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Josephine Mary Ryan

1942 - 2020

Josephine Mary Ryan obituary, 1942-2020, Northampton, MA

Josephine Ryan Obituary

Josephine passed away on July 13, at age 77. She will be remembered as a loving partner, sister, mother, and grandmother, and as a fierce champion for women and nurses.

Jo was born to an Irish family in London on December 9, 1942, during a German bombing of the city. She was a late addition to three older siblings -- Fergus, Catherine, and Patrick. She spent her childhood between London and her family's home in the Thomondgate district of Limerick, Ireland, and would later recall walking to elementary school in Chelsea past houses shattered by the Blitz. As a member of the Girl Guides, she stood vigil at the 1953 coronation of Queen Elizabeth II. Jo was a feisty and outspoken girl. She practiced her quick-draw with a toy six-shooter behind the boarding house that her mother, Mai, ran for Irish workers living in London. Jo's father, Tim, was a steamfitter.

In March of 1956, at the age of 13, Jo boarded the RMS Queen Mary with Patrick and Mai, bound for the United States, where Catherine had emigrated three years earlier. Jo later had fond memories of the five-day voyage and reported that the food was excellent -- even in third class. They landed in Manhattan, stepping onto the pier and into the arms of aunts, uncles, and cousins who had emigrated before them.

The family moved into an apartment over a barber shop in Flatbush, Brooklyn. At P.S. 89 Jo quickly shed her accent to avoid being teased on the schoolyard. After two years, Jo and her family moved to Stamford, Conn., where Jo completed high school and was a standout on the basketball team. A bright and talented student, Jo later said she would have chosen to study marine biology if a guidance counselor hadn't steered her toward nursing school.

After three years at the Greenwich Hospital School of Nursing, Jo was recruited to a new program at Catholic University in Washington, D.C., and added a B.S. to her R.N. Jo followed her love of science and learning into academia and collected further degrees: a master's from University of Massachusetts Amherst and a doctorate in nursing science from Boston University. She became a tenured associate professor in the school of nursing at UMass, where she trained future nurses for more than three decades. Admired by her students and esteemed by her colleagues, Jo was awarded the UMass Distinguished Teaching Award and the UMass President's Office Public Service Award. She taught pathophysiology and nursing theory, and she mentored doctoral students through their research. In addition to imparting knowledge and skills, Jo sought to inspire self-assurance and confidence in the young nurses in her classrooms. Jo was awarded numerous grants for research and nursing public service, published many journal articles and book chapters, and presented papers at conferences throughout the world.

Jo was partnered for many years with Bruce MacMillan, whom she met while they were students in Washington, D.C. Jo and Bruce shared a passion for books and ideas, and for peace and justice. In 1974, Jo supported Bruce's efforts to open the Broadside Bookshop in Northampton. Jo would do the window displays, selecting and arranging books to draw passersby into the new shop. With Bruce, Jo had two boys, Daniel and Thomas. She instilled in her sons a sense of compassion and social responsibility, an appreciation of the natural world and the night sky, and a love of words and wordplay.

Jo spent the last three decades of her life as the loving partner of Christine King, a fellow professor of nursing at UMass, and became stepmother to Chris's son, Benjamin. Jo and Chris shared both their lives and their work, securing research grants and authoring scholarly papers together. They published research on intimate-partner violence and training manuals to help nurses assess and assist abused women. This was pioneering work at a time when the health-care system was not seen as an area for addressing domestic violence. Jo and Chris also secured funds for a school-based health clinic in Springfield, Mass., and developed educational programs to train school nurses. Later in her career, Jo created connections between UMass and nursing programs in Puerto Rico, establishing student exchanges and distance-learning opportunities that led to the creation of a doctoral program at the University of Puerto Rico, the first such program in the Caribbean.

While she loved her house on South Street in Northampton, Jo also constantly sought out new flavors and experiences. She visited five continents, camping across Europe, painting with elephants in Thailand and riding camels in Egypt, visiting Alaska by boat and traveling many times to Ireland. She and Chris camped throughout the US National Parks with their three sons. Jo devoured detective novels and conquered crossword puzzles. She was known for her sharp mind and her dry wit. Jo never lost her love for her homeland or her lifelong pride in being an Irish immigrant.

In the last decade of Jo's life, health problems began to pile up. A breast cancer diagnosis was followed by chemotherapy, then open-heart surgery, and then still more difficulties. Her visits to the hospital were never pleasant but sometimes offered chance reunions with grateful former students, now practicing nurses who were happy to care for their old professor. Even as her health declined, Jo was kind to every health-care worker who came into her hospital room, always looking to make people laugh. And she remained committed to travel, from summer weekends in the Berkshires to winters on the beach in Puerto Rico.

Jo is survived by partner Christine; son Daniel and his partner Hilary; son Thomas and his partner Carolyn and their daughter Eleanor; stepson Benjamin and his partner Kate and their children Eve and Galen; brother Patrick and sister-in-law Emelie and their children Timothy, Eileen, and Finn; nieces Moira and Cathy; and cousin Mary. She will be remembered by friends, colleagues, and former students. A memorial service will be held at a later date.

Donations in Josephine's name may be given to Women for Women International or Safe Passage in Northampton.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Aug. 11, 2020.

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Jackie Campbell

July 26, 2021

Loved Jo so much - she and Chris did pioneering work in violence against women - a heroine

Anne Marie Haynes

January 19, 2021

Dr. Ryan was one of my favorite professors in nursing school along with Brenda Millette.
She loved to teach and had a terrific sense of humor. The University has truly lost a wonderful soul.
Anne Marie Haynes, Class of 1988.

Sue Tingley

October 12, 2020

I knew Jo Ryan for just two years, when I was a graduate student
at the University of Massachusetts. While my time as her student was brief, the impact she had upon my life and my nursing practice is infinite. She was a remarkable teacher, and an even better human. Fly high, Jo!

Sue Tingley

October 12, 2020

I knew Jo Ryan for just two years, when I was a graduate student
at the University of Massachusetts. While my time as her student was brief, the impact she had upon my life and my nursing practice is infinite. She was a remarkable teacher, and an even better human. Fly high, Jo Ryan!

Susan Tingley

October 12, 2020

I knew Jo Ryan for just two years, when I was a graduate student
at the University of Massachusetts. While my time as her student was brief, the impact she had upon my life and my nursing practice is infinite. She was a remarkable teacher, and an even better human. Fly high, Jo Ryan!

Nancy Gilbert

August 12, 2020

Dear Jo:

You are outstanding woman, nurse, teacher, role model, mentor, and friend who has been a significant person in my life since September 1967. I was one of the seven students who got the “new” faculty member for clinical. At that time everyone wanted Mrs.”Mama” Meehan. Boy did the seven of us luck out. We bonded with you, learned from you, grew in knowledge and spirit. As the semester progressed we call ourselves “Miss Ryan’s Magnificent Seven.” By the end of the semester we all nicknamed you JR, at that time students could not call faculty members by their first names. You and Mrs. Meehan were the only two faculty to attain nicknames founded in love and inspiration. Two strong Irish women.

In 1968, I took a quote from Kahil Gibran on teaching and wrote in my journal: To JR –“If the [the instructor] is indeed wise, [she] does not bid you enter the house of [her] wisdom, but rather leads you to the threshold of your own mind.” You lead others and myself to our wisdom and development of outstanding nursing practice. I used this quote in 1990 letter to nominate you for the Distinguished Faculty Award at the University of Massachusetts - Amherst. This award is only bestowed yearly to one faculty member. In 1990 you were that honoree.

Over the years I have shared with you my admiration for you and the affect that you have had on me as a thinking person and nurse. You are one in a million. You, your knowledge, your encouragement, your love of nursing, and your love of others have influenced students throughout decades. I sent an e-mail out to my 18 classmates, your first nursing students, from the Greenwich Hospital School of Nursing Class of 1969. Here are some their comments 53 years after you touched out lives. I received these within 1 hour of sending the e-mail:

•Ann: I remember [Jo] as someone who certainly had a powerful influence on us on many levels. She was a breath of fresh air in the School of Nursing who must have driven the stuffier instructors right up the wall. Her nursing knowledge was vast and she truly enjoyed sharing that knowledge with us. She was funny and irreverent yet more caring that she liked to show. One of my fondest memories is the great SAAB escapade when we moved her car in the parking lot and toilet papered the inside. It was an April Fools joke!
•Lynn: I am so grateful that you [Nancy] let her know how much she meant to us
•.
•JVT: She was a powerful influence on our careers.
•Diane: [We have] fun and happy memories of her alive in us.
•Bonnie: She was such a positive person who helped all of us succeed as nurses.
•Linda: She was such a powerful and positive influence. She believed in us, in the art and science of nursing, and I felt she always encouraged us to do better. So much of what she taught us I valued and shared throughout my career.
•Fran: God bless her. Lovely woman, nurse, teacher, friend. Prayers for all.
•Betty: What a great mentor and teacher. She helped shape our lives. God has a new angel to watch over us.
•Jane: Jo was so full of energy and enthusiasm for what she did and shared in her nursing career.

Jo you helped imprint knowledge and the love of nursing on thousands.

Your named, as a distinguished faculty member, is etched on a plaque in the Integrated Learning Center at UMass for the unforeseen future. But more importantly you are etched in my heart and hearts and nursing practice of many others for eternity.

Love,
Nancy

Nancy Gilbert

August 12, 2020

Words are inadequate. Dear dear Jo. A special woman, nurse, teacher, mentor, friend. Deep sympathy to Chris, Daniel, Thomas and Ben

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