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Judith E. Loebel

1943 - 2019

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Judith Loebel Obituary

Mother to hundreds, friend of thousands, loved by all who knew her, Judith E. (Cook) Loebel died on December 11, 2019 as she lived, surrounded by those she loved and who loved her.

Judy was the heart of her large family. She was married for 54 years to Tod Loebel, with whom she built a family via blood, adoption, and determination. She leaves behind her children: Darlene, Stephen, Gretchen, Wendy, TR, Jennifer, Andrew, Zoe, Andi, and Noah, 27 grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren, as well as dozens of children she nurtured over more than 49 years as a foster parent. Judy was a fierce advocate for these children and was always quick to shelter those (of any age) in need.

Judy was a Hadley farmer's daughter who applied the work ethic she learned as a child to all she did. She was born on August 5, 1943 at Cooley Dickenson Hospital to Gordon and Marjorie Cook. She grew up on Cook Farm with her three brothers: Gordon Jr, Richard, and Peter Cook. As an elementary school student, Judy joined the high school band as a clarinet player, later taking up saxophone and drums as well. She was a member of the local 4-H. At sixteen, she was crowned the Hadley Tercentenary Queen. She graduated from Hopkins Academy in 1961 as her class valedictorian. She went on to complete degrees in biochemistry and physiology at Mount Holyoke College, as well as a later degree in computer information systems from Rollins College.

For 45 years Judy worked as a clinical chemist, advancing from a research assistant at Walter Reed Army Institute of Research, to laboratory supervisor at Holmes Regional Medical Center, to field representative at Instrumentation Laboratories, to the Director of Regulatory Affairs at Tosoh and DOCRO. Her expertise led her to consulting on clinical oncology trials and work with the FDA. She loved her work and continued it to within days of her passing.

Later in life, Judy volunteered at Lathrop Home and Harvest Club. She and Tod travelled the world, often sharing these experiences a with her children. In 2000, Judy and Tod opened the elegant Ivory Creek Bed and Breakfast on Chmura Road in Hadley. She loved meeting and hearing the stories of those who stayed at the B&B.

Judy was full of life, intelligent, strong, sensitive and wise. She was beautiful, although she didn't know it. She lived an exemplary life that inspires all who cherish her memory. Her words continue to guide her family as they try to live by her example.

The family plans to host a celebration of life at a future date.

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Jan. 3, 2020.

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Maria Rodriguez

August 26, 2023

To Tod and family, my deepest condolences on the passing of Judy. This is a great loss but a life well lived. Judy gave me my first opportunity to be a CRA & mentored me. I will be forever grateful for all her encouragement. She opened up her B&B for us to stay during training. She and Tod loved what they did and Judy was such a fantastic cook and always so welcoming!! She loved her work in clinical trials, loved her family and all her foster kids, and all her guests at the B&B!! Judy was an encouraging voice. With much love to all of you!

Nan and Bob Lowary

December 28, 2022

Judy well remembered. Would love to have a contact for Tod?

Eric & Judy Lalonde

August 12, 2022

Eric and are so sad to hear of Judy's passing and just heard this. We knew her through her daughter and son-in-law, Wendy & Brian. When we were first introduced to her family, we were amazed at how she loved and embraced everyone into her home. She got up early with Tod and would cook for an army, serve everyone with a smile, clean and get ready for lunch, then dinner and do this everyday. She was a great mentor and mother to all her children and those who had the privilege of meeting her. Her heart was so pure. We were blessed to have met such a beautiful person. Our condolences and prayers for her great family.

Max Loebel

August 3, 2022

I am one of her grandchildren and I miss her dearly,

Nan & Bob Lowary

September 20, 2021

Just learned of Judy's passing. Judy and Tod taught us all we needed to know to open out own B&B in VT. Judy was so gracious to our daughter, Tara, when she entered Mt. Holyoke. I would love if someone could tell me how to contact Tod. I know they moved from Ivory Creek a couple of years ago and Bob visited them at their new home. Judy was a great and giving person, it was a privileges to have known her.

Cindy Pliska

September 5, 2020

My condolences to the family. We were very sad to learn of Judith’s passing. My husband and I stayed at Ivory Creek several times when our son was at Hampshire college. We enjoyed the food and conversations at breakfast. It was the first place I had sautéed vegetables with breakfast and now I often do the same for my family. She taught me how to make poached pears. I make them every year at New Year’s family dinner and always say I learned how to make them ( she explained one morning in detail.from a lovely innkeeper in Massachusettes. I came across this obituary when I was looking online to see if any of the recipes from the inn that were published online. I felt the need to reach out because I want you to know that her life fully lived in kindness had far reaching positive impact in ways and on lives that you can only imagine. May the blessings she brought to others be returned to the people she loved.

Kate (Kathy) Sullivan

February 1, 2020

When I was in elementary school, I thought high-school-age Judy was the coolest person ever! From reading her obit, I've learned that I was absolutely right. Her accomplishments across a number of fields are extraordinary, yet she seemed to maintain the kindness and caring that I remember. She was a very special person. My sincere condolences to her family.

January 17, 2020

I was so sad to hear of Judy's passing. She was a wonderful person who gave her all in everything she did. She worked tirelessly to make the Lathrop Home a better place for the residents and staff. If you needed anything, you could always count on Judy. She made such a difference in the lives of so many. She will truly be missed.

Christine & Scott Kamelle

January 8, 2020

Dear Tod and family,
We are so sorry to hear about Judy's passing. We enjoyed all of our stays and conversations together at Ivory Creek. We have fond memories of taking the kids (Andi and Noah) out on the boat in the summer! Much love to all of you,

Karen Dunn

January 6, 2020

Judy was an amazing woman! She will be sadly missed. Love & prayers to Tod and her family.

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