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Douglas Scott Barney II

1971 - 2016

Douglas Scott Barney II obituary, 1971-2016, Salt Lake City, UT

Douglas Barney Obituary

Douglas S. Barney II
June 3, 1971 - January 17, 2016
Officer Douglas Barney, 44, was killed in the line of duty on Sunday, January 17, 2016, while trying to question a man who seemingly had done nothing more than leave the scene of a traffic accident. An 18 year veteran police officer, Doug loved law enforcement and interacting with the community. Doug was perfectly suited to law enforcement, never able to sit perfectly still, always eager for something exciting, and relating to other people in a down-to-earth, sincere way.
Doug was born June 3, 1971 on a military base in Taiwan to Douglas Scott and Darlene Heinz Barney.
Doug was raised in Anaheim, California, and worked at Disneyland as one of his first jobs. He attended Clara Barton Elementary School and Loara High School. He played water polo and was on the high school swim team. Just before his senior year, his family moved to Orem, Utah where Doug graduated from Orem High School. He loved the move to Utah and being able to ride dirt bikes daily in the hills behind his family home. After graduation Doug worked a series of jobs, mostly in the auto mechanics field like his father. He loved working on cars and raced his cars a couple of times at the old Bonneville Raceway.
Doug and his wife, Erika, grew up near each other in Anaheim and he liked to tell stories of how he had always had a crush on her. When Erika moved to Utah to attend BYU they continued their friendship and he tried his hardest to get her to commit to dating him (she had a habit of inviting her roommates along when he asked her out for pie.) In 1995 he showed up to her apartment unexpectedly and asked her to marry him. He asked again every day for several months until she finally accepted. Doug married Erika Gilroy on February 17, 1996 in his family home in Orem. Their marriage was later solemnized in the Jordan River Temple. Doug passed away one month before their 20th wedding anniversary.
After their wedding Doug told Erika that although he loved working on cars, it was a bit too lonely of a type of work for him. He didn't like being underneath the cars by himself all day long and would tend to move around looking for conversations with other mechanics. He admitted to his wife that he had always wanted to be a police officer and, with her blessing, began applying with different agencies. Doug was hired as a corrections officer with the Salt Lake County Sheriff's Office in December of 1998 and one year later was hired as a patrol officer. He worked primarily in Kearns and Magna, Taylorsville City, and Holladay City during his career. Doug earned a bachelor's degree from the University of Utah by taking two classes a semester while working full time to support his family. His degree was in Sociology with a Criminal Justice certificate.
Doug is survived by his wife, Erika, their three children, Matilda 18 (Matti), Meredith 16 (Merri), and Jacob 13 (Jack). He is also survived by his mother, Darlene, and his three siblings and their spouses, Tammy (Jason), Russell (Heather), and Brian (Jennifer). He was preceded in death by his father, Douglas Scott Barney. Between Doug's and Erika's siblings there are 23 nieces and nephews who love Doug, and each are pretty sure they are his favorite. Doug had a special way of relating to children and loved to hold them, tickle them, and incorrectly guess their age. His church family knew it was his habit to come to church and look around for someone with a new baby to sit near, with the hope that the baby would get fussy and they would let him hold it.
Doug was a devoted husband and father who loved spending time with his family and talking about them when he couldn't be with them. He loved teaching his kids how to shoot guns, appreciate cars, and the basic approach to a few defensive control techniques. He loved music and listened to every conceivable type of music. For years he kept a cassette tape keyed up in his patrol car to Kenny Rogers' Long Arm of the Law, which he would sing loudly when a prisoner seemed especially sulky on the way to jail. The end result was usually that they would come into the jail laughing together.
Doug was well known for his boisterous personality. He was larger than life in every way. He was very funny and was often able to diffuse a tense situation with a perfectly timed joke. It is very hard for a criminal to consider violence while laughing. Doug's law enforcement brothers remember him for his signature greeting of, "hey, brotha!" or "hey, sista!", and an almost knocking-the-wind-out pat on the back.
Doug struggled with bladder cancer and the side effects of treatments and surgeries for many years. He was frustrated by the time it took him away from work and from his family, but had an amazing ability to stay positive and upbeat and even lighthearted about the challenges. His only desire, always, was to be able to get back to work and to take care of his family. Doug will be forever missed.
The family would like to thank the community, both locally and nationally, for the outpouring of love that has been given this week.
Services will be held at the Maverik Center, 3200 Decker Lake Drive, West Valley City, Utah on Monday, January 25, 2016 at 11:00 a.m. A public viewing will be held at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Stake Center at 2811 S 6400 W on Sunday, January 24 from 5:00 - 9:00 p.m. Interment will be at the Orem City Cemetery.

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Published by Deseret News on Jan. 24, 2016.

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Jodi Conner

July 14, 2016

My deepest sympathies. I just saw a news cast from the funeral on FB. I am so sorry for your loss of such a great man. To his wife and children--May God comfort you and may the memories of your love, joy and laughter forever remain top of mind

Scott Yaniga

July 13, 2016

My deepest condolences to the family of Officer Barney, and to his brothers and sisters in blue. This good man didn't deserve this, but please know how much I appreciate his sacrifice. God rest his soul.

Holladay Resident

February 1, 2016

Thank you for sharing your husband/father with our community. His funeral service was inspirational and moving. Jack, your touching show of love to your father right after the service will long be remembered. Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers. I took my grandchildren out of school to honor Officer Barney during the motorcade on 39th South. I know they will never forget this reverent experience. God bless your family with tender mercies and peace.

Pam Sheppard

January 27, 2016

To the Barney family, I am so sorry for your loss. I watched the beautiful memorial service. The world needs more Doug Barney's. He was truly a hero, both on the force and with his family and community. May all your wonderful memories help you thru this difficult time.

Kent Brewster

January 26, 2016

Doug and Darlene, my heart and love go to you and your family.

January 26, 2016

God Bless you and your family Officer Barney. Thank you for your service.

Sherrie Thomsen

January 26, 2016

Doug Barny, Erika , and Children I so sorry for your loss! I didn't know officer barny,but just watching the funeral on TV I feel like I really do know him in my heart. Erika it takes a special woman to be an officers wife. I want to thank you both and your children for the sacrifices you have made. THANK YOU For MAKING A DIFFERENCE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

January 26, 2016

Some years ago, Officer Barney was working a "Security" shift at the PEHP offices in Salt Lake City. My son came on a particular afternoon to propose to a lovely young lady who worked at PEHP. After calling her to the lobby, my son made the proposal for marriage. However, he was very nervous and just kind of threw a bouquet of flowers and the engagement ring at her. Luckily she did catch them, but then Officer Barney intervened and said. "Now, son, you need to do this properly. Get down on your knees and propose to this beautiful young lady." So that is exactly what he did. She did say "yes," and they were married and now have three beautiful children. But they have never forgotten the advise of Officer Barney. They were saddened to hear of his untimely death. We thank him for his service to family, friends, and the community. We as a family express our deepest sympathies to Officer Barney's lovely wife and beautiful children. May the Lord bless you always!
Brant Family, Farmington UT

T B

January 26, 2016

Dear Sister Barney,
Thank you for sharing your dear husband with us. I watched the funeral on TV and I just want to tell you that I felt the spirit so strong. Even through his death he was able to make it possible for hundreds to be able to hear things about Jesus Christ and about eternal live that we know and appreciate so much, that they have never heard before. I hope some day to be able to meet him. My the Lord bless you and your children as you now face this hard journey without him for a short while.

Heather Anderson

January 26, 2016

My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with your family during this time. May God be with and bless you always, and thank you to your husband and father for his ultimate sacrifice!!

Sue Van Uitert

January 26, 2016

Although we've never met, I want to thank you for a job well done and tell you how much I appreciate your service to our communities. The world is a better place because of you. I send my love and wish for comfort to your family.

January 26, 2016

My thoughts and prayers go out to all your family. God bless you.
Esther Lopez

January 26, 2016

My heart has been with the Barney family since this has happened. Such a good man. I have had his mother Darlene on my mind constantly as she lived near me a few years back. Darlene if you read this know that I love you. such a beautiful tribute was paid to Doug today. my heart & mind are with you your whole family. may the Lord bless you with comfort as you meet the days ahead.
Kay Baker

...an officer and a gentle man.

Doug Skordas

January 25, 2016

Anita

January 25, 2016

I just want to say thank you for your sacrafice and that you seemed to be a very loving happy person and my condolences to your family, they are in my prayers again thank you.

An Gel

January 25, 2016

True heroes never die. They are always with us. Thank you Officer Barney, you are a true hero.

A W

January 25, 2016

Thank you for your selfless service and sacrifice to our communities. May God provide comfort, peace and blessings to your family and your family in blue.

Rest in Peace~

Ramona Rogers

January 25, 2016

I DID NOT KNOW OFFICER BARNEY BUT I WAS IN RESPECT FOR HIM, I WATCHED TEARFULLY THE WHOLE MEMORIAL, WE ALL NEED TO GIVE RESPECT TO ALL MEN OF BLUE. THEY ALL WORK HARD PUTTING THEIR LIVE OUT FOR US EACH HOUR OF EVERY DAY. ONE DAY AT A TIME. MY BEST TO THE FAMILY, AND THE MEN IN BLUE. THANK YOU.

K. Nielsen

January 25, 2016

I want to send my deepest, heartfelt condolences to his family, friends, and fellow law enforcement family. I didn't know Scott Barney personally, however I am the daughter of a police officer. I understand the sacrifies he made for his community but also ALL the emotions that come with a loved one who devoted his life to the safety & security of strangers. My heart breaks for your loss. I know how much his loss will affect the community but no one can understand this new missing part in your heart & soul. I send my prayers for strength, comfort & faith in healing from this horrible loss. I believe we can honor our lost loved ones & continue to love them every single day even if they aren't present here on earth. They will always be by our side; in our hearts.

January 25, 2016

My thoughts and prayers going out to you and your family. May you find comfort in the days ahead knowing that Doug is at peace and that you will see him again. Thank you to you and your family for the sacrifices that you and your family have made to make this world a better place to be.

A grateful citizen.

Kim

January 25, 2016

Wonderful service and tribute to a great man! Even though I didn't know him he obviously made an impact on many lives. Prayers and thoughts to his family. Until you meet again! Families are FOREVER!!!

January 25, 2016

There's a special place in heaven for this officer. Love to his family and all that knew him. Sure wish I did.

January 25, 2016

Doug was larger than life. Always professional, always thoughtful. I will never forget your positive attitude and big smile. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Rest well my friend.

S.M.

Christine

January 25, 2016

Our Sympathy and Prayers to your family.Christine and Family

Jim & Tricia Burnett

January 25, 2016

Thank you for your service and sacrifice, Officer Barney. You touched many lives and leave behind a legacy. There are still those who respect and support law enforcement. May God bless your family and comfort them in your absence.

January 25, 2016

RIP Brother, Thank you for the ultimate sacrifice for all of us to be safe. We love you







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Veniece Lovell

January 25, 2016

Thank you is so little to say for all he gave. Deepest sympathy to his wife and family.
Veniece Lovell

Gail Carpenter

January 25, 2016

I know that Officer Barney will be missed by all his fellow officers. He was/is a friend of my son and I heard nothing but positive remarks about him. He was a light to his fellow officers. God bless his family and help them through this very difficult time.

S. Wills

January 25, 2016

Thank you for your service in Holladay.

We are saddened to lose such a wonderful man as you, Officer Barney. We will miss your public service and appreciate your years of service in our city, even though we did not know you personally. Your goodness is evident.

God bless and comfort your beautiful family always. (Our family will leave a small gift for your family at the Holladay Police office.)

Evette

January 25, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

January 25, 2016

I am truly sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort give you peace and strength during this difficult time. Psalms 29:11

k Tingey

January 24, 2016

I hope that peace surrounds your heart and holds it gently. Please know that there are so many of us who appreciate police officers. And we especially appreciate your beloved Doug.

Carlyn Grossaint

January 24, 2016

Thought not a member of your ward,my daughter was and I was told how wonderful your father was. My prayer is that you find comfort when you seek it and that you have the understanding of the gospel to give you hope and the promise of being together as an eternal family.

The Diamonds

January 24, 2016

To the Barney family-
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please accept the condolences of the Diamond family in Salt Lake City.

January 24, 2016

A hero forever.

Det. S. Arnold

January 24, 2016

God Speed, brotha! You will be missed. Rest easy my friend, we will take it from here.

January 24, 2016

Barney Family, please accept my condolences on the loss of your love one. I'm sure that your community is very appreciative of your family's sacrifice. Know that God is there for you as you go through this difficult time of your lives (Psalms 46:1 - "God is our refuge and strength, A help that is readily found in times of distress."). - AR

Mary Parker

January 24, 2016

Officer Doug Barney I didn't have the pleasure of knowing you, Thank you for your service as a Police Officer. My sincerest sympathy to your family. I know the Lord is watching them. Sincerely,

E J

January 24, 2016

RIP, Officer Barney.

Chad Whiting

January 24, 2016

Rest in peace Doug from a brother in blue here in Colorado.

Jim Linton

January 24, 2016

RIP officer Barney may your family find peace at this difficult time realizing that they will be with you again in eternity God bless and God speed to your family

January 24, 2016

Dear family and friends I am sincerely sorry for the loss of your loved one May you find comfort in knowing that There is a future for those who pass in death Hosea13:14. May the God of comfort be with you during this time of sorrow. L.k.

January 24, 2016

Thank you for your service, Officer Barney. You are a true hero and son of God. Sending prayers to your family, friends and brothers in blue.

Lorie Walters

January 24, 2016

Thank you for giving the ultimate gift of keeping us safe,Rest in peace Officer Barney.My deepest sympathies to your Family and Friends.

January 24, 2016

Thank you for keeping our community safe, for being an amazing role model to our children, and for being the light, and extraordinary example in so many lives. May God hold and keep you,and your friends and family during this difficult time. You leave a legacy for your children that is unsurpassed in love and greatness. May you rest in peace, find joy in your heavenly reunion with loved ones, and watch over those left behind on earth.

Lisa Hale

January 24, 2016

Thank you for protecting our community. May your family find peace and comfort through this difficult time. We are all saddened from this senseless act of violence. God bless.

Irene Hatch

January 24, 2016

There are no words to express our great sorrow for your loss nor is it easy to find words that adequately express our gratitude for your loved one and the officers in all departments that serve and protect all of us. We truly appreciate his (and their) service. Our greatest prayer is that God will bless and comfort your family now and in the years to come until you are once again reunited. Hatch and Hayden families

January 24, 2016

Thank you Doug and family for your service and sacrifice. Truly a hero!

January 24, 2016

May angels surround you as you go through this trial. Thank you for your service to our community Officer Barney.

Jamie Sorensen

January 24, 2016

You will forever be remembered as a HERO. You were such a kind, loving, funny, strong, incredible FRIEND, and will be missed so much! I know you will continue watching over all of us here, and we will make sure your BEAUTIFUL family is protected and loved down here. We all love you and miss you.

SKL

January 24, 2016

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE!!!!!

Richards Family

January 23, 2016

I couldn't have said it better than the Paul Family "Our deepest condolences for a tragic loss of a deputy who willing protected our community from harm. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. We also wish to express our gratitude to all of the brave men and women who put their life on the line to protect us from harm."

Geoff CLARK

January 23, 2016

Rest in Peace friend, your presence will be greatly missed. Heaven has a new angel protecting its streets and they are very lucky it is Doug. To the Barney family we wish you the love and strength of your blue family to help you through this trying time

Paul Family

January 23, 2016

Our deepest condolences for a tragic loss of a deputy who willing protected our community from harm. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family. We also wish to express our gratitude to all of the brave men and women who put their life on the line to protect us from harm.

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