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Edward John Neary III

1964 - 2015

Edward John Neary III obituary, 1964-2015, Walnut Creek, CA

BORN

1964

DIED

2015

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Hull's Walnut Creek Chapel

1139 Saranap Avenue

Walnut Creek, California

Edward Neary Obituary

Edward John Neary III
May 4, 1964 - January 26, 2015
Resident of Pleasant Hill
"Remarkable John Neary" passed away early Monday, January 26th, 2015 at Walnut Creek Kaiser Hospital after a courageous 5-year battle with Renal Cell Carcinoma. He touched so many lives with his kindness, always willing to lend a helping hand, even when he was in grueling pain. His tenacious spirit kept him passionate about life.
Cancer may have dampened his physical capabilities for restoring and driving cars (Boss 302 Mustangs), photographing trains, engineering projects, home remodeling, road trips, traveling with his lovely wife, spending time with his kids, family and friends, working at Dolby, but it never took away his spirit. It challenged him greatly, but he defeated it by not letting cancer break him; instead, he learned to "rise above" by counting his blessings. He used his love for others, faith in God, and his passions to bring out his very essence. He learned to live with cancer; he even saw it as a blessing – the fertilizer that helped to blossom his spiritual roses – the fuel for his Boss 302 horse-powered will, his quirky sense of humor, honesty, integrity, faith, bravery and humanity to the very end...
John was born in Oakland, CA, grew up in Walnut Creek and graduated from Las Lomas High in 1982. He graduated from Cal Poly State University with a BS in Electronic Engineering Technology in 1989. He worked for Dolby Laboratories for 20 yrs where he was Senior Director of Engineering; he was passionate about the products he developed and the people with whom he worked. He continued working at Dolby through his cancer treatments until he was disabled from bone metastases in June, 2014.
As both a Sci-Tech Academy Award and Emmy Award recipient, and – awarded most recently – a US patent for Synchronization in Adaptive Audio, there is still one more award much more important that than any of those that John will be picking up at the pearly gates… the "Remarkable Bravery and Beautiful Human Being Award." Of all people I've ever known, John Neary, you deserve it. You will be greatly missed by all. Your wife, your family, and your many friends will always love you.
John is survived by his wife, Kelly; son, Bryan; daughter, Leeah; mother Roberta; sister Margaret; brother James; niece Meagan; and his in-laws, Terry and Millie Sherman.
A memorial service will be held Sunday, February 22nd at 4pm at the Pleasant Hill Senior Center, 233 Gregory Lane, Pleasant Hill with reception to follow. For more info please visit: http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/thebookofjohn...neary
In lieu of flowers/gifts, the family requests donations be made in John's memory to The Cancer Support Community at: http://cancersupport.net/donate/ or, The Jack and Jill Late Stage Cancer Foundation at: http://jajf.org/donate/index.cfm

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Contra Costa Times on Feb. 12, 2015.

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your #1 wife

January 20, 2024

My EJN, I can't believe it's going to be 9 years in a few days since you left. Still missing you so much all the time and hearing you laugh like it was just yesterday. I wish you were here with me. ILYVVVMA, me

Your #1 Wife

December 31, 2021

Missing you deeply, EJN. Would love to know you´re around me and the kids too... ILYVM, me

your daughter-in-law

December 29, 2021

Thinking of you always. Bryan and I just bought our first house and I can't even begin to tell you how much I wish you were here to celebrate with us. Love and miss you so much.

#1 Wife

May 4, 2020

Happy Birthday, EJN. Missing you every moment of everyday. Getting some Casper doggers for me and our kiddos tonight to celebrate your day. ILYVVVMA. me

Tara Trainor

January 27, 2020

I miss you so very much

Kelly Neary

January 26, 2020

Every moment of every day, I miss you. Ilyvvma, me

Kelly Neary

May 29, 2018

Missing the hell out of you... miss my best friend. The ache in my heart never goes away. ILYVVVVMF

May 4, 2016

Today is your birthday! I miss you everyday! I am very lucky to have had as an brother-in-law. i celebrate the joy, the laughter, the kindness, the ability to fix anything at anytime. Happy birthday, John!

Tara Trainor

May 4, 2016

Missing you on your Birthday

May 4, 2016

Happy Birthday, babe. I love you so much and miss you more than you could ever imagine. Keep sending me the little reminders please. I will never stop looking for the signs... you're always in my heart and in my thoughts. ILYVVVVM, me

@ Dolby HQ

January 27, 2016

Thank you Dolby for honoring EJN

January 27, 2016

Kelly Neary

January 26, 2016

Missing you more than ever on this day. Ilyvm

Holding you... missing this more than I could ever imagine.

December 27, 2015

Missing you so much, Johnny. Thank you for sending Richard my way - I got the job. I'm sure you know this, but Drew is heading your way... be sure to give him a big hug, he is really scared. Let him know I will also be here for Rachel. Thank you for being here with us through the holidays too, I could feel your presence and it made it little easier. I wish you would make it so we could still hold each other though. I deeply miss that. Thank you for holding those painful pieces of my heart together with your joyful reminders. You're still my everything, EJN. ilyvm, me

December 9, 2015

Really missing my father right about now.

August 6, 2015

Still missing all the time. In Vegas now with mom and dad... saw a show last night - you would have loved it, but it wasn't the same for me without you. I don't know if this will ever get any easier, John, but I am getting stronger in other ways... just know that. ILYVM, EJN.

Michele Ternes

May 4, 2015

Happy Birthday to you John, up in heaven. We miss you and think of you often.

Love,
Ed and Michele Ternes

April 1, 2015

I will never forget you. You know that.

All ok in Alaska

March 10, 2015

Timbre and John

March 10, 2015

Alaska Adventure Man

March 10, 2015

Happy in Hawaii

March 10, 2015

The Kind Face of John

March 10, 2015

March 7, 2015

You are in my thoughts and in my heart every moment... missing you so much.

March 1, 2015

Always making us laugh!!!

February 27, 2015

Every single day I think of you. I just cannot believe our lives will be continuing on without you. I am so very sorry for everything you had to go through, but it just showed what a magnificant human being you actually were. Miss you bunches. Our family feels so lost without you.

me, your wife

February 26, 2015

Ilyvm

Taking a break from working on his 280Z, leaning on Jim's hood and laughing. We were always laughing. Miss you John.

Samuel Hinds

February 13, 2015

Samuel Hinds

February 13, 2015

John and I used to watch the movie Arthur until we could say every line from memory. We would laugh until we were sick and then start laughing again. Such an honor to just have known him. Take care John, your pain is over. "Hey John, "Don't ya hate Perry's wife?" (His favorite line.) I'll miss you.

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