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December 19, 2019
In two months I will be 29. In four months it will be 12 years since you left. I don't know what it was about today but I couldn't stop thinking of you. I thought at some point the tears would stop, but they don't. There was a point today where I had to go step away and I started sobbing, as if it were that cold dark day again in April of 2008. The anger and confusion has passed, but the pain stabs as deeply as it did when I first learned of your death. When people ask me now if I have a brother, I tell them that I did. That he was the funniest, the deepest of thinkers, and the most humble person I've ever known. I can't put into words how much your death has affected my life. All I can say is that I miss you. Every day. Just as much as I did when I was a 17 year old kid. I love you.
Scott
MICHAEL BENNINGTON
April 15, 2019
TOMORROW WILL BE 11 YEARS SINCE YOUR PASSING, IM STILL SHOCKED THAT YOU HAVE DIED. THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT I DO NOT THINK ABOUT YOU AND PRAY FOR YOU.
WE ATTEMPT TO MARCH FORWARD AND TO STAY POSITIVE, ITS NOT VERY EASY!
I HOPE OUR DOGS; FIONA AND ROSE HAVE FOUND YOU AND PROVIDE YOU WITH COMFORT.
WITH ETERNAL LOVE; YOUR DAD.
April 13, 2019
Blake,
I can't believe how long it's been since I last saw you. Would you believe that I'm getting married? I don't feel like I'm old enough to be making these decisions, but here I am at 26 pretending I'm a real adult. We put a moment of silence in the ceremony for you. Things are different without you. I'm different without you. I still think about you a lot. I want you to know how much we all love and miss you, buddy. I hope you're doing well wherever you are. I hope you're happy and at peace.
Ashtyn
Davis Family
April 12, 2019
We have not forgotten you Blakey Boy.
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June 10, 2017
We are approaching a decade without you. I don't even know if you would recognize the person that I am today. I hope that you would be proud of who I became. I stuck by our principals and I have tried to live my life the way we always talked about. I'm doing things I always dreamed of doing. Life isn't perfect, we never thought it would be, but I am doing good. I have never stopped thinking about you. I don't think I can. You are, and always will be my brother. Where ever you are, if you are, I miss you. I will never stop missing you. I love you Blake. Thank you for helping me understand who I am and what I stand for. I love you.
Scott
May 20, 2015
Just thinking of you today buddy..
February 28, 2014
Just thinking of you today Blake. We have not forgotten nor will we ever. With Love, Kim, Kirk, Kody and Carter.
September 9, 2013
I had another one of those mornings today. I woke up and for a split second I thought I could pick up my phone and call you. When reality sinks in I feel utterly crushed. I often think now about my growing into adulthood without you. After a rough day at work I sometimes find myself sitting alone at a bar with a beer in hand wondering if things had been different that maybe you would be there next to me helping me wind down from my day. Most times though I think back to our time together as adolescences, when things were so simple, and wish with every fiber of my being that I could get back to that. If only just for a day. Five and a half years ago I made a promise to myself, and to you, that I would never forget you. I know in my heart that I will never break that promise.
Your Friend,
Scott
January 3, 2013
BLAKE
THE HOLIDAY SEASON HAS COME AND GONE AGAIN FOR THE FIFTH YEAR! I VISIT YOUR GRAVE EACH WEEK, AND PRAY FOR YOU EACH NIGHT.
I PRAY YOU HAVE FOUND PEACE, I LOVE YOU AS ALWAYS. DAD
Peter Mitchell
November 15, 2012
I'm 100% positive you were an absolutely amazing guy Blake, wish you were here
Christian Bennington
October 12, 2012
Hey cuz, it's been a while since I said anything. So I thought I should take this time to talk. It's been rough, coming up year five in April. We all are trying to move on without you, as much as we don't want to. I still remember the funeral, like it was last week, and I still can remember looking up to you. Just a little kid lost, you mean a lot to me. I still hold dear to the Peyton Manning jersey Mary gave me. 18 was my favorite number ever since. Everyday I think, and everyday there's just things that you can't answer, and that will not be answered. Although you might not have realized it you helped me out more than you would of believed, you set me straight again. I still miss you everyday and nothing will ever change that. Always think of things, all of which you let me keep. I owe you my life, and I'll never forget. You may be dead, but it doesn't mean you're gone. Always thinking of you. Love your little cousin.
Ashtyn Eastes
February 10, 2012
Blake,
It's going to be 4 years in April and I still miss you so much. I watched the tribute video again and cried just as much as I did the very first time I saw it. I love you and wish you were here.
Danielle Dorais
January 13, 2012
Dear Blake,
You have no idea how much I miss you. Things have gotten so much harder over the years...but tonight, I keep thinking about how good of friends we were my seventh grade year. I miss you so much, Blake, and I wish you were here. I love you.
Dani Rae.
Cortlin Simpson
April 17, 2011
Blake,
I'll never be able to put into words how much we all miss you. I know all of us guys would do anything for one more day with you. Even after 3 years, the pain still feels so fresh. We are all just about done with our freshman year of college. It freaks me out how fast time goes. Not a day goes by that you aren't on my mind. I love and miss you bud.
February 10, 2011
BLAKE
I WENT THROUGH YOUR THINGS AGAIN THIS MORNING, AND IT MADE ME MISS YOU SO MUCH. YOU WERE SUCH A SPECIAL SON. I WOULD HAVE DONE ANYTHING TO HAVE HELPED YOU. WE ALL LOVE YOU SON
DAD
Kim,Kirk,Kody,Carter Davis
September 17, 2010
Blakey boy--Just thinking of you today. Kody is at IU with Luke, Jimmy, Bryan, Mitchell, and some others. It may seem that we've forgotten you, but I promise that we haven't and never will. I look over to your grave at every Leo outdoor event. Track, baseball, football, pep rally, tailgait, etc. You are so loved....and we love your family too.
Christian Bennington
July 19, 2010
Dear Blake,
We all miss you. I still think about you and wish you were still here. I could never forget you, you were a great cousin and an ever better friend. If I had one wish it would be to have you back in my life. You were a really great guy I looked up to. I'm sorry I didn't get to see you often, but I remember so good times. I wish you didn't leave so soon, and I love you we all do. You made everyone happy, you were filled with joy and I miss it so much.
Al Steiner
June 7, 2010
Blake,
Today was the last day of class at LHS for your gang of friends; they are off swimming and fishing. They still miss you. Luke still wears a white rubber braclet in your memory. You are missed by so many. Luke quit football his junior year. A new coach and he weren't getting along so great. But he admitted it felt too strange without you. Each year the gang goes out for breakfast together on April 16th and remembers you together. But I know Luke thinks of you often. At graduation I'll think of you a when I'm trying to find Luke. I always just looked for your head above the rest and knew Luke was beside you.
Luke's headed to IU Bloomington for accounting and finance. I know you were thinking Purdue. The Old Oaken Bucket war would have been personal.
Know you are missed.
Christian Bennington
April 3, 2010
Dear Blake,
I still think about you, I know I can't change what happened, but I wish I knew how I could of helped. I miss you a lot, we all do. Even though you are no longer with us, I still love you with all my heart.
January 28, 2010
Mike,
Please contact me at [email protected]
MIKE BENNINGTON
December 28, 2009
A SECOND CHRISTMAS HAS PASSED SINCE MY WONDERFUL SON HAS DIED. HE WAS SUCH A GOOD KID, IT IS STILL DIFFICULT TO BELIEVE THAT HE IS GONE. I KNOW HE LOVED CHRISTMAS AS ALL KIDS DO. I HOPE HE IS HAPPY AND WITH PEOPLE THAT LOVE HIM. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH BLAKE!
DAD
- -
March 18, 2009
Hi i didn't know your son at all but he went to my school and i went to his memorial service he seemed like such a good guy and he had many friends i still think about him...
Greg Bender
March 11, 2009
I didn't know Blake, but certainly knew his grandparents, Alan and Mary, and his great-grandparents, Pat (my aunt) and Dale. Benningtons are good folks. This was a real tragedy.
Ashtyn
February 22, 2009
Blake was such a great guy. He could change the worst day into an amazing one. I miss him very much and love him still. To Jenae and all the rest of his family, I'm sorry for your loss and want you to know that I'm here for you. If you need to talk or anything let me know.
Ashley Bennington
January 15, 2009
To Jenae and the rest of Blake's family:
I'm so sorry I was not able to visit this year and I'm extremely sorry for your loss. I think about Blake every day and I miss him very much. I hope you all are getting by each day.
Much love.
Jacquie Aldrich
September 10, 2008
Mike,
Your sons life has impacted my childrens life, in such positive ways. I wish the kids and I would of got to know Blake personally.
I hope you and yor family are well. Love,
Jacquie Aldrich (Pat Bennington's grandaughter)
PS I have a great picture of you and I as kids and some sheep dogs lol
August 29, 2008
Losing child like Blake is the most painful experience you can imagine!! Jenae & I miss him more each day! He was the best son/brother we could have ever asked for! Thank you for all your prayers! Blakes Mom & sister
Alan Mahan
July 7, 2008
Mike, I was looking to find you on the internet when I found this today. My heart is deeply saddened for your loss. I will try to contact you tonight.
Al Mahan
Gregg Pierson
June 25, 2008
Kristina, i just found this [with God's help] The heartache i feel for you is beyond anything i have ever felt before. I have thought of you often, and wondered how things were with you... i just can't imagine your pain, i know what a wonderful mother you are and how much your children mean to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers Kristina.
Cortlin Simpson
June 5, 2008
Blake was a very good friend of mine. I thank God for allowing me to know such a great kid. He could put a smile on anyones face. He will be missed greatly. May God be with him and his family
MICHAEL BENNINGTON
May 15, 2008
IT HAS BEEN ONE MONTH SINCE MY SON HAS PASSED. WE ALL MISS HIM TERRIBLY. THINGS HAVE NOT BEEN EASY BUT EACH DAY GETS A LITTLE BETTER. THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR SUPPORT.
Matthew Mills
May 13, 2008
I used to play sports with blake back before high school and he was a really fun dude to be around.
i dont even know what to say. its been a while since he has died, almost a month now but i just still cant believe he is gone forever.
Kris Granger
May 7, 2008
Kris, Mike & Families,
I found this by accident and had to read it twice to be sure. I am so sorry for your loss, words don't do justice. I recently found pictures of Blake, Jenae and Heather from years ago and wondered how all of you were doing. He was a sweet boy, and I still think of him every time I read "fox in socks". My prayers are with all of you.
~"lil" Kris
Joanna Eastes
May 5, 2008
To the whole family-I used to babysit for Jenae and Blake when they were younger. Blake was such a happy and sweet boy and reading all of these messages, he stayed that way. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you through this tough time.
Lindsey
May 1, 2008
i knew blake all throughout middle school and he was a good friend. i am so sorry to everyone in the family. it is so hard to lose a loved one. you are in my prayers.
Diane Stinson
April 27, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May you & your family find peace.
Someone Who Cares
April 27, 2008
I know that there is nothing that can be said to heal the ache in your broken heart, but I wanted to sign this guest book in memory of Blake. I remember seeing him walk down the hall and thinking he was SO tall and that he must be a jock, but I also remember that he was the kid that wouldn't push you into the wall or slam your locker shut like a lot of the people at Leo. He always had a smile on his face and he was always talking to friends. I wish I knew him. I wish I had the honor of knowing him because from what I've heard and seen, he was an amazing person. There are no words good enough to even begin to describe him. I'm praying for him and your family. I'm praying for all the good people in this world that leave to early when there are so many bad people still out there. It isn't fair and it is hard. I wish I could say it will get better, but I've never lost a loved one so I really don't know if it does. Just try to remember all the smiles, laughs, hugs, and kisses because he would want you to. I want you to. So whenever you think about him, smile, because you love him. We all love him. And he loves us too.
Mickey Leadingham
April 23, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers our with your family and Blake's friends.
Mike and Helen Baugh
April 23, 2008
Mike and Family,
One day we will understand why we lose our children at such a young age, but right now, it doesn't make sense. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike and Helen
Amanda Leadingham
April 23, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to school with Blake but I did not know him very well, but I was friends with his sister. God bless you!
Logan Mcdirmit
April 23, 2008
i did not know blake but i just want to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends
Donna Stucker
April 22, 2008
We are so sorry for the loss of such a young life. Our sincere condolences.
Nicole Thompson
April 22, 2008
Although I did not know Blake my friends have told me he was a great person and kind to everyone. My prayers go out to your family. Sorry for your loss. May God bless you.

Tallest and shortest students
April 22, 2008

April 22, 2008

April 22, 2008

April 22, 2008

Blake at playground
April 22, 2008

Blake, Mom, and Jenae
April 22, 2008

Blake, Dad, and Jenae
April 22, 2008

April 22, 2008

Blake and Grandpa
April 22, 2008

Blake and Grandma
April 22, 2008
Sharon Christlieb
April 22, 2008
We are so very sorry for all of you.
We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob,Sharon,Alexis and Mariah Christlieb
John, Mari, Dustin & Dylan Adams
April 22, 2008
Mike and family, I am so sorry for your loss. My son Dustin played football at Leo with Blake and spoke very highly of him. Remember we are all here for you, the community and American Legion Post 409, Leo. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Anita Witherspoon-Kendrick
April 22, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Brian and Kathy, Brittany, Christine, Destiny, Brian Jr., Jacob, Samantha Fruchey
April 21, 2008
Mike, You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God hold you and yours close to him through this time.
God bless you.......
Gabe Ochoa
April 21, 2008
Kristina and family: My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Even though I did not know Blake, if he was anything like his mom then he was a great and special person.
All my love
Gabe
Bri Strock
April 21, 2008
The Bennington Family;
My brother and I went to school with Blake, he was a great kid. I know nothing that anyone tells you is going to help the loss that you've recently had. You are in our prayers. Stay strong. You have our whole town here for you. Blake was a special kid, and a tall one at that. He will never be forgotten by any of us. I'm really sorry. God Bless.
Bri and Robbie Strock
Rose Strock
April 21, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this time and always. Blake will forever be remembered in our hearts.
Brian, Rose, Robbie and Bri Strock

Blake, Christmas 2006
April 20, 2008

Blake at Mama's house, Christmas 2006
April 20, 2008

Blake at cousin Star's 1st Birthday Party, 2002
April 20, 2008

Blake and cousin Star, 2001
April 20, 2008

Blake at Mama's house, Christmas 2001
April 20, 2008

April 20, 2008

Blake and Jenae at Birthday Celebration
April 20, 2008

Blake, Mike, Kris, Heather, and Jenae
April 20, 2008

Blake playing with airplane
April 20, 2008

Blake with Mama, Papa, Heather, Lynsey, and Jody
April 20, 2008

Blake with cousins Jody and Lynsey
April 20, 2008

Blake with cousins Jody and Lynsey
April 20, 2008

Blake as ring bearer with cousin Jody
April 20, 2008

Blake Poolside with Mom, Grandma, and Uncle
April 20, 2008

Mother and Son
April 20, 2008
Jared Opoien and Sarah Conrad
April 20, 2008
To The Family,
You guys are in our thoughts and prayers, forever and always. God will always be there for you if you need anything! The service yesterday was amazing, it helped to provide us with some closer, and our families are praying for you too!
Gayla King
April 20, 2008
Kris, I don't even have words....what can I say that would help to mend the broken hearts of you and your family....... ? I just spoke with Dawn again this morning to see how you all are holding on. Just know that I tried to make a way to come home, but couldn't pull it off. I had to be at Moffitt Cancer Center with Dick all day Friday.....Many prayers are being said for your family by us and our friends here in Florida. My heart breaks with this terrible loss of your "beautiful" boy. I send you love and a huge hug.
Carolyn Skelton
April 20, 2008
Kris, Jenae & The Bennington Family:
Words, however kind, can't mend your heartache: but those who care and share your loss wish you comfort and peace of mind. May you find strength in the love of family and in the warm embrace of friends.
With Deepest Sympathy
Paul, Carolyn, Kyle, Mitchell & Makelle Skelton
Sarah High
April 20, 2008
To Kris, Michael, Michele, Jenae, and Heather:
There are simply no amount of words that can express the loss that you are experiencing. I don't think Blake realized how much he really was loved by everyone. Being a sophomore who started kindergarten here and his been here ever since, I've gotten to see the awesome person he had grown into. We will all miss him greatly, but we must always keep him in our hearts and never forget the great person he was. Please know that everyone in this community will be here for you in this time of need! Me and my family will keep you and yours in our prayers!
Sarah High, sophomore at LHS.
Christi Smeltzley
April 20, 2008
To the Bennington Family,
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. Please know and find comfort in the support you will have today, tomorrow and in the years to come. Your son will not be forgotten and will live on in the hearts of many at Leo High School! Please let us know if you EVER need anything.
Christi Smeltzley
Guidance Counselor, Leo High School
John Taylor
April 19, 2008
Kris and family,
I am very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you, your family, and the many friends your son had. Blake touched the lives of many people, and it was evident by today's service. He also was blessed to have such a loving mother like yourelf. Kris, if there is anything at all I can do to help you in ANY way, please let me know. I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Heck
April 19, 2008
Dear Bennington Family,
Our hearts and prayers and deepest sympathy goes out to you.... there are no words.... Please know that you have hundreds of people praying for you and caring so deeply about you in the tragic loss of your dear Blake..... May God sustain you, comfort you, and hold you ... you are loved, the Heck Family - Bob, Lisa, Natalie, Andrew, Matthew and Caleb
Carolyn Grate
April 19, 2008
Dear Kris,Mike, Heather, & Jenae
We can't tell you that we know how you feel. It seems so unfair to lose a child. All we can do is tell you we will pray for you, knowing that your precious son is cradled lovingly in the arms of our Lord. Blake's memory will live on in the hearts of many.
May God be with all of you in your time of sorrow. With deepest and heartfelt sympathy. Carolyn, Glen & Austin Grate
KAREN ELMER
April 19, 2008
Kris, Mike, Janae and Heather:
your family is in our prayers. I can still remember when your children were young, living in Canterbury, and all the fun we used to have. Melissa and Sarah used to love to spend time with your children.
Take care
Debby Tandy
April 19, 2008
Kris and family. I came today at leo to say good bye to Blake and my heart was in pain for you and your family. I am so so deeply sorry for your loss. So many people there and so many tears for Blake. I can see how much he is loved. If I can do anything please let me know. You are my cousin and I will be there if you need anything. Love to all of you. I will say a pray for Blake and the family. God Bless you and keep you Amen. Love always The Tandy Family.
Alli
April 19, 2008
I didn't know Blake. But I do remember seeing him in the halls at school. I mean he was pretty hard to miss towering over everyone and all. :) I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't really know what else to say other than I'm praying for you and your family...
April 19, 2008
We're sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely, The Kinslows
Joe, Jenna, Chase & Ty
Paul and Penny Woods
April 19, 2008
To The Bennington Family,
We understand that words can't ease the pain of this very difficult time, but we hope you can find some comfort knowing you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many. When you start to wonder how you can make it thru the days ahead, try to remember it is now that HE is carrying you.
GOD be with you;
Paul, Penny, Jeremy, Justin and Nick
Curtis Graves
April 19, 2008
I am so very sorry to hear of Blake's tragic death. Mary and I lost our 17 year old Brendan, 4 years ago after an auto accident. It's hard to describe to people what you go through.
If you ever need someone to talk with please call us.
Rebecca
April 19, 2008
i am so sorry for your loss this has been hard and will be hard you will forever be in my and my churches prayers
Mary Graves
April 19, 2008
Kris and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Blake. I remember seeing his picture, along with your two girls, on your mirror at the salon. From listening to you talk about him it was apparent that he was special and very loved. You and your family are in my prayers.
Mary Graves
Andrea
April 19, 2008
The Bennington Family,
I did not know your son, but have felt very burdened for you family. Please know that you are being prayed for several times a day and I pray God will give you the peace that only He can supply.
Andy Bayer
April 19, 2008
Blake was a really awesome kid. Although I didn't know him very well until this track season I really enjoyed the time I got to spend with him. He will be missed
Amanda Pfister
April 19, 2008
Jenae and Family,
I am sorry for your loss. I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I will always be here for you and your family.
In love,
Amanda Pfister
April 19, 2008
Jenae and family,
I am sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will always be here for you.
Jill and Gary (Paige and Bailey) Brigman
April 19, 2008
Mike and Kris,
(Michele, Jenae, Heather and family)
Our hearts ache for the pain you are feeling. Reading through the guest book for Blake, it is apparent you raised a nice young man who touched many lives. May it give you comfort to know that your friends and so many others in the community are there to support you through this tragic time. Most importantly may it comfort you to know that you will someday see Blake again. You are all in our constant thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you all now and in the days ahead.
Tom and Lois Neuman
April 19, 2008
Mike - our thought and prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow -
Ashlee Roth
April 18, 2008
Jenae and family~
I am so sorry about your loss. I am and will continue to pray for you and support you through this difficult time. Blake was a great guy and will be missed. Please know that I am here for you. With hope and prayers~
Christian Van
April 18, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Deb Downing
April 18, 2008
Mike, I am so sorry for your loss... My thoughts and prayers are with you
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