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BYARD DWIGHT "BY" HEY

1928 - 2019

BYARD DWIGHT "BY" HEY obituary, 1928-2019, Fort Wayne, IN

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BYARD HEY Obituary

BYARD "BY" DWIGHT HEY, 91, passed away on Sunday, Dec. 15, 2019. Born in 1928, he was a son of the late Minnie and Truman Hey. By was a native of Fort Wayne and a graduate of Concordia Lutheran High School, where he played on the basketball team, as he did at Indiana University where he was also a member of Sigma Nu Fraternity. Summers he worked for the Park Board coaching baseball. After graduation he taught and coached at Concordia College in Oakland, Calif. until he was called by the draft. He served in the U.S. Army Signal Corps during the Korean War as a cryptographer and code instructor. In 1952 he married his Concordia classmate, Elfriede (Fritzie) Friedrich, and together they had four children: Heidi, Tina, Byard Jr., and Karla. After Army service he returned to Fort Wayne to replace his own high school basketball coach. He also taught math, physical education and was the assistant football coach. From there he moved into the Fort Wayne Community Schools system where he taught and coached at Central High School then at North Side High School where he had many successful years, including going to state finals in 1965 and being acknowledged by his fellow Indiana coaches for winning over 550 games. He was awarded to Indiana High School Athletic Association's highest honor in being selected into its Basketball Hall of Fame in 1997. North Side further honored him by naming its new gymnasium the By Hey Arena, in tribute to his service to the school and its students as a math teacher and coach. He was honored by his alma mater Concordia High by being selected an Outstanding Alum and being chosen to both the Concordia and North Side Athletic Halls of Fame. For many years he worked with youth in Wildcat Baseball and for 25 summers he managed the Glenaqua Swim Club. After retirement from the community school system, By taught at Indiana-Purdue Fort Wayne and Brown Mackie College and coached ball at Holy Cross Grade school: 5th and 6th graders and later 7th and 8th. By was a member of Bethlehem Lutheran Church as a child and as an adult, a member of Holy Cross Lutheran Church, where he was a longtime leader of Men's Bible Breakfast, Bible Study Classes, and Men in Integrity. He spent many solitary hours studying the Bible. In 1978, he married Carolyn Zeigler and became step-father to her children: John, Charlie and Gretchen. He is survived by their children, Charlie (Rachel) Zeigler, Heidi Williams, Tina Bennett, Byard (Irene) Hey Jr., Gretchen (Mike) Barnett, Karla Dimond; grandchildren, Ian, Roman (Amanda), Ashley (Justin), Courtney, Seth (Sara), Aaron (Allie), Justin (Jessica), Heather, Wyatt, Jesse, Hunter, Erika, Rachel (Chris), Danielle and Adelan; great-grandchildren, McKenna, Josie, McKinzie, Lincoln, Braxton, Sydney, Audryna, Gracelyn, Jaxson, Lillian, Elijah, Byard, Emily, Adelein, Sawyer and Graham; and sister, Myrna. He was also preceded in death by his first wife, Elfriede; brother, Lowell; sister, Maxine; and stepson, John Zeigler. Funeral service is 11 a.m. Friday, Dec. 20, 2019, at Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 3425 Crescent Ave., Fort Wayne (IN 46805), with calling one hour prior. Visitation also from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 19, 2019, at D.O. McComb and Sons Maplewood Park Funeral Home, 4017 Maplecrest Road, Fort Wayne (IN 46815).

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Dec. 17, 2019.

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skip lesh

December 21, 2019

It was a real pleasure to play for a Christian coach like By Hey.
Skip Lesh Class of '63'

Thomas Tharp

December 18, 2019

Deepest condolences to the Hey family. By's enthusiasm and talent touched a lot of people in Fort Wayne. He will not be forgotten!

December 18, 2019

To the family of By Hey , I enrolled at North Side in 1957 and was so lucky to get By for my home room teacher . It was also By's first year at North Side . He was a a tremendous influence on my academic life and athletic career . He was always firm ,caring and supportive of me and all students . His basketball coaching Hall of Fame career will always be remembered by all of his students and athletes . I was so fortunate to have him as a mentor and friend at NSHS . By Hey was an all time great !! Dr. Tom Lapp Indianapolis ,Indiana

Jack Smith

December 18, 2019

We are so, so sorry for your loss. By was more than a teacher and coach. He dedicated his career to being a "TRUE MENTOR" by instilling "life long lessons and learning" for all his players and students. REST IN PEACE "COACH" AND THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE FOR ALL OF US. YOU WILL TRULY BE MISSED "AMEN".

Jack Smith

December 18, 2019

PLEASE NOTE: THE MESSAGE I JUST SENT IS FROM "JACK SMITH FORT WAYNE, IN

December 18, 2019

We are so, so sorry for your loss. By was more than a teacher and coach he dedicated his career to being a "TRUE MENTOR" by instilling "life long lessons and learning" for all his players and students. REST IN PEACE "COACH" AND THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE FOR ALL OF US. YOU WILL TRULY BE MISSED AMEN.

Jim Betts

December 18, 2019

So sorry to hear about the loss of your dad, Tina, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family...Jim Betts an Suzi Green

Ron & Carol Armstrong

December 18, 2019

A friend to all, our thoughts and prayers are with By Hey's family and friends as they celebrate the life of this special coach and man. We always felt honored at class reunions that By Hey. would be with our class of NSHS 63. He will be missed but never forgotten.

Rob Pelkington

December 18, 2019

Great man A True Champion God Bless The Pelkingtons

Dennis Baron

December 17, 2019

I was in the class of 61 and several of us gather monthly if not weekly. Almost every time By's name comes up with fond memories. We enjoyed seeing him at our class gatherings and we were fortunate to have crossed his path. Rest In Peace.

Dennis Baron

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Sent Flowers

December 17, 2019

Coach will NEVER be forgotten. Definitely a life well lived. May GOD bless and keep you ! V/R Bill PRUMM.

LEWIS MOWAN

December 17, 2019

I had Mr Hey at Central High. I had so much respect for him. He was a very srtict man and with the highest of ethics. I am deeply saddened to laern of his passing. Rest in peace sir. You touched hundreds of lives in a positive way. I hope to see you again some day.

Janice Martin

December 17, 2019

Dear Mr. Hey's family: I was so sad to hear this on the news last evening.
Mr. Hey was not only an amazing math teacher and basketball coach at North Side High School (class of 1985), but set an example of an amazing man who influenced the lives of those he taught and those he coached. Mr. Hey had been on my mind for a little while only to hear of his passing on the news last evening.
Thank you for all those whose lives that you influenced in your life.
Well done thy good and faithful servant, come and take your rest....

Susan Espenlaub

December 17, 2019

I was a math student of the coach. I have told my grandkids about his grace toward me in math class. He gave me a passing grade, undeserved. He recognized the amount of effort I put into the math work, but I simply could not pass a test. At the end of the semester, he called me to his desk and said, I believe the understanding is there and he gave me the lowest passing grade. I always have believed he wanted to save my grade point average. I have never forgotten his kindness.

December 17, 2019

my deepest symphathy's to the family..Jackie Byeley

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D. O. McComb and Sons - Maplewood Park

4017 Maplecrest Rd., Fort Wayne, IN 46815

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4017 Maplecrest Rd., Fort Wayne, IN 46815

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Holy Cross Lutheran Church

3425 Crescent Ave., Fort Wayne, IN

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20

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

Holy Cross Lutheran Church

3425 Crescent Ave, Fort Wayne, IN

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