so excited for Frank.

He was crushed by the passing of his Mom and was very good and caring toward his Dad and took care of him as he aged.

He loved visiting his children and grandchildren; he was so proud whenever he spoke of them -he had the biggest smile on his face.

He told me once, there is more of our family on the other side than here, that is so true.

Our grandparents are long gone, our aunts and uncles, my parents, some of our cousins, Alba, Alva Maria, my Dear Brother Ralph, and now you, Frank. You all passed so young.
It's only Filippe, Mary Ann, Michael, Phillip in Lowell, and me left from the original Pagano's but Thank God there are a lot of grandchildren and great grandchildren to carry on.

God Bless You Frank.

Personal Message to Frankie - Remember after the passing of your Dad, I told you your Dad came to me in a vision and I told you his demeanour and what he said, and you responded, yeap, that's my Dad!
Now you are with him and your Mom.

Ronnie (I hope I didn't talk too long.)

Rick Lewis

March 18, 2008

Frank, my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Dad. I didn't know him that well but I could surely see that he was a man of integrity. He fought a good fight - may he be at peace with God in Heaven. You and your family are in my prayers.

Dan Mancini

March 16, 2008

Our Deepest sympethy for your loss.
We will miss him and he will alway be
in our hearts. Dan and Stacie Mancini

Filippo Pagano

March 15, 2008

For my loving and dear brother may you be at peace in heaven.
Filippo

Susan and Ralph Lamberti

March 15, 2008

We are so sorry about Frank's passing. He lived a courageous and love-filled life and we know he will be truly missed.

Lucy and Skip Sceery

March 15, 2008

With love,
Lucy and Skip

paul pagano

March 15, 2008

my uncle frank,
sherie&my self will miss you.we are glad we had time to spend with you &aunt carol the past few month.you are in our hearts.there is no more suffering any more.
love
paul&sherie

Rose Costango

March 15, 2008

Rest in Peace now and know you DID do everything right. I'll miss you dearly.

Brian & Kristi Cieslak

March 15, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss and will miss uncle Frank!

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