Aberdeen — Patrick Stephen Bray of Aberdeen, NC, passed away on March 4, 2019 at the age of 32. He was born in Fayetteville, NC, where he graduated from Saint Patrick School and Terry Sanford High School, lettering in wrestling. Patrick was a member of the Boy Scouts of America, Troop 771. He achieved his Eagle rank upon completion of a Meditation and Prayer Garden, which he designed and constructed, at Saint Patrick Catholic Church. Patrick was a respected Correctional Officer II at Morrison Correctional Institution in Hoffman, NC. He was also a passionate Volunteer Firefighter with Aberdeen Volunteer Fire Dept where he demonstrated his love of helping others. Being a member of the Hash House Harriers, an international running club, gave him great pleasure. Patrick is survived by his beloved daughter, Cameron; his parents Donald and Carole; his sister Kerry (Eric); his brothers Liam (Kelly) and Colin (Emily); six nieces and nephews whom he held dear, and several aunts, uncles, cousins and many friends.
A funeral Mass will be celebrated at Saint Andrew Catholic Church, Apex, NC on Friday, March 22, 2019 at 11 a.m. with a reception to follow.
In lieu of flowers the family asks that you consider memorial donations to: The Correctional Peace Officers Foundation (cpof.org) 800-800-2763.
The Aberdeen Volunteer Firefighter Association, send checks to 800 Holly St, Aberdeen, NC 28315 (910-944-7888).
Cameron Bray's higher education fund (gofundme.com) then search for Cameron Bray.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by City of Oaks Cremation.
Sorry for your loss. May you find peace and hope in these difficult days ahead by trusting in God.
Romans 15:13
May 27, 2019
Don and Famiily,
We are so sad to read of Patrick's passing. May your faith and your memories sustain you at this most difficult time.
Julie and Scott Badger
March 20, 2019
Don, I am truly saddened by the news of the loss of your son. May God give you and your family comfort during this difficult time. If there is anything we can do, please don't hesitate to ask. Our scouting family is always here when you need us.
Deborah Wiggins
March 20, 2019
So sorry for the family's loss. No words can ever express the loss of a loved one. May all of you find comfort and peace in all the loving memories you've shared together. Please be comforted in knowing that God understands your grief and he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:6,7)
John
March 20, 2019
Don and Carole, our hearts are saddened with this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you. Cynthia and Susan/SWMG - your family at Merrill Lynch
Cynthia Lucas
Friend
March 14, 2019
May God bless you all with His love and peace throughout this difficult time. May your memories be a source of comfort and the support of family and friends your strength.
Christine Hatcher
Teacher
March 13, 2019
Carole , Don and the entire Bray family,
No words are sufficient to express our heartache to hear of your loss of Patrick/ your baby. Our best memories are still of the Bray, Schwartzel and Rubiano
Get togethers. Heaven has an another angel looking after all of us. Many prayers- JC, Nancy, Amanda,Lisa, and Maia Rubiano.
March 12, 2019
Cant express how deeply sad I am to hear of Patricks passing. Gods blessings to you all.
Nanette Walsh
March 10, 2019
Carole and Don,
I just heard of Patrick's death from Dominic yesterday. My heartfelt sympathy and for the entire Bray family and prayers for his soul and all of you.
Barbara Amatruda
Barbara Amatruda
Friend
March 10, 2019
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
David & Tiaria Mulbah
Classmate
March 10, 2019
May God be with your family as you say good bye to your love one. Our prayers have gone up for your family.
Peace be with you all
The Mulbahs
Irma Mulbah
Acquaintance
March 10, 2019
Carol and Don, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Frank & Gaye Barragan
The Barragan's
Friend
March 9, 2019
Don and Carol our hearts are breaking for you. We wish to send you love and warmth and comfort. And most of all peace. You and your family are heavy on our hearts as we lift you up to the Lord for His care and comfort in this grievous time.
John and Mendy Coleman
Friend
March 8, 2019
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