Dr. Richard Marie VALERIOTE
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It is with great sadness that we announce the death of our extraordinary father and our hero, Dr. Richard Marie Valeriote. Dad died Monday, June 14, at 91 years of age, of heart failure. Known as Richie growing up, then as Dick as an adult, Dad overcame enormous obstacles to accomplish more than he ever dreamed was possible.
Dad was born in August of 1929, the 15th of 16 children in Guelph, Ontario, Canada. His parents, first generation Italian immigrants, fell on hard times during the Great Depression. He remembered his mother telling him, after paying for two older brothers' education, "There's nothing left for you. You'll have to make your own way in the world." And he did. He gained admission to McGill University, and persuaded 46 acquaintances and strangers to loan him money for undergraduate and medical degrees at McGill.
At McGill he met the love of his life, Polly Pillet. A year after meeting, they married, and began the family that would eventually comprise five children. Tuberculosis soon separated them, and dad spent a year being treated for TB in a sanitarium. Polly waited for him, and when he recovered, he went back to McGill and finished medical school.
They moved their family first to Flint, Michigan, for Dad to complete his internship. Then, fleeing the cold, they moved to Fairfield, California. Dad embarked on a long and successful career as a family physician, becoming a skilled diagnostician. Before the days of specialized OB/GYNs, he delivered hundreds of babies. Up until recently, when he was out and about in Fairfield, people would greet him and say, "You delivered me!"
A serendipitous event occurred when one patient paid him for his medical services with a parcel of land. That initiated Dad's second, simultaneous career in real estate development. He eventually brought all three of his sons into the development business. Ever the Renaissance man, he loved learning new things. He subsequently added a third career to his resume when he formed the Bank of Fairfield. He remained Chairman of the Board of that bank for years until it was acquired by Bank of the West.
Dad diligently paid back the college loans he had taken from friends and acquaintances. Finally, six years after med school, he paid off the last one. He also repaid the generosity of those benefactors by emulating it. He made large contributions to McGill University and Santa Clara University, and was on the Board of Regents at Santa Clara.
Despite working hard at three jobs, Dad was home every night for family dinner with Polly and his five children. He doted on Mom, who he always said was "the prettiest woman in the room." He drove thousands of miles in the family station wagon and various RVs, exploring much of the US and Canada, and creating wonderful childhood memories for his kids.
Dad wrote a memoir called Alice Street, which was published by his alma mater, McGill University. When the local Barnes and Noble threw a book-signing party for him, people were lined up out the door to have their copies of Alice Street signed, and to express their appreciation for his kind medical care. It was the sort of tribute that usually occurs only when a person has died. We are grateful he was able to enjoy it during his lifetime, with his wife and family present.
Even with all the hardships of growing up hungry and poor and the year suffering with tuberculosis, the greatest tragedy Dad had to face was at the end: watching his wife Polly suffer and die with Parkinson's disease. Going on without her took all his strength, compounded as it was by the Covid 19 lockdown. Alone and isolated after 69 years of marriage, he depended on the love of his children and kind caregivers to assuage his loneliness. Dad's faith in God helped him through this final challenge.
Dick Valeriote is survived by his children: Catherine Valeriote (Richard Anderson), Susan Valeriote (Ken Goldman), Rick Valeriote (Melissa), Chris Valeriote (Julie), and Pat Valeriote. Also by his brother Pacifico Valeriote, and his sister Anna Bordignon. And by his grandchildren: Mattie Goldman Magdovitz (Joe), Mike and Nick Goldman, Ariel and Lauren Kozicki, Talia and Elena Valeriote, Matthew, Jonny (Kiana), Dominic, and Christina Valeriote.
Dad's funeral Mass will be Wednesday, July 7, 11:00 a.m. at Holy Spirit Church, 1070 N Texas St, Fairfield, California. A lunch reception will follow at Paradise Valley Golf Course, 3950 Paradise Valley Dr, Fairfield, CA. Condolences can be sent to Bryan-Baker Funeral Home, 1850 W. Texas St., Fairfield CA (707) 425-4697 (info@bryanbraker.com) or Catherine Valeriote, 2937 Sapra St., Thousand Oaks, CA 91362 (catherinevaleriote@gmail.com). In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Dick to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research would be appreciated by the family.

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Published in Guelph Mercury Tribune on Jun. 18, 2021.
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July 6, 2021
A great Man married to a Great Woman...they created a Great Family and wonderful grandchildren.
Nanci Banman
Friend
July 3, 2021
My earliest memories were of Uncle Richie and Aunt Polly at my grandmother's house when Cathy was a baby. Both of them were awesome people and lots of fun too! The world is a much better place for them having been on it and despite their being on the other side of the continent, they often came for visits, funerals and family reunions and it was always a joyous time. I'm coming down to pay my respects and hopefully, to hear lots of stories celebrating his life and that of his beloved Polly.
Joan Hug-Valeriote
Family
June 26, 2021
As a child, I remember being somewhat overwhelmed and frightened out of sheer respect for Dr. Valeriote. Usually, we might be confronted by him while in the midst of some imbecilic activity that Pat and I were prone to. His compassion and care always shined through as he patiently listened to our absurd explanations of whatever it was we were up to. As I grew into an adult, my perspective of him matured and I remember engaging in fascinating and insightful conversations about God and faith. Dr. Valeriote was extremely inquisitive and always a joy to speak with. He imbued care and confidence in whomever he engaged with and always left you feeling uplifted and with thoughts and ideas to ponder. His impact upon our little town of Fairfield was one of significance and he will.be remembered and missed by many!
Philip Snow
June 25, 2021
I knew Dr. Valeriote in the 1960s and 1970s. He was the family doctor. My family--the Gracyk family in Fairfield--had the greatest respect for him. My parents always spoke highly of him, and I also respected him when I was his patient as a youngster. He helped me with skin cancer and other health problems. He was an outstanding role model for all Fairfield residents. My brothers and I have fond memories of him.
Tim Gracyk
Acquaintance
June 23, 2021
I met Dr. Valeriote in Vacaville about 11 years ago when he was visiting his son. I am a gardener and was complaining about a sore back he at once dined his the physician cap and evaluated me he asked me to bend over and touch the ground which I did quite easily he said you don´t really have any back problems just try to rest and don´t over strain it. Very sound advice and correct. I was privileged enough to get an autographed copy of "Alice St" at that time also, which I still cherish. He was a very kind and straightforward man and I send our deepest condolences to the entire Valeriote family.
Jim and Barbara Lee
Family
June 22, 2021
One of the great men that made our family strong
Brian Keevill
Family
June 20, 2021
Dr. Valeriote was an extraordinary man. He never failed to take a call from me when one of my children was sick. He was kind, gentle and patient. My condolences to the whole Valeriote family .
Katie Harvey Clapp
Family
June 20, 2021
Beautiful tribute, Chris. It's amazing to think of all that he accomplished in his life. Yeah when I visited your home, he always seems like a quiet and humble man always asked about my family as we had three or four kids who are in the same class with you and your brothers and sisters . My thoughts are with all of the Valaria family
Patrick Gonzales
Friend
June 17, 2021
I am honored to share these first thoughts of my father. He was a man among men who could talk with crowds and keep his virtue, but still walk with kings and not lose the common touch. His was a flicking light of brilliance that embodied his faith in his God and his conviction to his family. He was at all times an unfaltering father to me. He was at all times a loving and devoted husband to my mother. An great chasm now divides us from him. He will be forever missed.
christopher l valeriote
Family
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