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John Carlin Obituary

John V. Carlin Jr.
On Tuesday, April 14, 2020, John Carlin Jr., loving father and grandfather, passed away in Fairfield at the age of 83.
John was born and raised in the Philadelphia, PA area. After graduating from Georgia Tech as a Phi Delta Theta member with a degree in chemical engineering, John served as an officer in the U.S. Navy. He then spent 15 years in Europe working for DuPont and became an avid rugby player with the Brussels British Rugby Club. Upon returning to the US, John settled in Connecticut where he continued his sales career and joined the Connecticut Yankees rugby club.
"Our dad was a devoted father and grandfather, and his family was his pride and joy," his family said. "He was passionate about sports, an avid animal lover and an incredible example of resilience and positivity."
John was faithfully dedicated to serving on numerous Fairfield town and school committees, such as RTM, YMCA, Fairfield Beach Road Association, PTA, and coached youth soccer.
As a passionate congregant at Our Saviors Lutheran Church, John joyfully sang in their choir and took great pride in supporting the church youth group.
Once retired from sales, John became a substitute teacher within the Fairfield school system which brought him immense joy.
John is survived by his children, April Carlin-Neil and John Carlin, III, in addition to his grandchildren Piper, Ever and Matea.
A celebration of John's life will be held at a later date at Our Saviors Lutheran Church, Fairfield, CT.

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Published by Fairfield Citizen on May 18, 2020.

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Evelyn A Kondratuk

May 30, 2020

Dear April & family and John & family,
I am so sorry that you need to go through the pain of losing such a wonderful dad.
We all lived him so much. He gave us so much, humor, knowledge, faith, and generosity. He was and always will be alive in our hearts. He was always honest and helped us all everyday to become better people. Love you all.

Evelyn A Kondratuk

May 30, 2020

Dear April & family and John & family,
I am so sorry about your dad. As much as you lived him we also did. He will be truly missed. He also will be remembered in my families heart. He was a kind, fun, smart man. He left us with many great memories and great times. My live goes out to all of you. Love you! Evelyn

Michael Mooney

May 22, 2020

April, I wanted to pass along my condolences after hearing about the passing of your father. John was an integral part of our rugby program, and was a great coach of many men. He was always smiling and positive in his approach. I loved his sense of humor and thought the world of your dad. He always bragged and thought so fondly of you. May he lay in rest, in peace, and continue to serve as your guardian angel and watch over you and his grandchildren with great pride.

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