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Thomas Clark Stokes

1935 - 2020

Thomas Clark Stokes obituary, 1935-2020, Denver, CO

Thomas Stokes Obituary

Stokes, Thomas Clark
1935 - 2020

Tom Stokes, a long-standing Denver business and civic leader, died on Oct. 20. Stokes was born in Ames, Iowa, to Eva (Clark) and Earnest Stokes, and grew up in Omaha, NE. He graduated from University of Colorado with a degree in Business and Finance in 1956.

He spent 36 years working in commercial banking, first for United Bank, and then Central Banks of Colorado. He went on to serve as executive director of Gates Family Foundation, and then as president of Gates Capital Management, LLC, a private investment company.

Throughout his career, he invested time and expertise in his community. He served on a number of community boards and was an officer of several organizations, including the Metropolitan YMCA, University of Northern Colorado, Downtown Denver Partnership, Clayton Early Learning, Colorado Conservation Trust, the Gates Family Foundation, the Public Education & Business Coalition, and Denver Urban Renewal Authority. He was an active member of the Colorado Forum, and served as a Director of Colorado Public Radio. He also served on the board of directors of First National Bank of Colorado and then First National Bank of Omaha.

Stokes' contributions have had a lasting impact in Denver and in Colorado, from guiding investments in education and conservation to engaging with other business and civic leaders in long-range planning and economic development for Denver's and Colorado's future. Perhaps his most enduring impact was as a mentor and advisor to those who worked for and alongside him. He enjoyed these relationships immensely.

He is survived by his wife Kathy Stokes, his daughter Beckett Stokes and son-in-law Andrew Seelaus, and his daughter Sarah Stokes Alexander and son-in-law Nick Alexander. He had four adoring grandchildren, Eleanor and Henry Seelaus and Katie and Molly Alexander.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Clayton Early Learning, 3801 Martin Luther King Blvd, Denver, CO 80205, www.claytonearlylearning.org.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Denver Post on Oct. 30, 2020.

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Louisa Smith

November 30, 2020

Thomas was my first cousin. His father and mine were identical twins. I've often wondered where he was. So sorry to be so late. I'm Louisa Ann Stokes Smith, a retired English professor at Minnesota State University, Mankato. I have pictures of the two of us together when he was about fifteen.

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Sarita Behr

November 2, 2020

Tom was an awesome, great man. My thoughts are with Kathy and family.
I truly enjoyed my association with him through our banking days. There is no doubt the family has many warm memories and they will help each of you through this loss. God bless each of you.

David Bailey

November 1, 2020

A mentor when I was a teller at the Denver U.S.National bank. Later a great leader for me and others at United Bank.

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