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Thea Duell Obituary

Thea Duell
After a long, courageous fight against cancer, Thea Duell passed away with grace and dignity on June 27, 2018 in her home overlooking the ocean in Greenwich, CT.
A regal woman who was a prolific painter and sculptor for over forty years, Thea was also the only female lawyer at the prestigious Morgan, Lewis & Bockius law firm in Philadelphia, a lifelong, generous patron of many causes, and the cornerstone of the family real estate business in NYC for three decades up until her passing; she was a true renaissance woman and the matriarch of the Duell family.
She was born in New York City to Manny and Irene Duell, a Holocaust survivor. She attended Brearley and the Ethical Culture Fieldston School before getting her B.A. at Swarthmore College, followed by a law degree from Columbia University and Boston College. After practicing law at Morgan, Lewis, and Bockius, a rare achievement in those days as the only female in the firm, Thea moved to Connecticut, had three children, and then began working at and ultimately running the family real estate company in NYC along with her brother Benjamin. Throughout all of her life's many stages, she was a brilliant and steadfast painter, sculptor, and collagist, amassing an evolving body of work that began in childhood art classes at MOMA, and continued to flourish until only months before her passing at her home studio overlooking Byram Harbor. Few artists can claim such dedication.
Thea was an incredible cook, insatiable reader, and had a lifelong passion for traveling the world, especially in Italy, where she lived for a time outside of Florence. It was a time she cherished.
With a fiery joie de vivre and sense of humor, she was never one to take life too seriously.
Even in her dying days, Thea had poise, wit, and a timeless grace, as if from another era.
She truly was.
Thea is survived by her husband, Peter Cook, her children, Damon, Alexander and Theodore, her daughter-in-law Emma, her beloved grandchildren Oona and Fox, and her brother Benjamin.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the Lung Cancer Alliance or The MSA Coalition, in Thea's honor.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Greenwich Time on Jul. 6, 2018.

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Laraine Pacheco Brokaw

July 8, 2018

Dear Ben

I am shocked and saddened. Your loss is immense. Thea was smart, strong and fabulous. My thoughts are with you

166 BSR

July 6, 2018

Dear Ben and family,

We knew your sister was living on the Byram shore very near us so we understood very quickly that the both of you were very loving siblings. Thea was a beautiful and highly dedicated woman to family, the arts and philanthropy. We offer our sincerest condolences and will miss having you and your kind and thoughtful sons as neighbors.

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