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Dolores Arton Obituary

DOLORES M. ARTON of Greenwich, CT died suddenly on February 6, 2009, surrounded by her loving family at Greenwich Hospital. Dolores moved to Greenwich in 2002 from New York City. Dolores and her identical twin sister Katherine were born on July 31, 1957 in Lansdale, Pennsylvania to the late Catherine (Cummings) and Harry Arton. She is survived by her sisters Katherine Arton and Elizabeth Dyevich of Princeton, New Jersey, Mary Cooper of Greenwich, CT, and Patricia Arton of Stamford, CT. She is also survived by her brothers in law James Cooper of Greenwich, CT, Thomas Dyevich of Princeton, NJ and her six adored nieces and nephews, Henry, Michael, and Kate Cooper of Greenwich, CT, and Jack, Harry, and Catherine Dyevich of Princeton, NJ. Dolores was Principal and Chief Financial Officer of Founder's Equity, a private equity firm in Manhattan. Prior to joining Founders, Dolores served as a Director in Citibank's Investment Banking Division, and PaineWebber's Investment Banking Group. She began her career at Grant Thornton, where she received her C.P.A., and subsequently joined First Pennsylvania National Bank. She received her M.B.A. from Columbia University and a B.A. from Temple University. Dolores was the guiding compass to her entire family. Her nieces and nephews were the shining light of her life; she loved them with the most beautiful unconditional love imaginable. Dolores stepped in and became a mother to her two youngest sisters after their mother's death. She was a cherished sister, aunt, cousin, niece, friend and colleague. She touched many lives, working as a mentor to countless young students and business professionals. Dolores was never too busy to help anyone who crossed her path. Dolores's modesty about her many accomplishments impressed all who knew her. She inherited her boundless energy and passion for adventure and world travel from her beloved father. Dolores held dearly her beloved mother's belief that all people, regardless of their status, deserved respect and dignity. She inherited both parents' adoration for animals, and continued their tradition of supporting animal welfare. She was a pet therapy volunteer with her cocker spaniel, Dudley. Dolores had recently returned from Russia, where she met the beautiful girl who was soon to become her adopted daughter. We miss her terribly, but take great comfort and solace in knowing that her indomitable spirit will live on forever in all of us. Her final act of love was to be an organ donor. Many people will be able to live normal lives as a result of her. Visitation will be held from 8:30 to 9:30a.m., on Wednesday February 11th at the Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home, 31 Arch Street, Greenwich, CT. The funeral services will be at 10:00a.m., at Saint Mary Church, 178 Greenwich Avenue, Greenwich, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations may be contributed in Dolores' name to The Fresh Air Fund 633 Third Avenue, 14th Floor New York, NY 10017 (212)-681-0146 http://www.freshair.org/ Adopt-A-Dog, Inc. 849 Lake Avenue, Greenwich, CT 06831 203-629-9494 http://adopt-a-dog.org/

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Published by GreenwichTime from Feb. 9 to Feb. 11, 2009.

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Farzana Habib

February 20, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about the sudden death of Dolores a wonderful and beloved human being. She seemed to have enriched so many lives around her. We can only wionder why the good are taken away so soon. May God bless her in heaven and comfort all of you who loved her so much .
Sarah

Erin Forrey

February 14, 2009

I am so very sorry for your loss. Dolores was such a genuinely kind and generous person. I know you will miss her dearly. One day I had a minor cut on my finger which needed stitches. Dolores insisted on sitting in the emergency room with me while I waited. I've always thought she was meant to be there because an elderly woman, who had fallen, was wheeled in. The woman was scared, embarrassed, and in pain. Dolores immediately took her under her wing. Not only was she kind and comforting, but she was also the advocate the woman needed in the ER. I could tell that it was just one more act of kindness in a life filled with such acts.

M R

February 13, 2009

I am very sorry for your loss. Please allow God through to his word help you find comfort during this hard time. Remember His promise that soon, he will "wil wipe out every tear from our eyes and death will be no more..."

Beth McGovern

February 12, 2009

Dear Kathy,
Please accept my deepest sympathies. My heart goes out to you and your family at this most difficult time. May all the many happy memories of your sister bring you comfort in the days ahead.

Joel Tumberello

February 12, 2009

I met Dolores through her sister Kathy almost 20 years ago. Her warm and generous spirit and kindness is what I vividly recall. This must be such great and deep sadness for this family that always seemed so close.

James Brady

February 12, 2009

I am extremely saddened at this news. Dolores was a respected client, business person and friend of mine. She always had a smile on her face and treated everyone with dignity and grace at all times. My condolences and prayers go out to her family and friends.

Rick Jensen

February 11, 2009

I have not seen you for years, but when I heard the news yesterday of your passing, of course i remembered you so clearly! Your energy, so clean and refreshingly agenda free, in a city polluted with ego driven agendas. Barbara and I were always going to come and visit you, and then i never did. Your passing is a testament to the preciousness of life. I am blue today remembering you.

Carmel Burke

February 11, 2009

My sister and I first met Dolores when she visited England with our friend Karla. We had a wonderful weekend which resulted in very sore feet after hours of walking. Dolores brought a special magic into the lives of everyone that she met. But that magic will leave us all with very happy memories to treasure. I, like everyone else, will miss her very much. Trips to New York will never be the same. Goodbye Dolores, Love from Carmel xxx

Mel Riggs

February 11, 2009

I met Dolores in the early 1990's when she was assigned to assist our company in a going public transaction. We had the chance to become friends as we spent much time together traveling across the country and overseas during that process. I found Dolores to be one of the most ethical, professional, and dedicated workers I had ever been around. I also learned alot about her personally and especially how much she loved her family. She was extremely proud of her sisters. I came away from that experience thinking that she was "one special human being". As the years have passed our contact was infrequent due to our busy schedules and lives. I planned to be in New York during April of this year and one of my goals was to catch up with her during that trip. Needless to say I was devastated when I heard the news of her passing. My last contact with her was an email she sent me in which she said that she had been thinking of a story I had told her about one of my childhood exploits and the recollection made her laugh. Her note made me smile. Typical of Dolores she was always thinking of others. So, on this day when her friends and family are gathered around her to say goodbye, I am here in Texas unable to attend, but no matter what I hope she knows that today my heart will be in Connecticut.

barbara fasano

February 10, 2009

d, i've been talking to you all day -- we were supposed to have dinner tonight, probably at topaz thai that you loved so much. my mind is filled with great memories from our friendship -- your twinkly eyes, how you hated pretention, your great laugh .. how enchanted eric's father was with you at our engagement party ... i've got great pics, he's clearly smitten with you. you were a GREAT friend, always true-blue, one of a kind. thank you for all of it. godspeed, dear dolores. i'll keep you in my heart always.

Shirley Robinson

February 10, 2009

knew Dolores through my daughter Victoria Poindexter and was sorry to hear of her sudden passing. She was a very generous and caring person.I enjoyed seeing her on my trips to New York. My condolences go to her family. She will be missed.

Maryann Connelly

February 10, 2009

To My Cousins,
Our mothers were first cousins and I know from the countless stories I have heard over the years, that my mother loved your mother dearly and misses her to this day. Although we have lost touch, I have happy memories of playing at Aunt Greta's house and how patient Dolores was with me each time I asked which twin she was. My mother, brothers and I are deeply sorry for your loss and we will remember Dolores and all of you in our prayers.

A friend

February 10, 2009

I read with sadness of the sudden loss of your sister and aunt. I met Dolores briefly as she prepared for adopting a young girl from Russia. In the brief time I spent with her, Dolores' grace was evident. She was an accomplished woman who was modest about those accomplishments. She was a generous person who pleasurably shared her gifts with others as a mentor and pet therapy volunteer. Greatest of all was her love for her family, her sisters and her nieces and nephews. My heartfelt sympathies for your loss of someone so special and dear.

coley bookbinder

February 10, 2009

your generousity ,kindness and loving friendship will truely be missed .

Elisa Foley

February 10, 2009

I met Dolores and her niece and nephew when we were training our dogs (her Dudley and my Hollywood) to become therapy dogs for the Good Dog Foundation; we went on our first hospital visit together. Though I did not know her well, her warmth and friendliness were instantly apparent and I enjoyed our all too brief friendship. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Andrea Rothberg

February 10, 2009

Our family is so sorry to hear of the untimely passing of the dear Aunt of our friend Michael Cooper. May her memory be a blessing.

Lynne Christian

February 10, 2009

IT SADDENS ME TO LEARN OF DOLORES' PASSING. SHE WAS ONE OF THE FIRST CROSS-OVER PROFESSIONALS I MET (ME SALOMON AND DOLORES SMITH BARNEY) AND WE HAD A WONDERFUL WORKING RELATIONSHIP AND FRIENDSHIP. SHE WAS A VERY CARING PERSON; A VERY UNUSUAL TRAIT FOUND ON WALL STREET

9/11 CERTAINLY WAS A DAY IN TIME THAT BONDED US TOGETHER FOREVER. WE ALWAYS MADE CONTACT WITH ONE ANOTHER ON THAT DAY.

MY PRAYERS ARE WITH HER FAMILY AND MY MEMORIES OF DOLORES WILL BE WITH ME ALWAYS.

Mickey Portnoy

February 9, 2009

Delores was a wonderful person and will be sorely missed by her loving family. This was a beautiful tribute to a beautiful, kind and generous person.

Gail Coleman

February 9, 2009

Dolores was a fun, vibrant and special friend. She went out of her way to help me on numerous occasions. I will so miss seeing her with her Russian daughter that she worked so hard for.

Emmet Ong

February 9, 2009

Dolores was a cherished friend and mentor. I will always be grateful for her patience during our time together at Salomon. And for her willingness to recommend me for law school. I will miss her very much.

Lori Tulio

February 9, 2009

Dolores,
You are a loved and cherished friend
and I will miss you greatly.
All my thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Beth Rich

February 9, 2009

This tribute to Dolores is so beautiful. It captures exactly who she was--a unique and special person who was so easily loved by all her knew her.

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