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Clay Wall McInnis, III
AGE: 38 • Hockessin
Clay Wall "Bo" McInnis, III, 38, of Hockessin, DE died on March 29th, 2016. Born on October 26, 1977 in Wilmington, DE, Clay was the son of the late Clay Wall McInnis, Jr. and the late Judy Bredeson McInnis.
From a young age, Clay was passionate about music. His mother initially taught him the piano keyboard on her accordion. Her musical talents as well as his father's natural ear for music inspired Clay to take up the saxophone, and in middle and high school, he began playing other instruments, like the guitar and drums. Clay appreciated all genres. In college and after, he cherished the time he spent with friends during their "jam sessions." While he also enjoyed riding his motorcycle and collecting classic VW buses and trucks, music was Clay's life.
Clay's friends and family remember him as a smart, kind, and loving person who had a generous spirit. His nieces adored him.
Clay is survived by his siblings Meghan McInnis-Dominguez and Ian McInnis, his brother-in-law Diego Dominguez, Ian's partner Charlynn Evans and her son Gavin, and his nieces Leila and Violeta Dominguez and Gylliana and Gabrielle McInnis.
A family-coordinated celebration of life will be held privately. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance: http://www.dbsalliance.org. To send condolences please visit www.rtfoard.com.
R.T. Foard & Jones
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(302) 731-4627
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Clay became a part of our family many years ago, and it's true, he always had a smile on his face. He was gentle, kind, so intelligent, had a great wry sense of humor. Even though Clay never 'officially' became a part of our family, we always felt he was one of us...aways welcome. I haven't seen Clay in many years, though I always looked for him...I wish I had looked harder now. I have to believe I know where he is now; he is free and at peace.
Karen Webster
Friend
April 17, 2016
Looking back, all of my fondest High School memories included Clay. Sneaking out of his parents house and skateboarding into Newark, going to live music events, frisbee golf sessions, and just cruising around in his red VW bus singing our favorite songs at the top of our lungs. He was like a brother to me. Back then, we had a bond that included nicknames and sayings that only him and I understood and I can still here him saying them in my mind and will always hold those in my heart. I will miss you dearly old friend. Love Gilberta
Brian Gibson
April 15, 2016
My deepest condolences to the McInnis family and to all who knew Clay. He'll be missed by so many. I only knew Clay in the past few years through my children and their friends, but I always enjoyed seeing him and speaking to him about his next venture. I especially recall Clay with his dog, Gonzo, and their special bond. To his family and all who knew him, cherish your memories and stay strong.
Janet Parrack
April 14, 2016
I am very sorry to hear of Clay's passing. We worked together a few years ago and I remember some great conversations with him about music, life, etc. He always had a smile on his face and was just an all around good guy to be around. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and close friends at this difficult time.
John Quinn
April 11, 2016
I remember the first time I met Clay more than ten years ago, I said to myself "who is that guy with those beautiful eyes?" More beautiful still though was his quiet and unassuming nature. And while the world was a better place with you in it, my friend, may your spirit now fly free from the earthly burdens of this world. Always in our memories and in our hearts....Gwen Parrack
Gwen Parrack
Friend
April 11, 2016
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