Gerald Neal Totten
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Totten, Gerald Neal "Jerry"

Churchville: Suddenly at the age of 50, on February 4, 2014. Survived by the only love of his life, Kimberly; parents Beverly & Neal Totten; sister, Cheryl; nephew, Andrew; many aunts, uncles, cousins & friends. Jerry was a graduate of Churchville-Chili High School & Rochester Institute of Technology. He worked as a Research Chemist at Bausch & Lomb, owner of Metallion Industries & partner of the Totten Tree Farm in Churchville. Jerry's hobby was chemistry and he was very mechanically gifted. His infectious laugh and great humor touched many people's lives. To light a candle of remembrance, visit

Jerry's visitation will be held 4-8 PM on Monday at the funeral home, 21 South Main St in Churchville. His funeral service will be celebrated 11 AM on Tuesday at the Union Congregational United Church of Christ, 14 North Main St. in Churchville. Interment Creekside Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Churchville Volunteer Ambulance or Churchville Fire Department in Jerry's memory.

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Published in Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Feb. 9, 2014.
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February 20, 2014
Neil, I was very sorry to hear about the loss of your son, all the way down here in Virginia. I know through our many conversations in the antique shop, that he meant the world to you. I miss coming in to see you since I left Hilton for the south. My condolences to you and Mrs. Totten.
Matt Henchen
February 13, 2014
I worked with Gerald at Bausch and Lomb. I am so sorry for your loss, he was such a wonderful person. We worked together on some projects and one thing I will always remember about him is his sence of humor and his laugh. I am sorry I didn't find out until today of his passing. God bless Gerald and he told me so many wonderful stories about his Christmas tree business with his Dad.
Darlene Cassidy
Darlene Cassidy
February 12, 2014
neal, bev, and family...we send our condolences. it is tragic to lose a child at any age. though we do buisness together. we knew we had to convey our thoughts. god speed. john mccormick, also: mike mccormick and pat shanley.
February 11, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. Jerry was like another brother to me. He made my sister so happy. He will remain in our thoughts and lives forever.
sue & bill wood
February 11, 2014
Our prayers are with your family at this time for the loss of your son. GOD has a plan for all of us and we are sure he is in a greater place.
Blessings to you all,

Dave & Debbie Fox
Alpharetta, GA
February 10, 2014
Our Condolences to Kim, Neil and Beverly and all family members. He was taken way too young in life! May he Rest In Piece!
Thomas Barnes
February 10, 2014
I worked with Jerry many years ago. He was a unique guy, that always had me laughing with his funny stories and that laugh. He will be greatly missed my many people. Im so sorry to hear of his passing.
Rachel Castelletti-Gardner
February 10, 2014
Kim, Bev, Neal, Cherie and Andrew - May each of you feel the healing begin and continue in your hearts as you mourn together and along. May God's love give you strength!
Konrad Emmert
February 9, 2014
Bev, i am so terribly sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. Kathleen vendor22.
February 9, 2014
Our prayers are with you all!! Godbless!
Ross Sceusa
February 9, 2014
Our prayers are with Kim and Mr. & Mrs. Totten and family. Gerry was such a wonderful, caring person who would do anything for his friends and family. He will be missed so much.
Mary Ellen, Phil & Nick Gardone
February 9, 2014
We will Miss Jerry..... He was genuine, kind, and caring... He lit up the room, and had a great sense humor...
Our thoughts and prayers are with Kim & the Totten Family.....
Scott & Kathy Meyers
February 9, 2014
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Gary Hazell
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