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Jeffrey Pauly Obituary

Pauly, Jeffrey S.

Jeffrey S. Pauly went to be with the Lord on Monday Dec. 31, 2012. He was residing at Cedar Springs Nursing Rehab Center in Cedarburg, after suffering a stroke. Prior he was living in Saukville, WI for 30 years. Jeff was born Dec. 26, 1953, in Fond du Lac, to Michael and Ruth Pauly. He graduated from L.P. Goodrich High School, Fond du Lac, then from the National College of Education in Illinois. Jeff was an employee of the U. S. Postal Service as a Rural Letter Carrier in the Mequon and Thiensville area. Jeff also drove school bus for Johnson School Bus Co. of Port Washington. On May 16, 1981, he married Kathleen M. O'Connor at Presentation Church in North Fond du Lac. They moved to Saukville in March of 1982. He was a member of Immaculate Conception Church and served on the Parish Council and sang in the choir. Jeff was very involved in the St. Vincent De Paul Society and for several years and was their County President. He also was Secretary Treasurer for the Rural Letter Carriers Union. Jeff loved to knit, crochet and other crafts. He also enjoyed playing cards and board games with his family. He loved to sing and read to his Grandchildren. His favorite color was purple.

Surviving Jeff are his wife, Kathy; three sons, Eric (Meredith), Matthew (Nichole), Benjamin (Jamie); his grandchildren, Cody, Austin, Xavier, Jaxon, Zildgin, Kayn and Kitana Rose; three sisters, Susan Toth (Steve), Claudia Beaster-Christie, Ann Alonzo (Jim); two brothers, Tom and Andy (Peggy); and nieces and nephews.

Jeff was preceded in death by his parents, Mike and Ruth Pauly and a brother, William. Per Jeff's wishes his body was donated to the Froedert Medical College of Wisconsin. A Memorial Mass to celebrate Jeff's life will be held at Immaculate Conception Church in Saukville, Saturday, Jan. 12, 2013, with visitation at noon and Mass at 1 p.m. The family requests memorials be directed to the Kennedy's Disease Association P.O. Box 1105 Coarsegold, CA 93614 or the Ozaukee Humane Society 630 W. Dekora St. Saukville WI. 53080.

Published by Fond du Lac Reporter on Jan. 6, 2013.
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Jeff,

I first met you in May 1966, when I traveled to FDL meet Susans family. We soon became Brothers in Law, when Susan and I were maried in 1968. Several years later you and your sister Ann, stayed with us in Maryland for the summer. It was during that visit that you learned how to play Chess. You suggested that we begin a "long distance" game by mailing each other our moves. We began with full intentions of completing that game. Through the years as we enjoyed our many visits together, we continued to play that game at a extremely slow pace. Well, we are still playing that game.I truly believe that we will be continued when we meet again in Heaven.

Your loving Brother inb Law.


Steven

jeff pauly

January 15, 2013

Jeff,

I first met you in May 1966, when I traveled to Fond Du Lac to meet Susans family. We soon became Brothers in Law, when Susan abd I maried. Several years later you and your sister Ann, stayed with us for the summer in Maryland. It was during that visit that learned how to play Chess. You suggested that we begin a "long distance" game by mailing each other our moves. We began with full
intentions of completing that game.
Through the years as we enjoyed our many visits together, we progressed atat a slow pace. we are still playing that game and I truly believe that it will be continued when we meet again in Heaven.

Your loving Brother inb Law.


Steven










"long distance"

January 15, 2013

You are resting in peace. God has one of the best with him - know you are loved by all of us!

Claudia

January 13, 2013

When i used to work i Tri par in Saukville, and when you came in, i enjoy talking to about random stuff, you were a good person and will be miss deeply

Tom Glander Jr

January 9, 2013

Dear Kathy and Family, Our hearts go out to all of you. No words are adequate at this time. Let God gently guide you through the next several days, months and years. Keep your faith strong and trust that Jeff is singing with the most beautiful choir in Heaven. His angelic voice will carry through the clouds, straight to your heart. He is among many, many friends and loved ones now. He is at peace, wrapped in God's loving arms, no longer suffering. We shall miss him, but will keep him close in our hearts, minds and prayers. We love you all, Ken and Ellie

Ken & Ellie Baierl

January 7, 2013

My father was not only a great man, he was the BEST man. In life he always lived for others. He gave and gave without ever taking. His compassion, and love, will sustain my family through this tough time. I can only live to hope, that I am half the man he was. It hurts now, but i take comfort in knowing he is no longer suffering. HE is watching over us. And his love is in all our hearts!

Benjamim Pauly

January 6, 2013

Jeff, I'm so glad we had all those long phone conversations when your health was good. Steve and I will both miss you and always remember the Summer of 1970 when you lived with us in our apartment in District Heights. We were Blessed to see you and Kathy when you came to NIH in Bethesda. Those, too, were good visits.

susan toth

January 6, 2013

To Claudia and the Pauly Family. I send to you my deepest sympathies to all of you

Liz Beck

January 6, 2013

Sorry for your loss
PAT & GARY ST. MARY

January 6, 2013

ANDY,
We are so sorry for your loss. Keep all the wonderful memories you have of him help you through this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

John and Donna ziegler

January 6, 2013

Ann, I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother. When the hurt is great, remember him with fond memories. I'm sure he'd rather see you smile. Prayers to all the family and friends of Jeffrey.

Rhonda Gurno

January 6, 2013

Uncle jeff, I'll always remember you as incredibly wise beyond the education of this world and you'll surely be missed by many.

Seth Hanninen

January 6, 2013

You will be missed, but always close in our hearts. Love you,

Candi & Roger

January 5, 2013

Our hearts are heavy, but we will never forget what a wonderful man Jeff was! Out thoughts and prayers are with you. Love to all, John and Lorrie

January 5, 2013

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Terri Sinner

January 4, 2013

To my uncle who I will miss tremendously. I will always cherish the time did have to spend together, especially when I was a young child. I take comfort in being able to spend a few hours with you on my last leave home. God speed, and in typical Naval custom may you forever have "Fair winds and following seas" in heaven!

Tony Beaster

January 4, 2013

TTFN ? Ich liebe dich.

January 4, 2013

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