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for Ty Nelowet
March 10, 2010
I still have no words. I miss your son, brother, and my cousin. The hurt is there and the fact is I am still in disbelief. I cannot imagine where you all are in this, maybe my words help in some way. It is selfish to express my need for this pain to subside, I am flawed as we all are, but Ty is now able to see our "true perfection" and love us as much as we loved him. I miss you Ty and always will. Know that I miss all of you , and love you very much, my name is Shawn and I am truly sorry for your loss.
Andy Chrysler
December 8, 2009
I played volleyball with Ty for a few years, and just heard of his passing. I had tried to look him up a few times over the years since, and never found him. The most recent being just a week or so ago on Facebook!
I remember meeting him for the 1st time at the Motherlode tournament (Aspen) when he was gathering people to form a new indoor team. He got a couple here, a couple there, and we formed a team and had a lot of fun. He started it, made us all feel like old friends, got sponsors, and did most of the legwork.
I am very sorry for your loss.
Lori (Nadler) Siegel
November 22, 2009
I went to Emory with Ty and remember his wit, intelligence, and broad smile. Ty made everyone feel like a friend. I was a teen counselor for a touring camp that stopped in Denver just after our graduation in 1985. Ty invited me to his home where I got to meet his sweet mom and his dog, Sabra. I extend my deepest condolences to his family and friends.
Johnny & Kim Chapman
July 30, 2009
My wife and I only heard of Ty's passing last night. He was the only waiter I had ever had at Ya Ya's. I will never forget the first time he waited on us... I asked for a wine suggestions after a bit of joking around. He recommended one of his favorites, but did not return to the table. The manager showed up to apologize as the recommended vintage was no longer in stock. I told him he'd better send Ty back to the table... When the embarrassed Ty returned, we had a wonderully joking exchange... thus began a wonderful friendship. My wife and I have always looked forward to Ya Ya's because of Ty. He made every experience there a special one. He took the time to show us his wonderful artistic work still on display in the restaurant. We missed him last night. We will miss and remember him forever.
Peter Willey
June 15, 2009
In an age where social media gives you the chance to catch up with people who had an impact in your life, there may be nothing quite so shocking to find that a friend you hope to catch up with again is no longer with us.
I want to wish his family my sincerest condolences, I know how much he loved and respected you all. I never had the pleasure of meeting you all but he talked of you all often.
So much has been said here of his kindness and generosity which I would echo in remembrance, but it was his unique style and grace that makes him most memorable to me. He had such a charismatic presence that all who met him remembered him and succumbed to his charm instantly.
I always thought we would catch up again someday and laugh about the crazy times of our youth. I am sorry that cannot happen now and I will miss him much.
Chris McEntee
March 30, 2009
We met Ty at Yia Yia's quite a few years ago and we become regulars and sat specifically in his section while dining.
As we went to dine there Saturday night we learned of Ty's passing. We skipped going there because we were so shocked and upset that Ty was gone.
Ty was a person who always made us feel like we were the most important people at that moment in time.
We have a special needs son and everytime we took him in there he treated him with extra mac and cheese and smiles.
I will never forget when he attended the Obama rally downtown this fall and he was proudly wearing his button at the restaurant.
Ty brought a special charisma and attitude to life that we loved.
We are so sorry we missed his graveside to tell you what a great son you had.
He will be deeply miss. It will be a long time before we can go back to Yia Yia's and also before we can tell our son.
Ty was a special person and we were blessed to have known him.
(I remember one time he told us the dinner he never missed at his Mom's was Thanksgiving.:)
chris dreiling
March 29, 2009
Ty was a person I will never forget..I remember working on his car once, and having tons of laughs doing it...he always had a positive outlook on everything...I would complain...and he would always tell me "well..it could be like this..." He is a part of the "family" I know, and will always know, and is dearly missed!!! here's one more "smoke" for you!!!!!!!!
Paul Lea, Jr.
March 20, 2009
Ty Nelowet was a dear fraternity brother of mine and was a great asset both to the fraternity and to Emory University. He was a generous spirited guy with a good sense of humor and lust for life and friendship.
My favorite memory of Ty was the 30 hours I spent with him, and fellow brothers, on the road trip we took out to his parents’ condominium in Vail....he generously offered and we foolishly accepted. It wasn't the fifteen hour drive from Atlanta to Vail that was so bad...it was having rental car "blow up" (I didn't know you could put a piston through the engine block (literally) and then having the rental car company leave us stranded in Kansas. Needless to say, we finally arrived in Vail and I will never forget how Ty’s father Don worked the crowd of young ladies on our behalf nor will I forget that one of our fraternity brothers presented his mom with the mystery underwear that none would claim. I still have the photo of the very perplexed, and somewhat disgusted, expression on Beth Nelowet face.
Kansas was not done with us yet.....on the return trip, we got "snowed in" and they closed I-70 (near where we had abandoned the detonated car). This was really the last straw for most of us but Ty ...patiently working the crowd for information.... found a truck driver, who informed us that the road was cleared just 15 miles to the south. Believe it or not, we enjoyed cramming all four of us in the four seat subcompact car because now we understood that we might actually get home in time for classes. Sure enough, the weather and the road cleared 15 miles south of the interstate, never mind that we awoke at 4 o’clock in the morning to Don Gasgarth "wind drifting" behind an 18 wheeler at 90MPH in the pitch black blinding rainstorm (that had been a snowstorm) heading east on I-20 somewhere near Tupelo, MS.... Clearly, Ty had a lust for life and a spring in his step when there was fun.
Over the years, I was fortunate enough to meet the entire family and have stayed in contact with them. I know their loss is greater than I can imagine, but I hope this story helps. While Ty will be sadly missed by all of us, we each have a thousand stories of his generous personality and obviously fine up bringing at the hands of Don and Beth Nelowet.
Eternally Fraternal,
Paul A. Lea, Jr. ESQ
March 20, 2009
Dear Don and Beth:(and Lisa and Scott) You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Please know that I am with you in spirit as we all mourn the loss of your wonderful son and brother, Ty. I pray that God will give you strength, courage and also awareness of the support that is there for you from everyone who knew and loved Ty. Please know that we all love you, as well. Love, Judy Jacobson
Marc Fernandez
March 19, 2009
To the Nelowet family:
My wife Heather and I were good friends with Ty from Emory. He was Heather's fraternity-"big brother" in Chi Phi, and as such she has nothing but the fondest of memories from those times. As a new "litle sister" at Chi Phi, Heather was at first shy, nervous, and somewhat reserved...Ty's outgoing personality, kindness, and funloving nature quickly helped Heather merge into the fraternal spirit. As for my feelings for, and memories of, Ty, I find it virtually impossible to convey, with any accuracy, the brotherhood we had...and the sadness I have, for your loss. We used to say, "fraternally-eternally," and for me, the truth in this old Chi Phi cliche is now profound and clear. Both Heather and I will miss Ty deeply, and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marge Nelowet
March 19, 2009
Dear Don and Beth,
Al and I can't stop thinking about you. Again, we would like to extend our deepest sympathy to you, Lisa and Scott. We love you all. We don't say that often enough, but please know that our words are sincere.
Michelle Webster
March 19, 2009
Ty had the ability to put a smile on your face, to show you the bright side of any situation, say the kind words when you needed them, and to continue on when times were not as good as they appeared.
This tragedy of the loss of a friend, a family member and a great poker player will not be forgotten. My condolences to Don, Beth, Lisa, and Scott and to everyone Ty touched. You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
kathy hessler
March 19, 2009
Dear Beth & Don:
Just wanted to share with you how wonderful it was to have Ty as my friend. I knew Ty well we playded poker together mostley on Wednesday nights for many years he was so very sweet and I loved him. We will miss him so much. How proud you must be to have shared your life with him. God Bless you both
Gregg Russell
March 18, 2009
To the Nelowet family,
I am very sorry for the loss of your son / brother Ty. He was my fraternity brother at Emory and my roommate at the Chi Phi house. I had literally started attempting to track him down in preparation for a trip to Colorado this summer with my kids and am saddened to realize I should have started my search sooner.
I will always remember Ty for being quick witted, free spirited, original, and loyal. He had a tremendous appreciation for music and creative thinking and was very proud of his family in Colorado. I prefer to remember the happy and goofy things that Ty did - his frequent use of the word "hot" and "fabulous", his nickname on the back of his football jersey, the fact that he was listening to U2 before anyone ever realized it wasn't an airplane, the quick smile, the boundless energy, and his love of life.
I am sad for the loss of Ty. I hope all of you have happy memories of your son / brother and have wonderful stories with which to sustain yourselves for the rest of your respective journeys. It will be a longer journey without Ty.
Selcuk Tombul
March 18, 2009
Ty was a fraternity brother of mine at Emory University and we graduated in the same class. I'll never forget meeting him that first week of school. He had that great unforgettable smile (and a big cowboy hat), but most importantly an obviously friendly and outgoing personna (it seemed that everyone already knew him) that immediately energized everyone around him. We remained friends through school and I'll always remember his family's generosity and friendship that helped me, Ty and several other fraternity brothers enjoy a wonderful Spring Break ski vacation at Vail. What an awesome time! Ty also struck fear into opposing quarterbacks as a devastating pass rusher on our fraternity CHAMPIONSHIP football team. The guy will always be remembered as a true friend, outstanding person, and will surely be missed. Best wishes to the Nelowet family in their time of grief.
March 18, 2009
To Don and Beth-
A voice from the past, I know, but one which remembers with fondness the boy we knew as Todd. Eric and I remember the swim team trips that I chaperoned, and the handsome, funny kid that Ty was. We were shocked to hear of his death--it is way too young for him to go. God bless you and your family and give you peace.
Lois Vitcenda, Eric Vitcenda Centennial, Co
Jeff Gaynor
March 18, 2009
I want to thank all of you for your kind written words about my nephew Ty. He certainly was much, much more than the defensive myopic view that he should be remembered as just a handsome hard worker.
Kind, gentle, giving, upbeat, good person, caring, proud, quick to smile, booming laugh, witty, thoughtful, open, artistic, concerned about others, love of life, rare qualities, will be missed, humility, warm, strong, someone you like and remember.
Those are the words I will remember about Ty especially for me his thoughtful smile and laugh and active gentle and kind concern for others.
He was quietly special.
Jeff Gaynor, uncle
Jennifer Blair
March 17, 2009
I worked with Ty for a short time at Yia Yia's, but the impact he had on me and my life will never be forgotten. No matter what Ty was going through, he always made it a point to show care and concern to those around him. His booming laughter, quick-witted responses, and generous spirit will be missed. I wish you all my best through this difficult time. The world was absolutely a better place with Ty in it!
Rebecca Aparicio Martinez
March 17, 2009
To the Nelowet family, I wanted you to know how much Ty was adored and will be missed by those he worked with, and how very sorry I am for your family's loss. I will miss his hugs, and gentle, witty sense of humor. He was always so warm and kind, remembering the smallest details. I think I told him my baby boy's due date one time, and he remembered it throughout my pregnancy, checking up on me, checking up on the baby...he was a master of mindful attention - a very rare quality. I will miss him very much.
Nicole Warren
March 17, 2009
To the Nelowet family,
I worked with Ty at Yia Yias for about 9 years and am deeply saddened by this loss. We will not be the same as a family without him at the restaurant... What a kind, wonderful, quirky man! I will miss him!! I am so sorry for your loss.
Shawn Gaynor
March 16, 2009
"Laughter is good for the soul" - then Ty is the greatest soul out there. There are truly no words that can express this feeling of losing Ty well before his time. He was a wonderful piece of the puzzle. To all my relatives, and everyone Tys' life touched, the passing of such a special person has hurt many hearts on so many levels, that I can only say "I wish for your peace of mind and offer my prayers".
With Love,
Cindy Wells
March 16, 2009
I've known Ty for around ten years or so. I was saddened and shocked to hear of his passing. Thank you to his brother for calling and sharing this information with me. Some of the things I have liked/appreciated about Ty: his sense of humor and the fact that he got mine; his honesty, even when it meant that he might not "look good;" his commitment to his growing process; his humility; that he continued to show up for his life; his love and respect for the little creatures of this world; his perseverance; the willingness to "put himself" out there; how he valued the people in his life and how he did his part to stay in touch with those he cared about. I will miss his presence.
Cindy Wells
Anant
March 16, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Nelowet, Lisa, and Scott and the family,
I am so sorry to hear about Ty's passing. He was always very kind and thoughtful and willing to lend a hand. He was the first true salesperson that I worked with. Many years later, I look back at my start in sales with NBM and realize the lessons that Ty taught me about the art of selling. I will forever be grateful.
Our family's prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
God Bless You
carolee rollins
March 16, 2009
Dear Nelowet family:I knew Ty for almost ten years,I was a customer at Yai Yais and would never think of not having Ty as my server.As a customer for over ten years Ty was like family. He called me and my friends his Aunties, When on vacations we always brought back silver for Ty. Today has been a difficult day for me. My prayers to u\you and your family. Fondly Carolee Rollins, Denver
Kur Zweigart
March 16, 2009
Ty was an amazing person with so much love to give. His heart was BIG and true. I have worked with him for 8 or 9 years and ALWAYS looked forward to seeing him! He is going to be missed beyond words....and Yia Yia's will never be the same.
My heart goes out to his family and friends...so sorry for our loss.
Mike Brown
March 16, 2009
Ty was one of the first friends I met when I moved to Denver and one of the most unique and inspiring people that ever entered my life. So many great memories, Motherlode volleyball trips to Aspen, horseback riding down in Westcliffe, Wild Man weekend at Grand Lake, parties every weekend in Wash Park, dancing at the Deadbeat Club, the list goes on and on. Who could ever forget his front yard garden with hundreds of dinosaurs and tiny figures? Kids would stop to marvel at the site and even leave their own toys as part of the landscape.
Being an out of town orphan, Don and Beth graciously welcomed me into their home for a few Thanksgivings and I always appreciated being around such an interesting and smart family. Scott and Lisa were always there to share stories on their wonderful lives as well.
Ty was a central part of my life for years and I will miss him immensely. God bless you Ty.
PJ Kelly
March 16, 2009
Ty was a fraternity brother of mine at Emory University. Our paths never crossed in the years beyond school,but the other tributes bring to mind the person I remember.."quick to smile," "gentle," personable and upbeat,"...it is easy for me to recall the person that Ty always was..my prayers are with the Nelowet family during this very difficult time....
Scott C
March 16, 2009
I only knew Ty for a couple of years, but he helped me tremendously by sharing his experience, strength and hope with me.
He was truly a good person, always willing to help however he could.
Adrian King
March 16, 2009
My husband and I were Ty's neighbors for a very short time. I also have 3 dogs and Ty and I were trying to get Taboo and the dogs too get along. When he came out to the yard with Taboo he was so friendly and even gave one of my dogs a bone. I hope for Ty's sake and Taboo that one of the family or friends will take Taboo in Ty's memory- because you could see he loved Taboo.
Our deepest deepest sympathy to the family and again only knowing him a short time, I could see he was a very kind soul and wish he would of been around longer to enjoy his new surroundings and get to know him better.
Michael Joslin
March 16, 2009
"Ty was a neighbor of mine near Washington Park! And in this short time I had the priveledge of getting to know him! He was always willing to help a friend out and cared for those around him. I remember Ty inviting my roommates and I to social. It was a blast! We hung out, talked, laughed and played texas hold'em throughout the day! I offer my condolences and prayers to Ty, his family(Taboo included), and his friends! He will be remembered!
Connie (Heltmach) Plumleigh
March 16, 2009
Dear Beth, Don, Lisa and Scott and families,
Our deepest sympathies are with the entire Nelowet family. Our families grew up together swimming and running around the neighborhood together. We all have such fond memories of great times shared together. Our prayers are with all of you.
With sincere condolences,
Connie (Heltmach) and Marty Plumleigh and Family, John and Lucy Heltmach, Lorie (Heltmach) Whalen, Julie (Heltmach) and Dennis Lacerte and Family
nancy benamati
March 16, 2009
My deepest sympathy. I always enjoyed the time spent with him. He was always so kind and fun to be around. My prayers are with you.
Jeff gaynor
March 16, 2009
Speaking for my late parents (Ty's grandparents) and my family, we will all miss Ty. He was not just a good salesmen, handsome and a hard worker. Ty was much, much more. When Ty informed us that he had chosen to live his own personal lifestyle and asked what we thought, we responded that if he was happy that was all that mattered and he would always have our unconditional support. I will remember Ty as a gentle, quick to smile and laugh, thoughtful, gentle and kind artistic person. Ty, Lisa and Scott were their own united group. I am sorry for their loss of one of the three amigos.
Uncle Jeff, Shawn, Andreas and Gudrun Gaynor.
John Bortins
March 16, 2009
My deepest condolences to Beth, Don and all the family. I remember Ty -- personable and upbeat -- a treasure now in our memories.
Gerry Schechter
March 15, 2009
Words cannot describe my sadness about this tragedy. Ty will certainly be missed by all his friends and family and my prayers are with you.
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